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GRRR girls.

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Accipiter22

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So I met a girl on thursday in the club, we ended up makin out for a lil bit while we were dancing. I get her number, and actually ended up hangin out with her friday up at her apartment (she's a shade under a half hour from where I live). So we get pizza, watch a couple movies, we're layin around on the couch, and end up makin out for about a half hour at the end of the night, I leave around 1:30. I wait a couple days, call her yesterday, no call back. she calls me this morning though. She says she doesn't see us being more than friends. She also says she had a nice time on friday and wouldn't mind doing it again, and says she's going to the club again on thursday and that she'll see me there....Her reasoning was that she just doesn't want anything right now....I lost my secret girl decoder ring so I'm not sure of her real reasoning. I'm not askin for tips on how to 'win her back' or something seeing as how I just met her, but I'm not exactly sure what I did wrong. I did like her though, she was a nice girl.
 
Sometimes there's just no "chemistry". You might not have done anything wrong, you just didn't click with her.

Let this one go, and get out there and meet more girls.
 
Sounds like she's trying to avoid the female equivalent of onegina. So give her what she wants. Hit it and quit it.
 
Shes testing you, they do it all the time. Its kinda like a big game to them. I would say go with her because shes interested in you. You could go with a female friend of yours to test if she might get jelious, but you might want to wait a few times to build a meaningful relationship. Then again, she might get tired of you and not want you if you dont act soon.

This also means you suck at kissing.
 
Originally posted by: Soccerman06

This also means you suck at kissing.
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hahah the couch thing was her idea btw. I get an odd vibe off of it. I'm just gonna play it cool, go to the club on thursday and see what happens. The only reason I posted this on ATOT is that I'm confused....she genuinely sounded like she had a nice time and wants to hang out again....oh no...maybe she does think I suck at kissing. Actually she kept kissing me, it's not like I was initiating the whole deal. GRR this just confuses me more. And she didn't want me taking her bra off when I casually went for it...
 
You will see very few old men tell tales of their first date with their wife that involves sitting on her couch eating pizza and smooching.

That is just a bad play all around.

If you wanted to close the deal, that wasn't going to get you there unless she was ridiculously easy.

If you wanted to see if she was girlfriend material, you would have taken her out.

If you wanted to proceed directly to the friend zone, then congratulations on mission accomplished.
 
after a few minutes of making out, she was probably wondering when the next move would happen.

sounds like it didn't. perpetual makeout is only fun for so long. something most people pick up on in middle school or so.

although, i guess you could still be in middle school.
 
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