...okay, I want pics of whatever contraption you're making. I doubt I can offer much insight, I just wanna see it.
Three side by side means ones an idler to reverse rotation, right? So the driving gear pushes the idler in one direction, and the idler pushes the gear it subsequently drives in the opposite direction, with the net effect basically being the forces of the input and output gears working together to murder the idler, I would think. Which would explain why reverse is typically a spur gear; makes the needed idler subject to ZERO axial thrust instead of what I would logically assume is twice the load your foward gears would see.
So you'd want some damned beefy bearings on the thrust side of the idler. Or a set of six gears, set up as opposing pairs.
Again, though, I can't quite grasp what exactly it is you're trying to accomplish, TBQH? If you're literally running the gears backwards...input and output swapping jobs...the thrust bearing for your idler would be on the wrong side.