Hi guys, I could really use your help on a family issue. My brother started going out with this girl about 7 months ago. I thought she was a lowlife pig (honestly she is) from the start, but it was really none of my business so I kept my mouth shut and so did his friends. She is his first really serious girlfriend.
A couple months after he met her, he just started acting completely different. He lost a Lot of weight (6'4 155lbs now). His friends who he's been close with since he was like 5 stopped hanging out with him and just said he turned into a completely different person.
I guess you could consider my family pretty close knit and overprotective. We've all had our share of trouble, but never any drug issues or anything serious. I was almost positive my brother started using. My parents, especially my mom, have been a nervous wreck. He spends a lot of time on the computer and always deletes all traces of history when he his done. I never like to invade privacy, but I installed a key logger to see what he is up to. He uses th family pc afterall.
Sadly, our suspicions were correct. That same night they sent messages back and forth on myspace talking about the acid they did on a camping trip among many other things (including sex under the stars lol). My parents were ready to throw him out, but the situation settled down. My recommendation was to report the girlfriend because she is a dentist where drug use will result in a loss of her dental license.
Everything smoothed over though and we went to Denny's to talk things over and get everything out on the table. She had her step father, uncle, and all her friends with her. We tried, but she started bullshitting and I caught her in a bunch of lies. She got pissed at me so she called the cops (LIED HER ASS OFF) saying that we stalked her, followed her to Denny's and crashed her dinner with her friend and family. Of course all her little low-life friends backed her up. My mom, dad, sister, and I were cuffed and taken outside.
2 days later we get a note in the mail saying she filed criminal charges against the whole family. Once again, complete lies saying we call her house constantly. I pulled up the phone records: SHe called us 161 times in the past 3 months, we called her 8 times total. I'm not worried about the charges, but judge at our trial and the mayor are good friends of the family and this really is an embarassment. She filed it against My parents, sister, her husband, and my me. We all have to show up in court on Sep 6.
I think this girl is really just completely out of her mind. SHe called the next day saying it was a bad choice of words and she hopes she can still come down the shore with us this weekend. I told her to f*** off, but guess who shows up that Sunday. She said she was just picking up my brother and my mom kind of flipped on her since she has been holding back. Police show up again and this time a restraining order. She also has her flower child uncle hiding a street over taking pictures of us trying to find evidence I guess.
Sorry for wasting your time with all that drama, but you need to know the backstory. Lately, I have been noticing she is getting really heavy. She couldn't have weighed more than 110 when he met her, but now she is pushing 130 and her stomache is huge. I'd bet my life she is pregnant. This would also explain why my lousy desperate brother still tells her he loves her even after all this ******.
Today we tried talking sense to him. He just wouldnt listen though and it ended with his best friend telling him to grow some f*cking balls or never talk to him again. I tried installing the family keylogger again, but he is so paranoid now. He runs an Adaware scan each start and it found it. I know he's hiding something (whether it be the pregnancy or maybe something else even.).
What do you guys think I should do. Are there any stealthier key loggers out there (can't believe I am sayin this but he is in our f*cking house and using our computer and internet connection). Maybe I can try to use an undelete software and pull up the internet history or something. I was even thinking of calling myspace and asking if they could reset the password to his account. I know its crazy, but what else can we do.
A couple months after he met her, he just started acting completely different. He lost a Lot of weight (6'4 155lbs now). His friends who he's been close with since he was like 5 stopped hanging out with him and just said he turned into a completely different person.
I guess you could consider my family pretty close knit and overprotective. We've all had our share of trouble, but never any drug issues or anything serious. I was almost positive my brother started using. My parents, especially my mom, have been a nervous wreck. He spends a lot of time on the computer and always deletes all traces of history when he his done. I never like to invade privacy, but I installed a key logger to see what he is up to. He uses th family pc afterall.
Sadly, our suspicions were correct. That same night they sent messages back and forth on myspace talking about the acid they did on a camping trip among many other things (including sex under the stars lol). My parents were ready to throw him out, but the situation settled down. My recommendation was to report the girlfriend because she is a dentist where drug use will result in a loss of her dental license.
Everything smoothed over though and we went to Denny's to talk things over and get everything out on the table. She had her step father, uncle, and all her friends with her. We tried, but she started bullshitting and I caught her in a bunch of lies. She got pissed at me so she called the cops (LIED HER ASS OFF) saying that we stalked her, followed her to Denny's and crashed her dinner with her friend and family. Of course all her little low-life friends backed her up. My mom, dad, sister, and I were cuffed and taken outside.
2 days later we get a note in the mail saying she filed criminal charges against the whole family. Once again, complete lies saying we call her house constantly. I pulled up the phone records: SHe called us 161 times in the past 3 months, we called her 8 times total. I'm not worried about the charges, but judge at our trial and the mayor are good friends of the family and this really is an embarassment. She filed it against My parents, sister, her husband, and my me. We all have to show up in court on Sep 6.
I think this girl is really just completely out of her mind. SHe called the next day saying it was a bad choice of words and she hopes she can still come down the shore with us this weekend. I told her to f*** off, but guess who shows up that Sunday. She said she was just picking up my brother and my mom kind of flipped on her since she has been holding back. Police show up again and this time a restraining order. She also has her flower child uncle hiding a street over taking pictures of us trying to find evidence I guess.
Sorry for wasting your time with all that drama, but you need to know the backstory. Lately, I have been noticing she is getting really heavy. She couldn't have weighed more than 110 when he met her, but now she is pushing 130 and her stomache is huge. I'd bet my life she is pregnant. This would also explain why my lousy desperate brother still tells her he loves her even after all this ******.
Today we tried talking sense to him. He just wouldnt listen though and it ended with his best friend telling him to grow some f*cking balls or never talk to him again. I tried installing the family keylogger again, but he is so paranoid now. He runs an Adaware scan each start and it found it. I know he's hiding something (whether it be the pregnancy or maybe something else even.).
What do you guys think I should do. Are there any stealthier key loggers out there (can't believe I am sayin this but he is in our f*cking house and using our computer and internet connection). Maybe I can try to use an undelete software and pull up the internet history or something. I was even thinking of calling myspace and asking if they could reset the password to his account. I know its crazy, but what else can we do.
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