Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
He is 1/2 black and 1/2 white, I am Chinese, and we are both American. I'd like them to have a Chinese middle name.
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
He is 1/2 black and 1/2 white, I am Chinese, and we are both American. I'd like them to have a Chinese middle name.
sometimes I think it is pointless to keep a ethnic name due to discrimination and such, however at times it seems important to maintain some type of heritage.
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
Originally posted by: tami
i haven't thought of names yet, but i have a cousin (to be) that already named 2 of her children (and she's only been dating this guy for 1 -- yes, one -- month)...
one thing is certain.. i would not choose an eclectic name. it would have to be consistent with my nationality and my religion. i hate it when people make assumptions about people based on names. i'm going to try to eliminate that perception.
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
He is 1/2 black and 1/2 white, I am Chinese, and we are both American. I'd like them to have a Chinese middle name.
sometimes I think it is pointless to keep a ethnic name due to discrimination and such, however at times it seems important to maintain some type of heritage.
I figured the middle name was a nice solution to that quandary.![]()
Originally posted by: edmicman
Names are just a forced identity put on by The Man. My children will be free and go nameless!
Originally posted by: TheAudit
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
I like Nila for name.
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: TheAudit
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
I like Nila for name.
Thank you!
On a different note, I think girls can "get away" with more exotic/crazy names than boys. i.e. you can name a girl "Apple", but if you named a boy the same he'd never live it down. True story, I have two cousins... their parents wanted them to have "Westernized names", so my aunt watched cartoons and decided to name the children "He-Man" (a boy) and "She-Ra".
He-Man turned out to be a very sweet but skinny little Chinese guy, and She-Ra is a pretty Chinese girl. He-Man got so much crap he changed his name to "Kevin", but everyone still calls "Shera"... well, "Shera".
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: TheAudit
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
I like Nila for name.
Thank you!
On a different note, I think girls can "get away" with more exotic/crazy names than boys. i.e. you can name a girl "Apple", but if you named a boy the same he'd never live it down. True story, I have two cousins... their parents wanted them to have "Westernized names", so my aunt watched cartoons and decided to name the children "He-Man" (a boy) and "She-Ra".
He-Man turned out to be a very sweet but skinny little Chinese guy, and She-Ra is a pretty Chinese girl. He-Man got so much crap he changed his name to "Kevin", but everyone still calls "Shera"... well, "Shera".
thats fvcked up.
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: TheAudit
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
I like Nila for name.
Thank you!
On a different note, I think girls can "get away" with more exotic/crazy names than boys. i.e. you can name a girl "Apple", but if you named a boy the same he'd never live it down. True story, I have two cousins... their parents wanted them to have "Westernized names", so my aunt watched cartoons and decided to name the children "He-Man" (a boy) and "She-Ra".
He-Man turned out to be a very sweet but skinny little Chinese guy, and She-Ra is a pretty Chinese girl. He-Man got so much crap he changed his name to "Kevin", but everyone still calls "Shera"... well, "Shera".
thats fvcked up.
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: TheAudit
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
I like Nila for name.
Thank you!
On a different note, I think girls can "get away" with more exotic/crazy names than boys. i.e. you can name a girl "Apple", but if you named a boy the same he'd never live it down. True story, I have two cousins... their parents wanted them to have "Westernized names", so my aunt watched cartoons and decided to name the children "He-Man" (a boy) and "She-Ra".
He-Man turned out to be a very sweet but skinny little Chinese guy, and She-Ra is a pretty Chinese girl. He-Man got so much crap he changed his name to "Kevin", but everyone still calls "Shera"... well, "Shera".
thats fvcked up.
I think it's nice that they tried, but unfortunately He-Man got stuck with... He-Man. He still gets mad when I call him that, I think he changed it when he turned 13/14 or so.
Originally posted by: AgentEL
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: TheAudit
Originally posted by: Tomato
My fiance and I have chosen the names for our future children... girl = Nila, boy = James.
I like Nila for name.
Thank you!
On a different note, I think girls can "get away" with more exotic/crazy names than boys. i.e. you can name a girl "Apple", but if you named a boy the same he'd never live it down. True story, I have two cousins... their parents wanted them to have "Westernized names", so my aunt watched cartoons and decided to name the children "He-Man" (a boy) and "She-Ra".
He-Man turned out to be a very sweet but skinny little Chinese guy, and She-Ra is a pretty Chinese girl. He-Man got so much crap he changed his name to "Kevin", but everyone still calls "Shera"... well, "Shera".
thats fvcked up.
seconded.
Originally posted by: SacrosanctFiend
The woman decided that the names would be Alexa for a girl and Aiden for a boy, after I offered up Onenn and Vougay. She also decided to make that month "Sex Free Month" and ignored me for two days.
