Has jumping from the friend to relationship ladder/zone EVER been successfully completed?

[PricklyPete]

If you go into the friendship hoping for more...no...if you go into the relationship on a purely plutonic level (from your perspective), then yes.

i.e. if you are the desparate one...no...if she is the desparate one..yes.

 

[Stark]

I've never seen it happen.

 

[Hammer]

yes, happens all the time. your friend is just not attracted to you.

 

[acemcmac]

it's in the future with my most back burner of fvck buddies... there are just some external issues that need to be worked out first....

 

[gigapet]

It happened to me once....However I put myself on the friend ladder to begin with by being foolish. I did not know any better at the time. After two weeks of knwoing her i told her i really liked her...I laugh at this now knowing that is a major NO NO! She obviously put me on the friend ladder right then and there.

we got really close over about 3 months while living in florence. But nothing not even a kiss during that time. I get back from a roadtrip after being gone for about a week. She comes over to my apartment to see how the trip was. after about an hour or two of bullshitting she busts out "do you want to fvck?" just like that...in those exact words. We were somewhat of an item for the remainder of my time in the country. THen we parted ways. Sadly she lives on the otherside of the country in cali She is the only girl i ever viewed as a potential wifey too.