god.. she just dumped me

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Clocker

Golden Member
Sep 17, 2000
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Look if you have friends go talk to them about it. But at 22. Your life is just starting and so is hers. In time you will feel better. Best Regards
 

Gibsons

Lifer
Aug 14, 2001
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Another soul in a life of pain.

:music: I'm all out of love... :music:

Didn't anyone else watch South Park? :(
 

Kelvrick

Lifer
Feb 14, 2001
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Don't do anything stupid. Call up some friends that will be there, talk to you, get drunk with you, but won't let you do anything stupid.

EDIT: Too bad you're all the way over there. If you were in Sac, I'd be on my way over.
 

91TTZ

Lifer
Jan 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: raildogg
I am sorry for this, please give her a chance as well.

So she can return to him after the totally hot hunk dumps her for another piece of fresh meat.

Originally posted by: raildogg
Maybe something has changed in her life.

Yeah, she met some hot hunk, who probably has her bent over the bathroom sink right now.

Originally posted by: raildoggWhat is going on in her life that she has suddenly done this?

The hunk. The bathroom sink.

Originally posted by: raildogg
I don't know if she has abandoned you or not. Maybe something has changed in her life or something. Get to know her better and find out what and why she has done this.

She's keeping the OP in an emergency closet behind a plate of glass just in case things don't work out with this new dude.

Originally posted by: raildogg
Maybe you can even improve her.

lol, you really have no clue.
 

chambersc

Diamond Member
Feb 11, 2005
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Originally posted by: Gibsons
Another soul in a life of pain.

:music: I'm all out of love... :music:

Didn't anyone else watch South Park? :(

It's just started here... 10:02 pm EST. WTF mean watch it?
 

91TTZ

Lifer
Jan 31, 2005
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Dude, in all seriousness, let her go. If she did this to you, then you don't need her. Find someone who won't do this to you, a decent woman that you can trust.
 

JulesMaximus

No Lifer
Jul 3, 2003
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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: raildogg
I am sorry for this, please give her a chance as well.

So she can return to him after the totally hot hunk dumps her for another piece of fresh meat.

Originally posted by: raildogg
Maybe something has changed in her life.

Yeah, she met some dude.

Originally posted by: raildoggWhat is going on in her life that she has suddenly done this?

The dude.

Originally posted by: raildogg
I don't know if she has abandoned you or not. Maybe something has changed in her life or something. Get to know her better and find out what and why she has done this.

She's keeping the OP in an emergency closet behind a plate of glass just in case things don't work out with this new dude.

Originally posted by: raildogg
Maybe you can even improve her.

lol, you really have no clue.

Yeah, I give it a 99.9% chance that 91TTZ is correct. I didn't want to say it but it sounds like this is what happened.

Been there...done that...hooked up with said girl who dumped me after she figured out the guy she dumped me for was a complete dipsh!t. I even had the cureable STD to prove it. :p

Thankfully, I got a decent job offer, moved 200 miles away and stopped seeing her shortly thereafter.
 

bignateyk

Lifer
Apr 22, 2002
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: raildogg
I am sorry for this, please give her a chance as well.

So she can return to him after the totally hot hunk dumps her for another piece of fresh meat.

Originally posted by: raildogg
Maybe something has changed in her life.

Yeah, she met some dude.

Originally posted by: raildoggWhat is going on in her life that she has suddenly done this?

The dude.

Originally posted by: raildogg
I don't know if she has abandoned you or not. Maybe something has changed in her life or something. Get to know her better and find out what and why she has done this.

She's keeping the OP in an emergency closet behind a plate of glass just in case things don't work out with this new dude.

Originally posted by: raildogg
Maybe you can even improve her.

lol, you really have no clue.

Yeah, I give it a 99.9% chance that 91TTZ is correct. I didn't want to say it but it sounds like this is what happened.

Been there...done that...hooked up with said girl who dumped me after she figured out the guy she dumped me for was a complete dipsh!t. I even had the cureable STD to prove it. :p

Thankfully, I got a decent job offer, moved 200 miles away and stopped seeing her shortly thereafter.



If theres one thing I do know, its that it isnt another guy. Im not saying I believe her in the slightest when she says she isnt gonna see other people though...
 

lokiju

Lifer
May 29, 2003
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Well from the information you've provided it sounds like shes done, that'd leave me to believe you'd be totally wasting your time remaining friendly just in the hopes that you'll end up back together again. From my past experience I'd suggest just ripping it clean like a band-aid and not keeping in contact. Of course if you run into her or whatever I'd personally keep "professional" about it and not get all emo and what not but in the end it nearly always just end up being drawn out agony if you don't just cut ties, start the healing process and just move on.

 

bignateyk

Lifer
Apr 22, 2002
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: bignateyk
I know we're young, but we've both been through serious relationships, and I truly thought that this was the one. Maybe it was foolish to open up so much.. I dont know.. here is a picture of us at my sisters wedding before we started dating...

http://image34.webshots.com/34/0/27/56/2006027560067173155EdvORG_fs.jpg

Dude, you suck at linking.


hmm.. i dunno what happened.. it was working before
 

JulesMaximus

No Lifer
Jul 3, 2003
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Originally posted by: bignateyk
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: bignateyk
I know we're young, but we've both been through serious relationships, and I truly thought that this was the one. Maybe it was foolish to open up so much.. I dont know.. here is a picture of us at my sisters wedding before we started dating...

http://image34.webshots.com/34/0/27/56/2006027560067173155EdvORG_fs.jpg

Dude, you suck at linking.


hmm.. i dunno what happened.. it was working before

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SmoochyTX

Lifer
Apr 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: bignateyk
I know we're young, but we've both been through serious relationships, and I truly thought that this was the one. Maybe it was foolish to open up so much.. I dont know.. here is a picture of us at my sisters wedding before we started dating...

http://image34.webshots.com/34/0/27/56/2006027560067173155EdvORG_fs.jpg

Dude, you suck at linking.
Are you using IE7? You'll have to copy and paste it into FF or Opera. I had the same thing happen to me.

ETA - Copy and paste it into a new tab if you're using IE7 (or just middle click)