Have you ever been bullied before? Come inside...

Mai72

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Bullying is a national epidemic and it has some major consequences.

I remember being bullied. I was walking home and this kid said to me "look at that f*ckin loser." Then this big kid punched me in the stomach and I ran home. I had to duck from this kid because I was terrified that he was going to physically kill me. You know what? He did kill me. He killed my spirit and stole my soul! I will never forgive him for as long as I live! :'(

Have you been bullied in the past? If so, what did you do? Did you run and hide?
 

MongGrel

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I do, was a couple guys a several years older than me.

I was being pushed down a hill.

I told him do that again I'll punch you in the face.

He did, and I punched him in the face.

I got my ass kicked but he never did it again, and his attitude changed a hell of a lot.

His friend ragged on him about that one afterwards I'm sure, they were both much older at the time.
 
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Mai72

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I do, was a couple guys a couple years older than me.

I was being pushed down a hill.

I told him do that again I'll punch you in the face.

He did, and I punched him in the face.

I got my ass kicked but he never did it again, and his attitude changed a hell of a lot.

You didn't run? :eek:
 

MongGrel

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No.

Must be one of the reasons I joined the Marines later, got me.

I did never like that kind of thing.
 
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ThatsABigOne

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I was name called for my name for about a week. Talked to the school administration and it stopped.

If my kid, if I will have one, gets bullied, I will tell him to punch that bastard as hard as you can, or talk to me/school administration.
 

BoomerD

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I do, was a couple guys a several years older than me.

I was being pushed down a hill.

I told him do that again I'll punch you in the face.

He did, and I punched him in the face.

I got my ass kicked but he never did it again, and his attitude changed a hell of a lot.

His friend ragged on him about that one afterwards I'm sure, they were both much older at the time.

My dad was a USAF lifer...we moved all the fucking time...and every new school, the local bullies all had to see what kind of crap I'd take. I learned quickly that the more you take...the more they'll give...so I didn't take any. First time one of them tried their shit...the fight was on...and if I can't beat you with my fists/feet, I'll find a rock or stick...and I don't have any quit in me.
Possibly the reason I also enlisted in the Corps...


You didn't run? :eek:

Only pussies and losers run from an ass-kicking.

There's nothing wrong with walking away from a fight...IF doing so doesn't label you a coward and easy pickings...that will only generate more trouble for you down the road. Stand up for yourself...even if it means taking a whooping. You USUALLY gain their respect...and you learn how to fight better.
 

sourn

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Nope.

Some tried, but I was taught it's better to get your ass whooped then run away or tattle. Needless I did get my ass beat some, but they also felt it the next morning. We usually became friends afterwards.

I do remember walking away from one guy, but it wasn't because I was scared of him. It was because he was the guy that always started shit with everybody and always got his ass whipped. I felt bad for him, but the next day I did end up having to whip his ass because he just wouldn't quit. Got suspended for that one, but nobody held it against me (the principle was even laughing with my parents, but he had to because of school policy).
 

pcgeek11

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my dad was a usaf lifer...we moved all the fucking time...and every new school, the local bullies all had to see what kind of crap i'd take. I learned quickly that the more you take...the more they'll give...so i didn't take any. First time one of them tried their shit...the fight was on...and if i can't beat you with my fists/feet, i'll find a rock or stick...and i don't have any quit in me.
Possibly the reason i also enlisted in the corps...

only pussies and losers run from an ass-kicking.

There's nothing wrong with walking away from a fight...if doing so doesn't label you a coward and easy pickings...that will only generate more trouble for you down the road. Stand up for yourself...even if it means taking a whooping. You usually gain their respect...and you learn how to fight better.

this x1000.
 

Dice144

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I agree, stand up for yourself. I use to let bullies mess with me. Then in middle school start beating up the bullies. Later joined the Army (I see a military trend here)
 

zanejohnson

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been on both ends of that asswhooping lol


dont bully

if your bullied, kick there ass or make them associate ass kicking to bullying (as in kick some ass)

bully situation solved. i didnt ever join the service (but i know better than to get in a fight with a servicemen, for what that matters)
 

Kadarin

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It happened once, in high school... The guy outweighed me, but was fat. I eventually had to pick him up and throw him into the lockers in the hallway, and after that he just wanted to be my friend.

