hello. i am boy, ((a whine by a complainer))

PsychoAndy

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i am a boy. not a possesion.

so ive been single forrrrrrrrrrr almost 4 months now. ive had dates and random flings but nothing serious, mostly working with my right hand, as i haven't really met anyone worth my time.
enter sarah
i met sarah through friends at a LAN party and we started to get to know each other on aim, talking almost every single morning when i got off the CS server and she finished one of her movies.
she seems perfect.

well i like to go out on the weekends and sarah being a bit older than me (17, im 16) tells me shes already gone through her gaming and computers and whatever phase so she never wants to play with me. fine by me, she can sit at home or go to the supermarket with her friends when i go out, i mean theres no law that says i cant go out without her. OR IS THERE?
she gets sooooooo upset when i go out with my friends cuz she knows i'm going to play and stay up all night and in her words "LANs are for single people". WHAT? DOES THIS MAKE SENSE TO YOU? i mean, she got upset last weekend when i went to a lan party with a few of my friends A LAN PARTY.

now shes tellin me that some of my friends are bad influences cuz they play DoD and counterstrike or they like the internet or they are losers (this one really upsets me) and she doesnt want me to go out with them as much and i should really start being friends with her friends. she tells me im too smart to be hanging out with my friends and i should be around people that challenge me intellectually.

so she wants me to be around more mature people BUT wants me to be like her little play toy that she can control and take care of?

so, sadly, sarah and her controlling ways has got to go. my friends mean so much to me and ive told her time and time again im not changing for anyone but myself.

maybe im just selfish, but, im young and there are lots of "perfect" girls out there.

*andy. <-- a little sad right now.
 

ElFenix

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hmmm... why do i get this feeling of deja vu... ?
 

UDT89

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dude im 22 and i still find my time for video games. and if a girl doenst like it, then PEACE. its what i am, its part of me. who is she to make judgement of a hobby?
 

Minkee

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Andy I feel your pain man. Last week my GF Palmala left me. But its okay.. I hook up with her best friend Rosy and we have been happy just fooling around.
;0
 

ElFenix

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dat biotch be trippin on you man! you gotsta lay it down and tell it like it is befo' dat biotch be all up in ya!

 

PsychoAndy

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Originally posted by: UDT89
dude im 22 and i still find my time for video games. and if a girl doenst like it, then PEACE. its what i am, its part of me. who is she to make judgement of a hobby?
I know, right? what's up with that?! that's just wrong.

*andy <-- confused
 

Insane3D

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Originally posted by: ElFenix
dat biotch be trippin on you man! you gotsta lay it down and tell it like it is befo' dat biotch be all up in ya!

ROTFLMAO!!! :D:D


You tell her!!
 

Kelvrick

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Originally posted by: Killbat
What's the time frame on this? How long ago did you meet her?

We only met a few weeks ago, but we've progressed so much! Andy, how could you?!
 

Spike

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she seems like she is being a little petty. All relationships are about compromising, but not to the extent that you are changing who you are for the other person, that is just going too far. Try to talk it out with her a little more, tell her exactly how you feel (if you are interested in staying together) If she still insists you change, tell her ciao and go play some CS (but you really need to find a newer game to play, like RTCW or GO ;) )
 

PsychoAndy

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Originally posted by: ElFenix
dat biotch be trippin on you man! you gotsta lay it down and tell it like it is befo' dat biotch be all up in ya!

Yo E-dawg I TOLD her, and i be all like, "what's up esse?! why you gotta be hatin? you betta check yo self" and then she be all weird and crap. So I told her ass to go away, I don't need that kinda crap, knaumean?
 

PsychoAndy

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Originally posted by: Spike
she seems like she is being a little petty. All relationships are about compromising, but not to the extent that you are changing who you are for the other person, that is just going too far. Try to talk it out with her a little more, tell her exactly how you feel (if you are interested in staying together) If she still insists you change, tell her ciao and go play some CS (but you really need to find a newer game to play, like RTCW or GO ;) )

but i have been open and honest with her right from the start about all these things, i dont understand why she would pursue me then try to change me once we were more serious.

Originally posted by: Minkee
Andy I feel your pain man. Last week my GF Palmala left me. But its okay.. I hook up with her best friend Rosy and we have been happy just fooling around.
;0
They'd probably give me more action than them. :(
 

Kelvrick

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Originally posted by: PsychoAndy
Originally posted by: ElFenix
dat biotch be trippin on you man! you gotsta lay it down and tell it like it is befo' dat biotch be all up in ya!

Yo E-dawg I TOLD her, and i be all like, "what's up esse?! why you gotta be hatin? you betta check yo self" and then she be all weird and crap. So I told her ass to go away, I don't need that kinda crap, knaumean?

You did NOT say what I think you just said! What you be doin comin up in hee'zz talkin like you a big man? I dun bust my proud butt at the laundrymat all day stealing quartas so you can sit around with yo'll can sittz around with yo "lan" homies! You best get the lotion and starts the messaging on my corns!
 

SSP

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Should I ruin the fun now? or go to sleep?


Hmm... I think I'll go to sleep now. :D
 

PsychoAndy

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Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Originally posted by: PsychoAndy
Originally posted by: ElFenix
dat biotch be trippin on you man! you gotsta lay it down and tell it like it is befo' dat biotch be all up in ya!

Yo E-dawg I TOLD her, and i be all like, "what's up esse?! why you gotta be hatin? you betta check yo self" and then she be all weird and crap. So I told her ass to go away, I don't need that kinda crap, knaumean?

You did NOT say what I think you just said! What you be doin comin up in hee'zz talkin like you a big man? I dun bust my proud butt at the laundrymat all day stealing quartas so you can sit around with yo'll can sittz around with yo "lan" homies! You best get the lotion and starts the messaging on my corns!
They don't need to hear this from you! Why you gotta be frontin? Get back in the kitchen and make me some pie. You know better than to come out her, spoutin trash outta yo bitch mouth, makin people think things.

 

TNTrulez

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Originally posted by: PsychoAndy
Originally posted by: ElFenix
dat biotch be trippin on you man! you gotsta lay it down and tell it like it is befo' dat biotch be all up in ya!

Yo E-dawg I TOLD her, and i be all like, "what's up esse?! why you gotta be hatin? you betta check yo self" and then she be all weird and crap. So I told her ass to go away, I don't need that kinda crap, knaumean?

yea you go man tell her off