Fuses are there for a reason. I've had fuses blow due to shorts, but I've never incurred damage because that's why they are there. I'd check a couple things:
1. Check you're cable for damage. If there was a real short, there will likely be some sort of evidence. Check the connectors and and anywhere you have a splice for burnt rubber or discoloration . I agree with born2bwire. It's a power cable...a simple thing. As long as the gauge is larger than required for the amps, phases are matched and the splices are sound, it's a simple connection.
2. You mentioned he was using an aftermarket fuse. Was this fuse properly rated for this application? Bad tubes can overdraw amps and it's possible that it was actually a chain of events that happened. If the amp draw increased past damage point but the fuse was a bit too big then that is a problem. Now saying this is what happened..just thats its possible. Even with a properly sized fuse its possible, because if the amps stayed just below tolerances without spiking it could do alot of damage before the fuse going.
Was there something extraordinary about this setup that wasn't accounted for? Now, this is the part where I might get some heat for. As it was said, why did he use your cord if his was available. My personally belief is that when he opted to use your hand made cord, for whatever the reason, instead of seeking out a professionally made one he assumed the risks. If he paid an electrician to make one and it failed due to incompetence, he might have a case in small claims. Ultimately you have to decide how to handle it, but I don't think your liable for the damages. You might decide to kick in some money because he's your buddy, but don't let him railroad you into paying for damages that he truly can't prove was your fault. Correlation does not equal causation.
Hell, if you can prove the fuse was improper for the job, you could build a case where he should replace your cable! I'm jesting of course, but it's easy to see how this is a crazy situation.