Got into verbal argument at a bar today

Tsaico

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Situation:
Out drinking with some friends and the bar was doing some stuff for Veterans and military. More or less just people who had family got discounts on food, free shots or pints, that sort of stuff. Before the karoke started, they had gone through some of the crowd to ask them who they knew that was a veteran that sort of thing. I answered my sister (who was not with us, as she is stationed on base in VA). They asked her rank, I replied she's an MD with a rank of 2nd Lt. Commander in the navy.

Apparently this sparked some random dude's scorn and opprobrium. He came up to me and my pals saying that she is not a vet nor should ever be considered one since she never sees combat, nor would she as a medical doctor. My response was that regardless of whether or not she carries a gun (which they give a choice and she opted not to with the hippocratic oath and all), saw any war time, she is serving her country and when she exits the military she is and should be considered a veteran. She also sees and patches up the guys who are blown up from IEDs while in the hot zones. Her particular speciality is Gastroenterology, since so many of the guys now have problems from not just the stress and food, but also actual trauma caused by driving over IEDs and having half of your digestive tract blow off. She has been deloyed to Gitmo, Afganistan, and Iraq, totaling 5 times, and in fact just returned from a 9 month stint in Germany at the rehab base.

His response was still that since she never gets fired at or fires a gun, it discludes her from the title "vet". What is worse, a bunch of random people in the bar also agree with his stance, though not so strongly and loudly. Many people side with me, it starts to get ugly, bar kicks me and my pals out, the other dude and his pals, then calls the cops. we were driving off as cops were showing up.

I couldn't beleive so many people thought you have to be in combat to be a vet and that a medical doctor in the service isn't as "brave or honorable" way to serve your country as combat postions.

In any case, I am home now at 8 pm, and think I will just call it a night and count my blessings dude didn't hit me in the head over this. Thanks for letting me vent ATOT.
 

waggy

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by that fucked up stupid logic millions of others would not get the title "vet". since they were cooks, onboad ships, mechanics etc.

you serve in a warzone in a time of war you are a vet. I don't give a shit if you have a gun or a scalpel.
 

lxskllr

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Yup, people are dicks, and more often than not, wrong. Sorry you had a shitty time out, but don't let a bunch of mouth breathers get you down.
 

Bryophyte

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Why get all worked up over the opinions of some moron? There are morons everywhere. You're not required to agree with them or to make them agree with you. Just ignore them.
 

SandEagle

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i have to agree with the other guy.


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olds

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He's a fucking idiot. But then the OP already knew that.

And where's Perk when you need him? "opprobrium"?
 

grrl

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I suspect the guy isn't a 'real' vet himself. Only an asshole who hasn't seen combat would disrepect a medic of any stripe.
 

twinrider1

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She is a Veteran. She may not be a War Veteran or a Combat Veteran, but she is a Veteran.

I thank her for her service.
 

destrekor

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Sickening. Sometimes... wait.. most of the time, I hate people.

She's a vet. No further discussion necessary.
 

Nintendesert

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She is a Veteran. She may not be a War Veteran or a Combat Veteran, but she is a Veteran.

I thank her for her service.



If she's been to Iraq and Afghanistan she's considered a combat veteran since she served in a combat zone.

As for the guy that disparaged her, I think it shows he wasn't there or in any service. I love our doctors and medics, they've patched me up in Iraq and they've been taking care of us all in every single war we're in. They save our lives, there aren't too many people I love more.
 

Farang

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Jul 7, 2003
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What an asshole.

But an example of people confusing veteran's day with memorial day. Memorial day isn't for veterans.
 

Perknose

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He's a fucking idiot. But then the OP already knew that.

And where's Perk when you need him? "opprobrium"?

Great word, well chosen. However, OP, "discludes" is not a word.

Bottom line: She's a vet, guy's a dick, and SandEagle's a troll.

Sad to say, I know, but under those circumstances I probably would have popped the guy.

Bigger and tougher than you? He's also stupid and most likely drunk.

Anyway, that's what that sturdy glass mug with a handle is for. And you don't stop with one shot. This is a small unit firefight. Continuous short bursts at targets of opportunity, head on swivel -- you seize the initiative and never let it go.

It most certainly isn't a situation for the Marquis of Queensbury rules, no.

Once the mug shatters, if you've still got it the handle, you get to fuck him up royally with quick slashing movements for any further move he makes. Then you quickly gather your folks and leave.

^^^ Ok, not really the best civilian advice, to put it mildly. :oops:

It's just that I hate drunken blowhard desk jockeys and REMF's. Any combat vet worth his salt loves the medics, nurses and MD's.
 

shortylickens

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Jul 15, 2003
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Situation:
Out drinking with some friends and the bar was doing some stuff for Veterans and military. More or less just people who had family got discounts on food, free shots or pints, that sort of stuff. Before the karoke started, they had gone through some of the crowd to ask them who they knew that was a veteran that sort of thing. I answered my sister (who was not with us, as she is stationed on base in VA). They asked her rank, I replied she's an MD with a rank of 2nd Lt. Commander in the navy.

Apparently this sparked some random dude's scorn and opprobrium. He came up to me and my pals saying that she is not a vet nor should ever be considered one since she never sees combat, nor would she as a medical doctor. My response was that regardless of whether or not she carries a gun (which they give a choice and she opted not to with the hippocratic oath and all), saw any war time, she is serving her country and when she exits the military she is and should be considered a veteran. She also sees and patches up the guys who are blown up from IEDs while in the hot zones. Her particular speciality is Gastroenterology, since so many of the guys now have problems from not just the stress and food, but also actual trauma caused by driving over IEDs and having half of your digestive tract blow off. She has been deloyed to Gitmo, Afganistan, and Iraq, totaling 5 times, and in fact just returned from a 9 month stint in Germany at the rehab base.

His response was still that since she never gets fired at or fires a gun, it discludes her from the title "vet". What is worse, a bunch of random people in the bar also agree with his stance, though not so strongly and loudly. Many people side with me, it starts to get ugly, bar kicks me and my pals out, the other dude and his pals, then calls the cops. we were driving off as cops were showing up.

I couldn't beleive so many people thought you have to be in combat to be a vet and that a medical doctor in the service isn't as "brave or honorable" way to serve your country as combat postions.

In any case, I am home now at 8 pm, and think I will just call it a night and count my blessings dude didn't hit me in the head over this. Thanks for letting me vent ATOT.

:hmm:
 

OCGuy

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Jul 12, 2000
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Well to be fair, she isn't a vet. Unless she works on some German Shepards.


And yea is 2nd LC even a real Navy rank?
 

LTC8K6

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Yeah. That's not any Navy rank I know of, even though I was in the Army.
 

Malak

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Technically a vet is anyone who has served at least 180 days in active military service. So a dude still in tech school is a vet.