I checked all the pins, and unless something is lost in translation, the header I have seems ok.
My serial port is still not working.

I'm reading this as IDC10 plug pinout from the driection as if Im looking into the holes on the IDC
2-1
4-3
6-5=
8-7
10-9
The = is the key.
I have
idc 1 to db9 1
idc 3 to db9 2
idc 5 to db9 3
etc
7=4
9=5
2=6
4=7
6=8
8=9
The DB9 end is all 9 male pins in a housing, to have a mouse plugged into it.
I'm assuming that DB9 pinout linked above is for a male pin setup, and I'm looking at the pin numbering based on that.
http://i42.tinypic.com/2zoxj40.gif
Unless I'm confused, this is the right header, but my serial port does not work. It's enabled in the bios. Windows says it's fine, but nothing, so it sure seems like this cable is the issue, but... Any ideas?
UPDATE:
THIS page seems to imply a different wiring.
Maybe there is more than one setup for these header cables?