got into a scuffle.....kinda scared :(

tkim

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ok dudes here's the story....

i was walking across the street with my gf and my friend and there was a group of people crossing the street ahead of us...lets say around 8-10 feet in front of us. then, an expedition making a left turn thrusts her way right between the first crossing group and us. in order for me not to collide with her, i stuck my hand out and touched her car. (my arm was not fully extended..that's how close she was to runing us over)

i was mad but thought nothing of it and kept walking with my friends. an few stores down we passed by the restaurant we ate at an hour earlier and we stopped inside because i needed to use the restroom. when i came out of the restroom, my friends were sitting there and out of nowhere a lady comes straight at me saying (the language is not made up) "you gunna pay fo the scratch on my M*tha f*ckin car...it's an expedition and u gunna pay for it" i was like scared and shocked....this whole time she was SCREAMIN at the top of her lungs and the whole restaurant was looking at us. the she says "i'm gunna call the M*tha F*CKIN po'lice and u gunna pay fo dis sh*t".

she goes outside to call the cops and her 2 daughter....age 10-12 or so, are making sure i dont go anywhere. i was stupid in trying to talk to them cause when i did, the girl stands up with her hand flailing in the air saying "git outta my face...git out of my face" the she took her finger and poked at my head violently. then i said "i'm not in your face" then poked her head. then this 10-12 year old girl socks me in the face and i turned around and stuck my hand out to stop her. meanwhile, her sister goes outside and calls her mom.

that's when the drama begins.....the lady comes in yelling "you hit my baby" blah blah blah...again yelling in a crowded restaurant. at this point, the bus boys are all getting up on her to drag her out of the restaurant. thats when the cops walk in. 4 cops (what a big waste of tax dollars) finally get the stories from all the restaurant patron who are on my side and they figure out that it is not my fault.

the thing is, the lady said i scratched her car. so the officer asks me..."where did you touch the car" at this point, i dont know if there was a scratch on her car...so my friend says "he touched the car near the back window to brace himself from getting hit" then i remembered that the car was dirty and i had dust on my fingertips. so i said to the cops "go and check the back window" sure enough when he comes back, he chuckles and says "you were right, there was a hand print where you said it would be and the scratch she claims u did is no where near it". at this point, the cops are on my side, the patrons are on my side, and the restaurant mangement is on my side.

i had 2 options....press charges or dont. i didnt want to start more drama so i said forget it. then the cops tell me that the lady want to press charges on me for "hitting her daughter". at this point the cops tell me that if they do, i should press charges as well and becuase the police report is in my favor, i would be immediately let go.

well, no charges were press but the lady did tell the cops that she was gunna have her insurance company try and collect money from me to pay for the scratch i supposedly did.

my fear at this point is that since i gave my personal info to the cops and since it is on the police report, can this lady find out my home address and stuff????

this lady thinks i hit her daughter and i think she will stop at nothing to get back at me. i may be REALLY paranoid but is it something i should worry about? i am sh*tting bricks!!

HELP!!! to all of you knowledgeable law people.....also, can she get my info from the insurance company?

thanks for listening to all of this!!
 

monk3y

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I don't think you have anything to worry about. I'm sure the woman would have brought something up to the cops if she actually planned on getting you in trouble for 'hitting' her daughter. Further I don't think the cops would have released your personal information to the lady. She doesn't seem like the most sane of people and hopefully the cops were able to see that.
 

HamSupLo

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looking at your sig, was this in Westwood? dang, the situation sounds totally fcuked up! people are so irrational these days.
 

rgwalt

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Its likely that she was just trying to blow the whole thing out of proportion to get money out of you. I wouldn't sweat it. She will likely simmer down about the whole thing, or have real life to worry about.

Ryan
 

lawaris

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<< Its likely that she was just trying to blow the whole thing out of proportion to get money out of you. I wouldn't sweat it. She will likely simmer down about the whole thing, or have real life to worry about.

Ryan
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GermyBoy

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You are the stupidest human being alive. If you have an irate woman after you for something you didn't do, walk away. If she touches you to try to restrain you, it is your constitutional right to defend yourself. As for the little girls...sometimes they need to be shown lessons. If they were giving you that much crap, imagine what they'll give a boyfriend when they're 16.

:pokes head while he's driving: I want it now.
:pokes eye while he's driving: I want it now.
:pokes other eye while he's driving: I want it noCRASH!! Car burns, both die.


Dude, his future life is at stake here. You're gonna get bullied by a 12 year old?
 

Czar

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man that woman is in a world of her own
rolleye.gif
 

Rent

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It would have been good if you used some cliche like "TALK TO THE HAND CAUSE THE FACE DON'T WANNA HEAR IT" and walked away. I'd have also told her off for owning such a waste of a vehicle and that the next person she would talk to would be my lawyer.

