Guys: In love with a girl, but too scared to ask her out?

[Chaotic42]

Take my advice. Do it.

Go ahead, call her up. The worst thing she can say is "no".

You see, a few years ago, I was in love with this girl. My friend was dating her, so that presented a problem. In 2001 they broke up. I went out on a date with her, but never asked her out again. I've never seen her again.

I just moved back down here, so I thought I'd finally make my move. The worst thing she can say is "no" right?

No, it's "I got married last June".

So go ask your girl out. You'll live no matter what happens, trust me.

 

[DanTMWTMP]

ouch...

 

[fs5]

your friend was dating the girl before you? If you're any kind of friend you wouldn't have dated her in the first place!

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: DanTMWTMP
ouch...

It's alright. She's hot too though. No, I don't have any pics.

I'll live. Perhaps my sole purpose in life is to have had that happen, convince someone here to ask a girl out, and maybe their kid will find a cure for cancer or AIDS!

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: fivespeed5
your friend was dating the girl before you? If you're any kind of friend you wouldn't have dated her in the first place!

He didn't care and he screwed me out of ~$2000 just before I went out with her.

 

[DaWhim]

no....don't think that apply to a girl that is taken.

 

[bradruth]

Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Take my advice. Do it.

Go ahead, call her up. The worst thing she can say is "no".

Seconded. It's better than wondering what would have been, even if she says no...or says yes and doesn't call.

 

[fs5]

Originally posted by: Chaotic42

Originally posted by: fivespeed5
your friend was dating the girl before you? If you're any kind of friend you wouldn't have dated her in the first place!

He didn't care and he screwed me out of ~$2000 just before I went out with her.

then he's probably not your friend if he screwed you out of $2000
but even if the other person didn't care and I considered him my friend I probably wouldn't do it.

 

[dr150]

:camera: No Pics....no advice!

 

[OREOSpeedwagon]

How did he screw you out of $2000?

 

[gherald]

I've asked her out many times, but images.google.com/images?imgsz=xxlarge&safe=off refuses to answer me!

 

[Crappopotamus]

wowch. that sucks. just wait for the divorce

 

[CraigRT]

agree, just do it.. being afraid is lame

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: Crappopotamus
wowch. that sucks. just cause the divorce

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...Nothing...

 

[bmacd]

i guess i don't understand how somebody can love another without dating them. Wouldn't that constitude stalking????

-=bmacd=-

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: bmacd
i guess i don't understand how somebody can love another without dating them. Wouldn't that constitude stalking????

-=bmacd=-

Well, I guess it was love. I could be way off.

Let's put it this way, I wanted to date her more than any other girl I've yet wanted to date.

 

[PlatinumGold]

if you were too afraid to ask a girl out, you were never "in love" with her, you were infatuated.

Love inspires, love enables.

 

[TitanDiddly]

Stupid social malfunction... well, I don't think she'll be getting married any time soon. I've still got something like a year and a half to procrastinate and argue with myself about it, then get pissed when the opportunity passes.

 

[TommyVercetti]

I am a player, I don't need girl advice. Girls need guy advice to hook up with me. Got that chief?

 

[bootymac]

Well I like to get to know a girl before I "love" them.. but that could be just me!

But seriously tho, I like to get a little closer with a gal before actually going out with her. But be warned! Don't get too close or you'll be forever trapped in the "friend zone" (happened to me once, hated my self for it ) So careful what you say!
Oh, and you'll just know when to ask. If your spider senses are true, she'll most likely say yes

Now go make babies everyone! :beer:

 

[melly]

the only way to learn is through suffering I guess!

Better luck next time, kiddo

 

[Chaotic42]

Originally posted by: bootymac
Well I like to get to know a girl before I "love" them.. but that could be just me!

Well, we were close friends for about 2 or 3 years before I ever asked her out. Heck, before my friend ever asked her out. We all worked together for a long time, and hung out 4 or 5 times a week.

 

[makessense]

Originally posted by: bootymac
Well I like to get to know a girl before I "love" them.. but that could be just me!

But seriously tho, I like to get a little closer with a gal before actually going out with her. But be warned! Don't get too close or you'll be forever trapped in the "friend zone" (happened to me once, hated my self for it ) So careful what you say!
Oh, and you'll just know when to ask. If your spider senses are true, she'll most likely say yes

Now go make babies everyone! :beer:

So very true.

 

[Black88GTA]

Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Take my advice. Do it.

Go ahead, call her up. The worst thing she can say is "no".

You see, a few years ago, I was in love with this girl. My friend was dating her, so that presented a problem. In 2001 they broke up. I went out on a date with her, but never asked her out again. I've never seen her again.

I just moved back down here, so I thought I'd finally make my move. The worst thing she can say is "no" right?

No, it's "I got married last June".

So go ask your girl out. You'll live no matter what happens, trust me.

This man speaks the truth. Been there, (didn't) do that, she got married. And to top it off, the guy's a douche.
I miss her. Biggest mistake I ever made.

 

[hdeck]

hooray for the friends zone:beer: