Insecure people lie, that is all.
Women and men just lie about different things and lie differently
Insecure people lie, that is all.
Women and men just lie about different things and lie differently
It works on them too. Unless you are creepy about it.
"You're pretty. Wanna dance?" can work too, if done in a completely innocent way. Make them smile or laugh without feeling intimidated and your are in.
It has worked for me in the past. Of course, sometimes they just walk away. Depends on the type of girl you go for. Some girls are too stuck up to take the compliment and give you time to get to know them. Some girls are nice enough to take the compliment and give you a chance.
shortylickens
No Lifer
- Jul 15, 2003
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I have a modification of this that sometimes gets a girl talking to me.
"Hi, I'm shorty lickens, professional adult film actor. Do you have any experience? Would you like an audition?"
This only works if its late and the gals are all drunk and already laughing. It works really well because I look like a mini Ron Jeremy, in fact if I compare myself to him it improves my odds.
Again this technique is only effective at the bar when girls are already drinking.
OUTSIDE the bar, the classic "Hi, my name is Shorty, whats yours?" works so much better.
Originally posted by: spacejamz
that SNL skit w/ Tom Brady and sexual harrassment pretty much sums it up:
1. Be handsome.
2. Be attractive.
3. Don't be unattractive.
yep...
Also its a numbers thing. I see it kinda like cold calling... out of 100 calls you'll get 99 NO's! but eventually will get at least 1 YES! Basically its a number thing, gotta play if you wanna win. The difference between ppl who get girls and those that don't is the ability to handle rejection well and brush it off.
EXACTLY. If you can say it without creeping her out and you can make her smile, you are halfway there.
funboy6942
Lifer
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Did they lax on the age your allowed to start working because there is no way your old enough to be doing so?
Miramonti
Lifer
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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Well ... it works.
I told this lady how amazing her smile was and guess what... we are dating now.
:roll: You are among the few that the exception pertains to. Generally speaking though, it takes alot more than "hi, you're pretty" to get a girl's interest.
Ah ah ah... just a minute... there is a difference between what i said and what you said. You are right, you cannot just go up to a girl and say "you are pretty" but its all about the way it is said and HOW it is said.
You just contradicted yourself, dismissing the 'lame' lines here but then saying its 'the way' and 'how' they are said.
When someone uses a good 'line', its an ice breaker and often humorous, not expected to be an immediate condem opener. People who aren't so uptight get a kick out of creativity and humor, and that may often open up things further.
Originally posted by: jjsole
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Well ... it works.
I told this lady how amazing her smile was and guess what... we are dating now.
:roll: You are among the few that the exception pertains to. Generally speaking though, it takes alot more than "hi, you're pretty" to get a girl's interest.
Ah ah ah... just a minute... there is a difference between what i said and what you said. You are right, you cannot just go up to a girl and say "you are pretty" but its all about the way it is said and HOW it is said.
You just contradicted yourself, dismissing the 'lame' lines here but then saying its 'the way' and 'how' they are said.
When someone uses a good 'line', its an ice breaker and often humorous, not expected to be an immediate condem opener. People who aren't so uptight get a kick out of creativity and humor, and that may often open up things further.
perhaps you are correct, but keep in mind there are those types of girls and tehre are also the type that would be happy to hear a compliment and invite you to sit down or have a drink with them.
Miramonti
Lifer
- Aug 26, 2000
- 28,653
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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: jjsole
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Well ... it works.
I told this lady how amazing her smile was and guess what... we are dating now.
:roll: You are among the few that the exception pertains to. Generally speaking though, it takes alot more than "hi, you're pretty" to get a girl's interest.
Ah ah ah... just a minute... there is a difference between what i said and what you said. You are right, you cannot just go up to a girl and say "you are pretty" but its all about the way it is said and HOW it is said.
You just contradicted yourself, dismissing the 'lame' lines here but then saying its 'the way' and 'how' they are said.
When someone uses a good 'line', its an ice breaker and often humorous, not expected to be an immediate condem opener. People who aren't so uptight get a kick out of creativity and humor, and that may often open up things further.
perhaps you are correct, but keep in mind there are those types of girls and tehre are also the type that would be happy to hear a compliment and invite you to sit down or have a drink with them.
Now it sounds like you're drawing a distinction between sluts and 'classy girls'.
Girls like flattery, which both methods can offer plenty of...and girls like confidence in men as well. They also like respect and both methods can be respectful *and* disrespectful, and if the girl thinks you're full of sh!t, it will backfire.Location is also an important element, such as in a social party or club atmosphere, vs. a more controlled environment or professional atmosphere, which can dictate which approaches can get you in the door for further interaction.
Originally posted by: spacejamz
that SNL skit w/ Tom Brady and sexual harrassment pretty much sums it up:
1. Be handsome.
2. Be attractive.
3. Don't be unattractive.
if you meet the above requirments, you can just about say anything and the girl will think you are witty, honest, smart etc...
To the fat, ugly, unattractive, non-successful, living in your parent's basement; to those guys..., no pickup lines going to work...
"You make me want to be a better man." (As Good As It Gets)
Only works on a girl you already have a relationship with.
Only works on a girl you already have a relationship with.
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