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Guys that are way too overprotective

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slimrhcp

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I hate dudes that smother their girls. Case in point....

The other night I went out with some people to celebrate a guy's 22nd birthday. We'll call him K. His girl is a Russian chick, we'll call her L. Another girl that's out with us is a "free-spirited" girl, we'll call her D. One of my close friends was there too, we might as well use her real name, Katie. Another couple random people attended. We went out to the college bars in the Baltimore suburb known as Towson.

Of course drinks are flowing (except for me, got all my partying out my first two years of college). We do the bar crawl. We get to our last stop for the night. L and I have little conversations in russian throughout the night (my ex of four years was russian so I'm pretty proficient). L and I would tease each other in good fun, at least I thought.

2am rolls around and we're all outside. After party plans are being made. Meanwhile L and I are still going back and forth in Russian. K had been an ass to me the whole night for whatever reason (he can never get along with any guys). I decided I wasn't going to the after party so I said my goodbyes. Right as I was leaving I said "I'll see you bitches later" to the group. Then L responds by saying "I'm not a bitch!" She then calls me a bitch in Russian. I respond in kind and tell her to "go to the devil" in Russian.

The whole night, K doesn't understand anything I'm saying, and decides he's going to fight me. I get like 50feet away and I hear people starting to call his name. I turn around and he rolls up to me. I got my hands up at like 90 degrees but not a full fighting stance. The dude shoulders me and pushes his body up against me. I grabbed his arms and held them at his side without really any resistance from him. He started saying to me "You're f*cking with my girl....why you f*cking with my girl....." Just stupid incoherent drunken babble. Meanwhile the only one that comes to calm things down is D. I'm talking to him saying he needs to calm down and that it's his birthday and not to ruin it for himself. Being the idiot that he was, while I was holding him I pummelled my way to double underhooks in case he got more out of control. After him being a dick for about a minute, I let go of my hooks and just pushed him back like 8 feet. He meanwhile everyone is just standing watching him instigate a fight with me. Eventually people grab him and bring him back.

So the night ends with me going home, while everyone else went to the after party. I get a call early this afternoon from Katie. Apparently even though I was the only one that had not been drinking, I was the instigator and the ass****.

Cliffs
Went out with friends and an insecure bf for his birthday
I'm the only sober person
Girl is paying attention to me, and speaking to me in Russian
I'm not interested in her, make fun of her
I go to leave and bf tries to fight me
Group thinks I'm an ass even though I handled the situation well
I hate insecure/overprotective boyfriends

/rant
 
those are weird names, who names their kids just a letter? 😕


p.s. isn't this a YAGT? maybe the perverts in the pervert forum would enjoy your story of people with names that are just letters
 
Stop hanging out with him? Or at least stop speaking to his girlfriend all night in Russian. Its a small favor that will keep you out of a lot of trouble. He has no clue that its a platonic encounter, all he hears is you teasing her in Russian. Being drunk its not hard to interpret that as flirting! Is he an ass? Yes, but you can help avoid that situation too.
 
so you are speaking to someone in a group setting using another language that the rest of the group doesn't understand? That sounds pretty rude, but I guess I wasn't there.

3/10 your rant is way to calm
 
Yeah, they suck. We had a poster here a few months ago ranting about how much his (attached) friend sucked for hitting on 3 girls they went out with that he "specifically told him not to talk to", like the chicks were children or property or something. It's sad when a guy needs to flex his chauvinistic/insecurity muscles that much.
 
I didn't read it all, but after I saw that there were young men, women and drinking involved I thought the conclusion was pretty obvious.
 
Actually she told him that I had offended her. So he got all bent out of shape that someone would dare say something offensive to his girl. Yet it was cool for her to say the stuff she was saying? She told me in Russian to "go sit on a dick." I told her in English that I don't like Russian girls because of how they act. It's definitely not cool that I said stuff to her smiling, while she said stuff to me when she was angry. Essentially, I was having a good time joking around, whereas she meant what she said. And if the dude was so worried about conversations in other languages, he can go and learn Russian like I did when I turned 18.
 
