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dbot

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ok, so i've been with this girl for 7 months now. her last ex was a psycho jerk and transfered to a different school.

now all of a sudden he decides to start calling her and bugging her. calling from different numbers and having friends call her.

looking for some creative ideas to start bugging him and giving him a taste of his own medicine.

I was thinking of posting his number here and getting the ATOT effect going, at all hours of the night, LOL. But i don't know, just looking for some creative ideas.
 
OutHouse

OutHouse

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how old are you, 14?

you know people get killed by messing with people like that right?
 
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My girlfriend has some creepy guy who calls her everynow and then. Drives me nuts causeusually it's like 3 in the morning and i'm sleeping and he'll call 4-5 times leaving messages. I started answering her phone and just saying don't call and a mean scary voice..that seems to have worked so far
 
iamme

iamme

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Originally posted by: eyecandy86
Have your girlfriend change her number. Problem solved.
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yeah, no need to escalate the problem with someone who's obviously still a child. why put your GF through potentially more headaches?
 
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Bumrush99

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Next time he calls pick up the phone and tell him to F*CK off or you're going to call the cops.
 
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YJK76

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Originally posted by: eyecandy86
Have your girlfriend change her number. Problem solved.
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yup, simple as that. why is she taking her ex's phone calls anyway? if she told him to stop calling but he still does, there's always other options like the police, perhaps???
 
GhettoPeanut

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Originally posted by: eyecandy86
Have your girlfriend change her number. Problem solved.
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winner.

dong what he's doing to you brings you down to his level.

that or call the cops, cuz honestly, having cops involved in anything is funny.
 
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maximus maximus

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Originally posted by: dbot
ok, so i've been with this girl for 7 months now. her last ex was a psycho jerk and transfered to a different school.

now all of a sudden he decides to start calling her and bugging her. calling from different numbers and having friends call her.

looking for some creative ideas to start bugging him and giving him a taste of his own medicine.

I was thinking of posting his number here and getting the ATOT effect going, at all hours of the night, LOL. But i don't know, just looking for some creative ideas.
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Next time answer the phone and say that you are gay and always wanted to do him.
Problem solved. :D
 
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eakers

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if you want it to seriously stop, she needs to tell him the next time he calls that she doesn't want any further contact with him or his friends, and if he does she is going to go to the police. What they are doing is called harassment and it is illegal.
Then, the next time he calls or emails or anything she can go to the police and file a police report.

repeat until you work your way up to restraining order.
 
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BD2003

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There is only one single effective way to get rid of a stalker, short of killing them. This method will work 100% but most girls are too weak to keep it up.

All she has to do is not respond to him whatsoever. And he will eventually go away, when he realizes he cant get through to her. As soon as he calls, and she realizes its him, she hangs up. If he calls from a known number, she doesnt answer. If she sees him in person, she ignores him. Now keep in mind that if at any point, ESPECIALLY after a long period of ignorance, if she does respond to him in any way whatsoever, it will backfire, and make the problem far far worse. He will realize that all he has to do is keep it up and eventually she will crack. Telling him youre going to call the cops will make him laugh and only drive him further.

It WILL work. But it requires absolute vigilance in ignorance. Ive yet to meet a girl that is up to the task.
 
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kranky

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Originally posted by: BD2003
There is only one single effective way to get rid of a stalker, short of killing them. This method will work 100% but most girls are too weak to keep it up.

All she has to do is not respond to him whatsoever. And he will eventually go away, when he realizes he cant get through to her. As soon as he calls, and she realizes its him, she hangs up. If he calls from a known number, she doesnt answer. If she sees him in person, she ignores him. Now keep in mind that if at any point, ESPECIALLY after a long period of ignorance, if she does respond to him in any way whatsoever, it will backfire, and make the problem far far worse. He will realize that all he has to do is keep it up and eventually she will crack. Telling him youre going to call the cops will make him laugh and only drive him further.

It WILL work. But it requires absolute vigilance in ignorance. Ive yet to meet a girl that is up to the task.
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It does work. Without any type of response, the stalkers give up. You can answer your phone and wait for the other person to say hello first - if it's the stalker, you get to hang up without even saying a single word.
 
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dirtboy

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There's something about bugging a psycho that just doesn't make sense. He's her ex, so it's her problem. I'd stay out of it myself.
 
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