If she wants to scream and let out, let her. Laugh at her. Then press charges.

Ahh, what a wonderful world we live in today.

 

Koing

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sounds like a right b!tch.

In situations like this just walk away and fast. Hey even run. I've been in a situation like this before. Not good.

It was a group of 20+ people. They wanted to hassle me and my 3 friends on the way to town. This one guy I knew from school a year younger wanted to give me crap. He kept on saying that I called this other guy a 'n!gga" and other rubbish hes made up to try and get this guy to fight me. I ignored this punk and walked up. Mean while this group of guy follow us. My 3 mates are walking a bit faster then me. I walk at my own pace. When we get to the top of the hill they circle me. This guy steps out to try and 'act' tough and stuff. Usual BS from 'hard' guys. I stood my ground with hand out of pocket ready to kick his ass. I'm confident when it comes to fighting and believe in myself so have no worries about defending myself if I am force to defend myself. I knew he was all talk. Stayed there. Then this guy I knew came in whos these guys respect me and they leave me alone. Mean while my mates are just outside of the circle watching me.

We just walk further on. Then a group of girls from the other group ran up to us. About 11-16yr old girls ffs. We obviously couldn't do anything to them as they'd just ran back to the other group and they'd come and get us and get more people etc causing more trouble. Then suddently this girl pretty big turns around and slaps my friend FULL FORCE in the face. She almost took his head off. Then these girls start to attack us. This complete bitch punch me in the face once and I blocked the others and she started to kick me. At this time I was right by the curb on quite a busy road. Cars were coming by. I did actually think she would be a complete pyscho and push me in to the road! Or kick me in my gonads. So in the end I thought fvck this and just ran off. I couldn't deal with girls fighting against me in this situation. They were just egging us on to hit back. This then would have given the other group a reason to pick a fight with us. My mates are pretty big and strong but they don't know how to fight so that would have been bad.

In the end just walked away from these bitches. Nothing much you can do with girls. Just better off to walk away. But if a guy did that to me I'd break his neck. 'Self Defence':D
 

Pundit

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It makes me sad to hear stories like that. I'm surprised that more people don't go psycho and go off on a killing spree. Just remember that you are sane and they are not.
 

Rivergater

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what can you do when little kids pull this crap???
i was at a gas station once and a bunch of prepubescent black girls walking by after school threw a glass bottle at my back windshield and started laughing hysterically. i just stood there and held my anger in check. people need to do a better job of raising their stupid kids.

 

DaiShan

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First off, this story goes to prove that there should be some sort of intelligence test that must be passed before breeding, second I would like to commend you for showing self-restraint. I would have pressed charges on her and made her think twice about ever trying to take anyone for a ride again, furthermore, I would like to say that those "children" (I use the term loosely because they act more like beings of lower intelliggents than humans) need quite a bit more discipline in their life, which obviously cannot be had at home if they have a mother like this.
 

Pundit

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Originally posted by: DaiShan
First off, this story goes to prove that there should be some sort of intelligence test that must be passed before breeding, second I would like to commend you for showing self-restraint. I would have pressed charges on her and made her think twice about ever trying to take anyone for a ride again, furthermore, I would like to say that those "children" (I use the term loosely because they act more like beings of lower intelliggents than humans) need quite a bit more discipline in their life, which obviously cannot be had at home if they have a mother like this.

Genetics are not related to intelligence.
 

TallBill

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dude.. i woulda pressed charges... she knows what shes tryin to get away with.. people like that will keep tryin it somewhere else till it gets switched back around and onto them
 

TheOmegaCode

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Hahaha, you got into a physical confrontation with a 12 year old...

As for pressing charges, I might have, depending on the circumstances. I wouldn't have wanted to go to the police station that night, maybee (if they would have let you) pressed charges the next morning...
 

chiwawa626

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Chances are that bitch doenst even have insurance or something lol...but im sure shes to stupid to do anything and actualy get a lawyer or tell her insurance...
 

chiwawa626

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Originally posted by: Rivergater
what can you do when little kids pull this crap???
i was at a gas station once and a bunch of prepubescent black girls walking by after school threw a glass bottle at my back windshield and started laughing hysterically. i just stood there and held my anger in check. people need to do a better job of raising their stupid kids.


So true, its a good idea to get away from those ghetto urban "gangsta bitch" type chicks...:disgust:
 

Speedy3D!

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Is there a somewhere on earth that is devoid of idiots?

Actually, you really should have pressed charges becase SHE ALMOST RAN YOU DOWN dude.