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Crusty

Crusty

Lifer
[Rantaboutstupidcuntfuckingbitch]

Why must people be so stupid!!??

Here I am, enjoying my night doing laundry and visiting my parents when this stupid b!tch IM's me.

I've had a history with this girl for quite some time. A few months ago, I finally said fvck it and told her that I had no interest in trying to keep some kind of relationship with her.

Our relationship was always weird, sometimes it felt like we were only friends, while others it just felt like casual dating, and then some days it felt like a commited relationship. Frankly, I got sick of that sh!t and told her it's either all or nothing. She said that she wasn't sure what she wanted, so I just made the decision for us and said fvck it all.

It was hard for the first week or so trying not to talk to her, but I just sort of forgot about her.

Fast forward 3 months and she IM's me tnite, and I know you guys don't give a damn about AIM convo's... but here goes
(02:25:12) her: hey
(02:28:25) crusty: hey
(02:28:38) her: how have you been?
(02:29:53) crusty: pretty good, swamped with school and work though
(02:29:59) her: good i'm glad ur keeping busy
(02:32:27) crusty: it's better then doing nothing
(02:32:33) her: heck yes it is
(02:33:10) her: well anyway
(02:33:22) her: i guess i'll let you get back to doing whatever it was that you were doing
(02:33:23) her: peace out
(02:33:26) crusty: bye
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That went fine... but supposedly I was an "ass"... Literally 3 seconds after I closed the IM window she calls me to bitch at me for never talking to her anymore, and for being an "ass" to her tnite.


GRRRRRRRR WTF IS WRONG WITH HER!?!!? Why can't she just understand that I don't want anything to do with her? :|:|:|:|:|:|:|

[/Rantaboutstupidcuntfuckingbitch]

And no pics, im too lazy to dig up links... if you feel so inclined i've posted some before.
 
Dude thats so similar to my story its almost scary. Cept now she's onto getting our mutual friends to "rekindle this friendship".. shes even been so bold as to contact some of my good buddies.. who then called here tonight (I was out drinking) and talked with my little brother. He's off drinking now (we go in shifts it seems)- I'm gonna talk to him when he gets back, and see what the fsck she wants..

all the things you said you felt plus I felt like I was a chauffeur and a wallet to her.
 
It's your fault for not blocking her and answering her call. I'm a firm believer in doing things to completion 🙂
 
Originally posted by: CyraKrin
Dude thats so similar to my story its almost scary. Cept now she's onto getting our mutual friends to "rekindle this friendship".. shes even been so bold as to contact some of my good buddies.. who then called here tonight (I was out drinking) and talked with my little brother. He's off drinking now (we go in shifts it seems)- I'm gonna talk to him when he gets back, and see what the fsck she wants..

all the things you said you felt plus I felt like I was a chauffeur and a wallet to her.
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Oh, I had those same problems.. it all just added up until I finally lost it.
 
Originally posted by: rezinn
It's your fault for not blocking her and answering her call. I'm a firm believer in doing things to completion 🙂
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I normally don't have a problem talking to my ex's, in fact im still friendly with quite a few of them... now I have no choice to just completely ignore her. No matter what I ever did, or what she did it was always my fault too :|, but whatever. No point in dwelling over the past, I just wish she would stop being stupid.
 
Did you lay it out there that you are very adamant about not having anything to do with her? Tell her never to call, write, IM, email, etc you ever again?
 
Originally posted by: pyonir
Did you lay it out there that you are very adamant about not having anything to do with her? Tell her never to call, write, IM, email, etc you ever again?
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I did the first time, and this was the first time she tried to talk to me since then. So I kindly reminded her when she called, and she got even more pissy.

I'm tempted to hit it and quit it... again... but it's not worth the can of worms it would open up.
 
Originally posted by: pyonir
File a harrassment report with your local PD. Maybe that'll make her get the message.
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Lol, it might come to that if she continues to do this. As of now, it's just more frustrating than anything else, and considering this is the first time since I ended things that this has happened I don't think that is necessary yet, but it will definitely be an option in the future.
 
Originally posted by: MCrusty
[Rantaboutstupidcuntfuckingbitch]

Why must people be so stupid!!??

Here I am, enjoying my night doing laundry and visiting my parents when this stupid b!tch IM's me.

I've had a history with this girl for quite some time. A few months ago, I finally said fvck it and told her that I had no interest in trying to keep some kind of relationship with her.

Our relationship was always weird, sometimes it felt like we were only friends, while others it just felt like casual dating, and then some days it felt like a commited relationship. Frankly, I got sick of that sh!t and told her it's either all or nothing. She said that she wasn't sure what she wanted, so I just made the decision for us and said fvck it all.

It was hard for the first week or so trying not to talk to her, but I just sort of forgot about her.

