Your EVGA backplate is not compatible with those EK blocks. If you want backplates for looks (what they are for) you'll need to get the EK backplates for the GTX 680.
That kit is a bad point to start. If you are going custom, plan ahead of time to want to add your CPU to the loop at some point, personally I would do it now, but that is up to you.
If you are set on a kit get the Rasa RX360 kit at a minimum. I don't believe that is what it is called, but it's the rasa kit that has the RX360 radiator. Per fittings and hose, you need to decide what size hose you want to use and buy fittings specific to that hose size. As well you need to decide if you want to use barbs and clamps or compression fittings. Comp. fittings look much nicer and are easier to use, but cost about 5 to 10 fold more.
Hose is measured by inner and outer diameter. Inner being the size of the pathway for the water within the tube and outer the size if the tube its self from edge to edge. Your fittings will have to be of the right size. If you are going barbs, all that matters is that the ID matches the barb size, if you go comp fittings they have to be specific to the ID and OD.
Hose choice is about aesthetics for the most part and ease of putting bends and arcs in your hosing. Performance difference between different sizes is very minimal. I prefer the fat tube and use 1/2" ID, 3/4" OD hosing. I beleive the most common choice is the 3/8" ID, 1/2" OD hosing.
You'll be able to find all this stuff at frozencpu. If you do go with compression fifttings, it's very important to make sure they match the ID and OD sizing of the tubing you use, or else it won't work
EK blocks are nice because you can buy the custom bridges used to attach two cards in SLI, I would definitely go that route. It's relatively inexpensive, you'll need the bridge its self and two adapters to attach to the EK GPU blocks. Maybe $60 for the bridge and adapters.