Originally posted by: Descartes
I didn't read it all, but after I saw that there were young men, women and drinking involved I thought the conclusion was pretty obvious.
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I was the only person that didn't drink that night.
 
I think I missed the point of the story. Was the OP bragging about being able to speak Russian, bragging about having had a girlfriend at some point in the past, or bragging about being a tough guy?
 
1) it was rude to talk in a different language the others could not understand. so understandable the guy thought you were hitting n her (which i am sure you were).

2) you called them all bitches. which yes you did not mean anything by it. but obviously the Russian girl did not understand it.

3) you respond by telling her to "go to the devil" then storm off

yeah i can understand why her boyfriend was pissed. you were an asshole.
 
Sounds like boyfriend is doing the right thing.

If somebody said something offensive to my girl I'd do something about it as well. That's an easy way to get into a fight, say something rude/offensive to somebody's girl.
 
Originally posted by: FoBoT
those are weird names, who names their kids just a letter? 😕


p.s. isn't this a YAGT? maybe the perverts in the pervert forum would enjoy your story of people with names that are just letters
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He probably thinks the assholes in this forum would enjoy his story more ... figured you could relate to the drunk, jealous guy.
 
Originally posted by: waggy
1) it was rude to talk in a different language the others could not understand. so understandable the guy thought you were hitting n her (which i am sure you were).

2) you called them all bitches. which yes you did not mean anything by it. but obviously the Russian girl did not understand it.

3) you respond by telling her to "go to the devil" then storm off

yeah i can understand why her boyfriend was pissed. you were an asshole.
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Well said Waggy
 
I forgot a couple important things related to the story.....

Back in March, my friend Katie was celebrating her birthday. I was there along with two of my best friends. The lovely couple K and L are at the celebration as well. They sit next to me and my friends at the restaurant. My friends were trying to be polite and talk to the guy, not even worrying about the girl. He's being an ass again for no reason. I had to leave the restaurant early because how he was treating my friends. For one, I'd known his girl for like a year and I thought she was a cool chick. I also didn't want to cause a scene.

Fast forward to the night before the incident outside the bar. I was at my friend's apartment and the couple was there. They were fighting in front of everyone and sitting on opposite sides of the apartment. I told them that they shouldn't fight anymore and should be spending quality time with eachother. Yet 24 hours later I'm the villain.
 
Your subject of this thread is guys that are overprotective/smother their girlfriends. Yet the body of your post has absolutely nothing to do with it.
 
My suggestion is to continue partying.

Of course drinks are flowing (except for me, got all my partying out my first two years of college).
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You might have got all of the partying out of you, but you still come off as immature.
 
Originally posted by: waggy
1) it was rude to talk in a different language the others could not understand. so understandable the guy thought you were hitting n her (which i am sure you were).

2) you called them all bitches. which yes you did not mean anything by it. but obviously the Russian girl did not understand it.

3) you respond by telling her to "go to the devil" then storm off

yeah i can understand why her boyfriend was pissed. you were an asshole.
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1) Every time I spoke to her in English or Russian it ended with me disqualifying her. I really can not stand Russian girls anymore.

2) No one else took offense besides her because apparently she loves drama.

3) She called me a bitch in Russian, then she told me to "go sit on a dick" in Russian, which prompted the devil comment.
 
Originally posted by: waggy
1) it was rude to talk in a different language the others could not understand. so understandable the guy thought you were hitting n her (which i am sure you were).

2) you called them all bitches. which yes you did not mean anything by it. but obviously the Russian girl did not understand it.

3) you respond by telling her to "go to the devil" then storm off

yeah i can understand why her boyfriend was pissed. you were an asshole.
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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
You might have got all of the partying out of you, but you still come off as immature.
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I agree with the above.
 
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