Fast forward 3 months and she IM's me tnite, and I know you guys don't give a damn about AIM convo's... but here goes
(02:25:12) her: hey
(02:28:25) crusty: hey
(02:28:38) her: how have you been?
(02:29:53) crusty: pretty good, swamped with school and work though
(02:29:59) her: good i'm glad ur keeping busy
(02:32:27) crusty: it's better then doing nothing
(02:32:33) her: heck yes it is
(02:33:10) her: well anyway
(02:33:22) her: i guess i'll let you get back to doing whatever it was that you were doing
(02:33:23) her: peace out
(02:33:26) crusty: bye
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That went fine... but supposedly I was an "ass"... Literally 3 seconds after I closed the IM window she calls me to bitch at me for never talking to her anymore, and for being an "ass" to her tnite.


GRRRRRRRR WTF IS WRONG WITH HER!?!!? Why can't she just understand that I don't want anything to do with her? :|:|:|:|:|:|:|

[/Rantaboutstupidcuntfuckingbitch]

And no pics, im too lazy to dig up links... if you feel so inclined i've posted some before.
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Tell her it's just to "painful" having anything to do with her, now that it's over, and you need some space. makes you look like the sensitive guy, doing what he has to do. 🙂

 
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: MCrusty
[Rantaboutstupidcuntfuckingbitch]

Why must people be so stupid!!??

Here I am, enjoying my night doing laundry and visiting my parents when this stupid b!tch IM's me.

I've had a history with this girl for quite some time. A few months ago, I finally said fvck it and told her that I had no interest in trying to keep some kind of relationship with her.

Our relationship was always weird, sometimes it felt like we were only friends, while others it just felt like casual dating, and then some days it felt like a commited relationship. Frankly, I got sick of that sh!t and told her it's either all or nothing. She said that she wasn't sure what she wanted, so I just made the decision for us and said fvck it all.

It was hard for the first week or so trying not to talk to her, but I just sort of forgot about her.

Fast forward 3 months and she IM's me tnite, and I know you guys don't give a damn about AIM convo's... but here goes
(02:25:12) her: hey
(02:28:25) crusty: hey
(02:28:38) her: how have you been?
(02:29:53) crusty: pretty good, swamped with school and work though
(02:29:59) her: good i'm glad ur keeping busy
(02:32:27) crusty: it's better then doing nothing
(02:32:33) her: heck yes it is
(02:33:10) her: well anyway
(02:33:22) her: i guess i'll let you get back to doing whatever it was that you were doing
(02:33:23) her: peace out
(02:33:26) crusty: bye
Click to expand...

That went fine... but supposedly I was an "ass"... Literally 3 seconds after I closed the IM window she calls me to bitch at me for never talking to her anymore, and for being an "ass" to her tnite.


GRRRRRRRR WTF IS WRONG WITH HER!?!!? Why can't she just understand that I don't want anything to do with her? :|:|:|:|:|:|:|

[/Rantaboutstupidcuntfuckingbitch]

And no pics, im too lazy to dig up links... if you feel so inclined i've posted some before.
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Tell her it's just to "painful" having anything to do with her, now that it's over, and you need some space. makes you look like the sensitive guy, doing what he has to do. 🙂
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Simply telling her to fvck off has the same effect, and involves less speaking and interaction.
 
Originally posted by: MCrusty
Originally posted by: CyraKrin
Dude thats so similar to my story its almost scary. Cept now she's onto getting our mutual friends to "rekindle this friendship".. shes even been so bold as to contact some of my good buddies.. who then called here tonight (I was out drinking) and talked with my little brother. He's off drinking now (we go in shifts it seems)- I'm gonna talk to him when he gets back, and see what the fsck she wants..

all the things you said you felt plus I felt like I was a chauffeur and a wallet to her.
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Oh, I had those same problems.. it all just added up until I finally lost it.
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thats how I stopped talking to her.. she ended up ditching me at the bar for a girls night, and I lost it and started ranting & raving at her.. she gave me this look like I shook the alcohol out of her, and then I drove off. I havent talked to her now in almost 6 weeks.. and my bank account is thanking me- both for not buying her crap, and for the gas I save from not driving her around.
 
Originally posted by: So
Just block her AIM and move on :roll:
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no sh!t.

when will people learn that if you cut some one off, then cut them off for good. if you continue to talk to them, even if it is months or years later, then you just invite bs on yourself. if you dont care, then dont waste your time. so she thinks youre an asshole. sfw. if you dont care, then dont.
 
The only reason she does that is she needs your attention. She wants to feel needed and that you care about her. That makes her feel better and needed. If she knokws she can make you upset or have any reaction from her she feels better. As others suggested. Block and move on.
 
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