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cyberfuzz

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for the past week ive been trying so hard to have her break up with me, but i apparantly just made her mad, but not enough for her to want to break up. I tried not answering her calls, being a total dick, not seeing her, hanging up on her. pretty much everything except cheat on her. i tried breaking up with her twice already and we end up making up the next day. i really care for her, but ive got wayyyy too much stuff going on in my life right now to have a serious gf. So since i failed at breaking up with her, i figured eh how bout i get her to break up with me. i was talking to this girl in my public speaking class and she had the idea to fill my camera phone up with picture of hot chicks in my classes. (except one class is a lecture with 200 students, and the other is an engineering class with 30 guys and 1 female, who could pass as a male).

has anyone else tried to have your gf break up with you without cheating on her?? gimmi some ideas here folks.

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well i guess i should update, i told her last night that it was over. i said i didnt have time to see her and that we couldnt be together. She cried but i thought that she understood that we were done untill i have time. But today she text msg's me "i cant do this! i love u too much!" ..................UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. trying not to think about it. she also asked me to come see her today in one of her txt's, but i think if i do go to see her, then ill be sending mixed messages. So i think im going to stay away because she got very clingy lately and wanted to be around me 24/7 and talked about moving intogether (we've only been together since feb 1st, little over 2 months). it was cool at first but then she would call me when im doing my homework, i tell her i cant talk and that id call her when im done, but yet she calls me like 20 minutes later then gets mad at me when i dont talk to her. sigh...females i swear...but anways i think im going to stay away. thoughs? flames? post away.
 
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omniviper

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idiot... why dont you just tell her straight up. saves you from the bad break situation = you still have your gf as a friend.

have you also taken into consideration the damage to your reputation if she spreads the word, as all gf's do?
 
Nohr

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Sounds like you're going through more time and trouble trying to breakup than you would be if you just stayed together.
 
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iwantanewcomputer

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not a gf, but she wanted to be. she was overweight and i let her hear me talking to a friend loudly about how i despise fat people. then i talked about drugs and how cool they were and how high i was the night before, knowing that she is totally against them it worked :)
 
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cyberfuzz

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Originally posted by: thelanx
Have you tried talking to her about it? Why didn't breaking with her work?
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cause i want to be with her, but i cant right now. i just have too much riding on these next couple months that im going to be too busy for a relationship. I tried breaking up with her, but she never took it serious i guess cause she would call me the next day or come to see me. and in the end since i still cared for her we would end up back together.
 
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Bacardi151

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i never understood how ppl could say that they want to be with someone but they can't. im a bit skeptical about it, and i think you're afraid to commit, and you need your air and space. and i wont take a no for an answer. and the reason why you cant break up with her, or that you end up making up with her is because you're used to the idea of being with her and things are just normal when you guys are together as opposed to the awkwardness of breaking up - especiallly when you're the one who dumped her because you feel bad, and lots of guilt. on the other hand, unconsciouly you think that if she breaks up with you, you wont feel bad, because you'll think it wasnt up to you, and there's nothing you could've done. i know this because i've been there. but, as you've noticed it's definitely more effort to put in to make that work. you're takign the same approach as i did. try to make her be mad at you to the point where she'll break up with you. problem is, you might offend her in such ways that you'll scar her and any type of relationship b/w you and her (such as friendship) thereafter.

point being, tell her you're not in for a commitment, you need your space and thats the end of it.
 
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thomsbrain

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so let's see... YOU'RE too much a wimp to break up with a girl and stick to it. so you're going to treat HER poorly and break HER heart. you have the problem, she gets the punishment. good thinking, smart guy.

how about you cut your fvcking crap, give her a chance at having a young adulthood not filled with trust issues and man-hating, and get on with your miserable life.

what really blows my mind is you're in college, and not in third grade.

guys don't understand that when they cheat on a girl, it's not like the girl gets mad, breaks up with you, and then everything is hunky-dory. girls that get cheated on get fvcked in the head, especially if you're not the first asswipe to try it on them. it can take them a lot of time to get over it. as in years. as in maybe never. you're playing games with a HUMAN BEING, so think about that before you lie and mess with her head.

now for the constructive advice: tell her, "look, you know i like you, but i simply do NOT have time for a relationship right now. maybe sometime in the future, but for now, please don't call me. if i get my stuff sorted out, and i can handle being with you, i'll call you. i'm sorry."
 
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MAME

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are people really this stupid?

'hi <gf>, I care for you but I need to be single right now'

WOW THAT WAS SO HARD
 
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OK, if you really want her to break up with you, all you have to do is give her the 'ol "Strawberry Shortcake". If she doesn't break up with you after that.........never fvcking let her go!
 
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Deadtrees

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Just say the damn thing straight forward.
What a moron you're trying those nasty and dumb methods.
Or, just tell her what you've been doing so that she'll realize how retard you're which will lead to a break up.

 
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Stumps

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if you want to be with her in the end but not at the moment ask for some time apart to a have a think about things or you need a bit of space..if she really loves you which is what i suspect she will give you the space you need, and when your ready again..she will be waiting for you..hopefully..just be honest and explain what is going on..no need to be a prick is there?
 
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Originally posted by: thomsbrain
so let's see... YOU'RE too much a wimp to break up with a girl and stick to it. so you're going to treat HER poorly and break HER heart. you have the problem, she gets the punishment. good thinking, smart guy.

how about you cut your fvcking crap, give her a chance at having a young adulthood not filled with trust issues and man-hating, and get on with your miserable life.

what really blows my mind is you're in college, and not in third grade.

guys don't understand that when they cheat on a girl, it's not like the girl gets mad, breaks up with you, and then everything is hunky-dory. girls that get cheated on get fvcked in the head, especially if you're not the first asswipe to try it on them. it can take them a lot of time to get over it. as in years. as in maybe never. you're playing games with a HUMAN BEING, so think about that before you lie and mess with her head.

now for the constructive advice: tell her, "look, you know i like you, but i simply do NOT have time for a relationship right now. maybe sometime in the future, but for now, please don't call me. if i get my stuff sorted out, and i can handle being with you, i'll call you. i'm sorry."
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:thumbsup: Brilliant.

 
mcvickj

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"but ive got wayyyy too much stuff going on in my life right now to have a serious gf. " What? Work and College? pfft.... You don't deserve a gf. Tell her how you feel and get it over with.
 
moshquerade

moshquerade

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what the hell... this thread is givin me a headache.

stop playing games. grow the fvck up. break up with her straight up so she can find a guy who wants to be with her right now. :confused:
 
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mrrman

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keep sending her songs...like Hit the road Jack....maybe she might get the hint
 
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