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Girls suck

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SLCentral

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So, yeah, first off, I'm 16, so flame away.

My girlfriend of two years and I broke up about a month ago becuase she changed her mind about how she felt about me. Okay. She then went away for the whole summer, and is pretty much unreachable. She brought her phone, but it seldomly works, and isn't "allowed." At first, we talked everyday over the phone while she was gone, but I realized that in order for me to be able to move on from her, I had to just stop talking to her. I still had hope we would get back together, which was keeping me immune from what was going on with her.

So, I tell her just to back off and let me get over her. Reasonable request. She stops talking to me for a little less then two weeks. During that time, I was really able to start thinking about things other then her, get out of the house and hang out with friends, and in general really start to just move on, get interested in other girls, etc.

Except tonight, she called, and asked me how I was. I told her that I was really trying to get over her, and I asked her not to call before. She apologized, and we hung up. Do girls not understand what "Please don't call me for a while" means? Does two weeks seem like enough time to wait until I'm over her and ready to "just be friends?"

And yes, I'm sure she didn't want to get back together. Her best friend talked to her after, and she called in hope of us becoming frends again.

Girls suck.
 
Originally posted by: Blazin Trav
Oh come on, that hardly seems that big of a deal.
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The fact is that if she actually cared how I was, she would have respected what I asked her...not to call, so I could just get over her. I'm sure you've been in the position of losing a girl after a long period of time, and how down you end up feeling.
 
That was all actually fairly mature. The only thing that went wrong was you bitching about her calling to say hi.
 
Originally posted by: Skeeedunt
That was all actually fairly mature. The only thing that went wrong was you bitching about her calling to say hi.
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True. She probably misses you and wanted to touch basis. You did the right thing, however. At least you're taking the right steps to moving on.
 
Yep! That girl sure does suck for caring about how you are doing! She should have known that you were doing better though and that you didn't want her to call you so soon through your telepathic connection with her. We girls sure do suck for not being able to read minds!

You are very young, though, so you probably don't really know much about life and how to deal with these situations. You'll learn!



: ) Amanda
 
Originally posted by: Baked
She dumped your ass 'cause you like your 30" Cinema Display more than her.
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lol i remember him posting that...kinda harsh, but whatev.

sowwie for your loss. hope you guys can become friends again...
 
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