- Mar 4, 2011
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The forum seems slow and boring lately, so I'll start a story thread. Anyone been in a dangerous situation as a kid? I just remembered mine:
I was probably about 9, or 10 at best. Now this is back in Seoul, South Korea in the early 90's- a bustling metropolis bigger than NYC in size and population.
Back then, 8+ year old kids all wandered around all day without parental supervision. We just did our own stuff- play tag, big neighborhood capture the flag, go to arcades, all that fun stuff.
We were without adults because that was the cultural norm. We just told our parents we were going out after school, then came home by sun set. Looking back, it felt safe too, I never felt I was in a danger from pervs or kidnappers. I don't know if I can support it, but it was better back then. I never heard of kidnapping or pedophiles in the news (or anyone in my big neighborhood). Also, the kids being on the street so much, they were clever little fvckers who will outwit and run circles around the kids of same age today (think Portman from The Professional). The real dangers were same-age fights and bullies.
Anyways, I remember this one incident. I was coming home from the arcades. It was dark and late, probably 10 PM-ish. Walking home alone in the dark was not unusual, but normal. I hit this one stretch of dark alley and suddenly this older man popped out. He was probably in his 40's.
He approached me and asked how I was doing. I was cautious because Koreans aren't small-talkers to strangers, especially adults to kids, they usually ignore the kids. I said I was fine. He then held my hand and said, "Let's take a walk together!" And we started walking. I was getting ready to bolt if it got any weirder, but I decided to wait.
So here we are, a man and a child, holding hands in a dark alley and he was talking to me about strange stuff. He kept saying 'we have to be patriotic to our nation.' 'You have to listen to your old man.' I also noticed that he talked very differently. His accent... obviously not the standard Seoul, it wasn't any country accents of Pusan or SE/SW parts of Korea either. Even as a kid, I watched lots of TV/movies and met lots of people. I knew what all accents of Korea sounded like. And he sounded like none of them. His tone was different and he used strange old words like 'comrade', 'nationalistic', and older versions of 'mom' and 'dad'.
We walked on and he kept lecturing me about the country and being a good son for the future, while firmly holding on to my hand. He wasn't hurting me and his demeanor remained very friendly, and I was ready to bounce any second.
Then next thing I know, he said "okay off you go now, good night." then let me go. I was like WTF? I went home and forgot about the incident soon after. I didn't even bother telling my parents either.
I look back to this incident on random occasions now, probably once every 10 years or so. Now, it's obvious he was a North Korean spy. There are thousands of North Korean spies in South Korea now. Because they're indeed Koreans, speak the same language and look the same, they blend in perfectly and live amongst us. I don't know what the man's intention was. But what scares me today is that he could've been a kidnapper.
The spies are notorious for abducting kids and they are never found again.
They do the same for South Koreans too.
What if he was thinking of kidnapping me? And for whatever reason, he decided against it?
Crazy stuff.
I was probably about 9, or 10 at best. Now this is back in Seoul, South Korea in the early 90's- a bustling metropolis bigger than NYC in size and population.
Back then, 8+ year old kids all wandered around all day without parental supervision. We just did our own stuff- play tag, big neighborhood capture the flag, go to arcades, all that fun stuff.
We were without adults because that was the cultural norm. We just told our parents we were going out after school, then came home by sun set. Looking back, it felt safe too, I never felt I was in a danger from pervs or kidnappers. I don't know if I can support it, but it was better back then. I never heard of kidnapping or pedophiles in the news (or anyone in my big neighborhood). Also, the kids being on the street so much, they were clever little fvckers who will outwit and run circles around the kids of same age today (think Portman from The Professional). The real dangers were same-age fights and bullies.
Anyways, I remember this one incident. I was coming home from the arcades. It was dark and late, probably 10 PM-ish. Walking home alone in the dark was not unusual, but normal. I hit this one stretch of dark alley and suddenly this older man popped out. He was probably in his 40's.
He approached me and asked how I was doing. I was cautious because Koreans aren't small-talkers to strangers, especially adults to kids, they usually ignore the kids. I said I was fine. He then held my hand and said, "Let's take a walk together!" And we started walking. I was getting ready to bolt if it got any weirder, but I decided to wait.
So here we are, a man and a child, holding hands in a dark alley and he was talking to me about strange stuff. He kept saying 'we have to be patriotic to our nation.' 'You have to listen to your old man.' I also noticed that he talked very differently. His accent... obviously not the standard Seoul, it wasn't any country accents of Pusan or SE/SW parts of Korea either. Even as a kid, I watched lots of TV/movies and met lots of people. I knew what all accents of Korea sounded like. And he sounded like none of them. His tone was different and he used strange old words like 'comrade', 'nationalistic', and older versions of 'mom' and 'dad'.
We walked on and he kept lecturing me about the country and being a good son for the future, while firmly holding on to my hand. He wasn't hurting me and his demeanor remained very friendly, and I was ready to bounce any second.
Then next thing I know, he said "okay off you go now, good night." then let me go. I was like WTF? I went home and forgot about the incident soon after. I didn't even bother telling my parents either.
I look back to this incident on random occasions now, probably once every 10 years or so. Now, it's obvious he was a North Korean spy. There are thousands of North Korean spies in South Korea now. Because they're indeed Koreans, speak the same language and look the same, they blend in perfectly and live amongst us. I don't know what the man's intention was. But what scares me today is that he could've been a kidnapper.
The spies are notorious for abducting kids and they are never found again.
They do the same for South Koreans too.
What if he was thinking of kidnapping me? And for whatever reason, he decided against it?
Crazy stuff.