The way to deal with bullies is to fight back with a show of force. It's a lot like showing a dog that you're dominant, not him.
 

Fenixgoon

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Jun 30, 2003
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yep. my soccer team didn't like me much. and by that i mean they hated me. never physical, but i got plenty of shit every day at practice. it felt like torture. should i have quit the game i loved instead of sticking it out? it felt like a loss either way. perhaps i would have lost less had i quit the team for the season.
 

TridenT

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Relevant story for other members.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbrFXo7j-XU&list=UUxw-YwaBR9lVa1fmreWy94g

Not everyone responds to you fighting back. That's how the bullying I got was. No matter what I did I couldn't do anything. School administration didn't do anything about it either. I got kicked, punched, my head bashed into a concrete wall more than once, tossed around, endless harassment, etc. Teachers and principals just turned their eye even when they saw it happen.

Racism, it's a thing. EDIT: The ironic part is that I'm white, btw. But, you know, rural white people don't really know anything about race. So, if you tan, you're obviously a beloved patriot or terrorist.
 
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adairusmc

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Once, in 5th grade. It never really bothered me until I was walking away from this kid and he hit me in the back of the head. I had my backback full of school books to use as a weapon of opportunity, and swung it around as hard as I could and hit the kid in the head with it. He got a bad concussion and nearly bit his tongue off, and I got suspended. He never said a word to me for the rest of our time in school after that.

His parents confronted my grandfather and threatened to sue, but he remember him reminding them that we did not have any trauma specialists in our hospital at the time, and it would not be in their best interests to sue. They didn't.

I did end up also joining the Marine Corps
 

DigDog

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i was treated like sh*t in high school because i was fat and slow.
then i took gym class and nobody bothered me ever again.
 

John Connor

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Don't think I can classify it as being bullied rather than just fucked around with. But I did my fare share of ass kicking in my day and helped institue a rule in Elementary school for no more than 4 to a group. LOL! I have knocked one person out in my life and have broke a man's nose. I have been punched in the gut which knocks the fucking wind out of you and have been hit in the nose when we were fucking around. The nose hurts like a BITCH!
 

bpatters69

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I would be amazed if everyone were not bullied at one point or another. Its usually due to the fact that you are the new kid in town, aren't that good at sports or are going through a "gawky" phase. The fix is what most have already said - stand your ground and do not walk away from a fight. Most bullies are worthless. They are looking for the easy target and if that is you, and you do not take them on, you can expect the bullying and the bullies to multiply until you find some cajones. Wish that were not the case but that is how it works.
 

dr150

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My brother and I attended blue-collar schools where everybody got in a fight at one point in time.

The great majority got into fights several times. Serious fights where bones were broken (like The Outsiders final gang fight scene).

You either fought and got your ass kicked to be left alone or continue the misery of being bullied as other kids/would-be contenders would see you as soffft.

In my case, my brother and I were always the taller guys in the class and it was always the littler guys who would start shit.

I was the peace-loving "couldn't hurt a fly" kid so verbal abuse would happen, which led to braver "testing" of pushing by the bully. I walked away, which was a mistake. Soon, other smaller kids started seeing me as pillow soft. Sadly, my 1 yr. younger brother was also taken as soft, b/c I was soft. The verbal/mental abuse at the beginning was getting annoying and we often talked about setting examples and being at each other's fights for backup. But we didn't want to follow though.

