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Girls on board - need your opinions!

novon

Diamond Member
Two of my friends are in my apartment flirting with their new girlfriends right now, and I don't have a girl. This doesn't feel good 🙁, isn't love suppose to just happen? I'm feelin left out.

UPDATE - GIRLS - I added my pic to my signature under 'me' - how do I rate? be honest please.

Thanks
 
That's the thing, I haven't been actively seeking, I thought you should just go woth the flow and just let it happen, but it hasn't.
 
Presumably these friends don't LIVE with you AND their girlfriends.

I gotta live with roommates that are semi-engaged, and another one that has his girlfriend over a lot of the time.
 
NovoN I feel your pain, man. I'm one of those guys who feels left out, too when I see happy couples. I suggest you just be yourself whenever you are around women. They will either like you or not for who you are, rather than see that you are trying to be someone who you aren't. You might here this line alot "You'll find someone when you aren't looking for them" which I think is a load of BS! Note that almost everyone who tells you this line is a woman meaning they aren't the ones that have to ask the other person out on dates, make the first move, etc. You aren't going to be able to totally "not try" but just be relaxed and easygoing about meeting women.

Just give it some time but don't try so hard to find the "right one."
 


<< You might here this line alot &quot;You'll find someone when you aren't looking for them&quot; which I think is a load of BS! Note that almost everyone who tells you this line is a woman meaning they aren't the ones that have to ask the other person out on dates, make the first move, etc. >>



Fvck, I completely agree! That's like saying the career of your dreams will just &quot;happen&quot; when you aren't looking. How likely is that?

 
OuterSquare:

RIGHT ON! I'm sick of hearing this damn line. Guys that actually succeed by &quot;not trying&quot; either are billionaires or look something like Ben Affleck. (The bastard he is!)

I think women say that because they are tired of getting hit on by desperate guys. There's has to be a balance between &quot;suavely seeking&quot; and &quot;desperately searching&quot;
 
I find that the best way to meet women is to talk to other girls and see if they can set you up with their friends.
 
I find that too desperate man.

Just forget this whole thing and be who you want to be. Hehe, I don't even give a crap anymore about looking for girls. It's too much work and I got other more imporant things to do rite now.
 
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