Gunslinger08
Lifer
- Nov 18, 2001
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That's great that you believe you can't have a dedicated relationship without being married. Enjoy those 3 divorces in your future. You have no idea what a relationship is.
HALLELUJAH!!! CAN I GET AN AMEN?!
Then again , me and my friends would prowl campus like sharks on our motorcycles looking for "cantidates"...and I must say. I have had a VERY good time with girls on campus.
not for long around UCSB & Isla Vista.
mistake to get deeply life-long serious over high school infatuartion
better to let those young relationships be transitory, so people can grow through lots of "relationships."
dot't cling to her, explore interactions with new girls, with a fully open mind.
ElMonoDelMar
Golden Member
- Apr 29, 2004
- 1,163
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College and drinking ruined my 3 year relationship with my ex-innocent ex-girlfriend.
Life's a bitch.
Life's a bitch.
UCSB has a reputation of being a party school.
I remember walking through campus my first year there and walking by another freshman who clearly screamed out "I can't wait to get laid!"
It's very hard to overlook the party mentality on campus and in Isla Vista (small community next to UCSB for those not familiar with the area).
The Stigenator
Lifer
- Oct 9, 1999
- 15,216
- 3
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might as well kiss your relationship goodbye.. she doesnt value the last few years..she only wants to party.. and guess what she will break up or force you to break up and cause issues just so she can have it her way.
women are evil!
UCSB is where my ex went, and frankly its called univ. of california for sex and beer. but its also stands for sluts and bitches.. so trust me.. i have seen this pattern before.
dump that bitch and move on.
women are evil!
UCSB is where my ex went, and frankly its called univ. of california for sex and beer. but its also stands for sluts and bitches.. so trust me.. i have seen this pattern before.
dump that bitch and move on.
MichaelD
Lifer
- Jan 16, 2001
- 31,528
- 3
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OP:
OK, I'm gonna do something unusual and be nice.
After reading, oh 99% of the posts here, do you have any doubt as to what's going to happen? I know you've got a broken heart and it really sucks. I dated my HS GF for 3.5 years. She dumped me about two weeks after graduation for some guy I'd met once or twice at a party. I was devasted for weeks on end. I got over it.
Here's the "easy way out" for you and you come out the good guy. Wait for the first sign of her partying, not returning your phone calls...other guy answering her cell. Then you tell her:
Of course, she will play ignorant: "What are you talking about?" You must remain P.C. and above all, calm. If she REALLY plays stupid, you start reminding her about her not returning your calls, her being drunk off her ass, her being out every night (as opposed to actually studying), etc.
She may yell and scream; this is good b/c YOU are CALM. You give her the "out" and a guarantee she will take it. It may not be a clean kill, but she'll go for it.
And you'll get over it. Remember: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. :thumbsup:
OK, I'm gonna do something unusual and be nice.
After reading, oh 99% of the posts here, do you have any doubt as to what's going to happen? I know you've got a broken heart and it really sucks. I dated my HS GF for 3.5 years. She dumped me about two weeks after graduation for some guy I'd met once or twice at a party. I was devasted for weeks on end. I got over it.
Here's the "easy way out" for you and you come out the good guy. Wait for the first sign of her partying, not returning your phone calls...other guy answering her cell. Then you tell her:
Of course, she will play ignorant: "What are you talking about?" You must remain P.C. and above all, calm. If she REALLY plays stupid, you start reminding her about her not returning your calls, her being drunk off her ass, her being out every night (as opposed to actually studying), etc.
She may yell and scream; this is good b/c YOU are CALM. You give her the "out" and a guarantee she will take it. It may not be a clean kill, but she'll go for it.
And you'll get over it. Remember: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. :thumbsup:
when will you all learn... "serious" relationships before the age of 27 are destined to fail. there are exceptions of course but most times they're doomed.
let her grow. and if that means the end of your relationship, so be it. find another gf....
let her grow. and if that means the end of your relationship, so be it. find another gf....
SLIM!!!! MAN THAT'S ROUGH!!! But brother...Im'ma tell ya , I hope he's wrong..but man I've just got this feeling that she's gonna get turned out....
I hate to admit it...but man there are HORDES of guys that "prey" on girls just like this...fresh meat man. I've had my fill of it too , so I'm just as bad!!!
its alumni weekend this weekend. I'll be take a stroll up to campus to "prey" on some hot coeds. :evil:
Sounds similiar to a situation i was in. The outcome of mine was... I got cheated on, we broke up.
Good luck
Good luck
ha so you are the bf she was telling me about.
jk.
to be honest, say bye to your gf. Tell her it was good while it lasted, but its not gonna work.
cut your losses before she cheats on you and make you feel like sh!t
jk.
to be honest, say bye to your gf. Tell her it was good while it lasted, but its not gonna work.
cut your losses before she cheats on you and make you feel like sh!t
I haven't read the thread but I bet this is true. She'll be experimenting with drugs, trying out a DP or some group sex at the very least, and probably stuff you don't even want to know about.
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