...Until one feared "super bully" (a small kid who was kicking many people's ass) and his posse in class started verbally abusing my brother -- for weeks. My brother, unafraid, was biding his time waiting for his fight meter to go off. One day, in class the bully went at him again with more serious threats. My 15 yr. old 6'5" brother fight meter popped when the superbully took brass knuckles from his friend. My brother had enough. He reached over behind him with his long arm, grabbed him by the neck, threw him in front of the chalkboard and proceeded to ground and pound the living shit out of him. It eventually took 2 adult male teachers to separate him from the kid as one male teacher wasn't enough (the other teacher was the meathead HS football coach). The kid's head was blood red with concussion. My brother almost broke his hand on his skull from the relentless 5 minute pounding (my brother has no "OFF" button...he would have killed him). From then on my brother was left alone, not to be fucked with even by the strongest jock.

I learned from my brother's example so when a smaller relentless bully "tested" me by finally taking a shove at me, I didn't wait and threw the first punch. There must have been 20-30 other HS street punks surrounding us. I landed about 15 hard jabs with no hits to my face, before the police showed up. RESULT: I broke the kid's face in half. Gushing blood everywhere. Ripped mouth, loose/lost teeth(?). Broken nose possibly. It was an epic clown stomp. The only damage I had was cut knuckles from his teeth hitting my fist. The kid couldn't even look at me in the face after that fight.

The smaller bullies in HS finally reached a conclusion that maybe it's not a good idea to fuck with "gentle giant" kids that have a height/strength/weight/reach advantage.....especially fit brothers who wrestled and punched-trained each other for good fun every day at home.

After our fights and suspensions, our parents branded us as thugs, and to this very day, can't fucking understand the concept that you either fought or be relentlessly bullied the rest of your school career.....Whatever.

My genes guarantee my kids to be even bigger than me...AND they'll be trained in MMA, just in case. Let the symbolic clown stomping examples begin if kids decide to go after them. :colbert:
 
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Rakehellion

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Have you ever been hated or discriminated against? I have. I've been protested and demonstrated against.
 

Maximilian

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Early in high school, I was teased by one particular kid though never physically hurt although had I retaliated or said anything back no doubt I would have been because I saw this kid beat the shit out of a much bigger guy once. After that display all thoughts of retaliation left my head. This kid that teased me died of leukemia when he was ~15 anyway.
 

z1ggy

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Swift kicks to the testicles will stop 90% of bullying. Sure maybe you take a beating for it after... but nobody wants their balls smashed everytime they make fun of you. If it's so bad that kicking people in the balls won't stop it, then you need to go to school admin/police.
 

manimal

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I had a very rough time with bullying. I was a foreign kid moved to the us when I was six. After testing I was accelerated three grades and was put in with MUCH bigger kids. Didnt help that I was not around much because I was doing equity work as a kid. I did touring productions and got to miss weeks at a time. I had great tutors on tour so I was learning faster than the kids in my classes. When ever I came back to school the kids were really horrible. One day on the school bus I was cornered by three older kids who were hitting. I broke one kids nose and I put another in a headlock that I didnt let go even when the bus monitor pulled over and tried to pry me off the kid. He started crying and I held on till my arms couldnt any more. That day when I went to class later a couple of kids started to say something to me and I picked up my trapper keeper and started hitting them with it and I dragged one kid out of the class by his hair. I then locked myself in a bathroom till my family came to get me. After that day I immediately hit anyone in the face who looked at me sideways. I wasnt allowed to go recess after I broke a kids nose so bad he had to go to the emergency room and his parents took my family to court.

Bullying is a national epidemic right now. Kids shouldnt be killing themselves because they are getting bullied and dont have anywhere to escape. The bullying follows them home on social media and texts. Its awful and not necessary.

I am now teaching my four year old triplets Jiu Jitsu and Karate and to defend themselves. My son is really small for his age and I refuse to let him or my girls be victims. They have my permission to put anyone in a armbar or worse if they get picked on......
 

dr150

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Swift kicks to the testicles will stop 90% of bullying. Sure maybe you take a beating for it after... but nobody wants their balls smashed everytime they make fun of you. If it's so bad that kicking people in the balls won't stop it, then you need to go to school admin/police.

Nut shots in a fight are difficult and considered cowardly.

Better: Karate chop to the throat will stop anybody. Even a light hit.

But must be careful to not use too much force otherwise you can really fuck a person up.