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Girl with lots of guy friends

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Originally posted by: caitlion
i didnt read past the first couple replies but they were really retarded. its completely normal. most girls dont tend to get along with other girls, for whatever reason. i know that ive always gotten along a lot better with guys.

Of course. Women tend to be catty towards each other, whereas guys tend to be on their best behavior because they're hoping to tap some of that.. Most girls in this situation, for some reason, are completely unable to see this.
 
Originally posted by: crab
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
The girl probably considers these guys just "friends". On the other hand, every one of these guys is probably there only because he's hoping to eventually get some of that.

I disagree. I have some friends that are girls that I don't want to get some from. Trust me.
 
i didnt read past the first couple replies but they were really retarded. its completely normal. most girls dont tend to get along with other girls, for whatever reason.
No, I'm sorry to say it is NOT normal. Girls do not typically hang around in groups where the ratio of guys to girls is 10:1 - unless they're engaging in a bukkake party with Ameesh as one of the guys.

And in regards to most girls don't get along with girls, what planet are you from? Most girls can be bitchy behind each other's backs, but it doesn't mean they start hanging around with guys. It just means they're bitchy behind each other's backs and will still hang out with each other.

Remember parties when you were a kid and the guys gravitate towards each other and the girls gravitate towards each other. Well, parties I go to now where we all know each other comprised mostly of couples the guys tend to gravitate towards each other and the girls do to. With kids it's greatly because of nervousness. With adults it's because simply I have more in common with a guy than a girl, and dito from the girl's perspective.
 
Originally posted by: Skoorb
i didnt read past the first couple replies but they were really retarded. its completely normal. most girls dont tend to get along with other girls, for whatever reason.
No, I'm sorry to say it is NOT normal. Girls do not typically hang around in groups where the ratio of guys to girls is 10:1 - unless they're engaging in a bukkake party with Ameesh as one of the guys.

And in regards to most girls don't get along with girls, what planet are you from? Most girls can be bitchy behind each other's backs, but it doesn't mean they start hanging around with guys. It just means they're bitchy behind each other's backs and will still hang out with each other.

Remember parties when you were a kid and the guys gravitate towards each other and the girls gravitate towards each other. Well, parties I go to now where we all know each other comprised mostly of couples the guys tend to gravitate towards each other and the girls do to. With kids it's greatly because of nervousness. With adults it's because simply I have more in common with a guy than a girl, and dito from the girl's perspective.

I have to disagree. There are quite a few girls I know that prefer to hang out with guys because they are easier to get along with.
 
Nearly all my friends are guys. I have three good female friends - my mom, my sister, and one non-related female. The rest, a pretty considerable number, are male. I find them more interesting to talk to and easier to get along with. My best guy friends would never want to date me, they've told me so (without my asking, ouch! 😉) primarily because I met most of them while dating one of their best guy friends (the bros before hos thing, in a religious way). I like that, kept me nicely and simply off limits and they consider me their sister, even introduce me to people like that. It's not all that rare either. I know several women who prefer males as friends. I mean, come on, realistically... females are PITAs.
 
There are quite a few girls I know that prefer to hang out with guys because they are easier to get along with.
Surely some girls prefer the company of guys, just how gay guys get on better with girls often than men, and in some cases it doesn't mean anything nasty is going on, but I still maintain that it's abnormal. I define normal as what the majority of people do, and the majority of girls do not hang out with guys more often than fellow girls.
 
Originally posted by: Skoorb
There are quite a few girls I know that prefer to hang out with guys because they are easier to get along with.
Surely some girls prefer the company of guys, just how gay guys get on better with girls often than men, and in some cases it doesn't mean anything nasty is going on, but I still maintain that it's abnormal. I define normal as what the majority of people do, and the majority of girls do not hang out with guys more often than fellow girls.

If that's how you're defining normal, then sure. But there's nothing wrong with it, nor does being abnormal really lead to any harm. Unless you get sucked into an internet forum. And spend several hours a day on it. And start meeting people from it.

Abnormal, if you define normal like that, doesn't equal bad.
 
Unless you get sucked into an internet forum. And spend several hours a day on it. And start meeting people from it.
Except enough people are doing that that it's becoming normal :Q

I'd still "worry" about her, just because I'd worry about any abnormal behavior, especially the kind that can end up in bastard children 9 months down the road 😛
 
No, I'm sorry to say it is NOT normal. Girls do not typically hang around in groups where the ratio of guys to girls is 10:1 - unless they're engaging in a bukkake party with Ameesh as one of the guys.

i'm glad i'm not the only one who knows the meaning of "bukkake"
 
Originally posted by: Gnote
Originally posted by: Howard
Originally posted by: Gnote
No, nothing wrong with that... your sister probably has a hard time getting along with most girls (probably frustrated with "cattiness"). btw how old is your sister. If she's in high school, it's probably nothing to worry about.

And I can't believe you suggested your sister is a slut...
Sometimes truth hurts.

Don't speak with many girls much do you?
You're right. I don't.
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Where did I suggest that she was a slut?
 
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
My Girlfriend has a handful of female friends.

On the other hand, she has a football pitch worth of male friends.

It pisses me off because she doesnt like me having even 1 or 2 female friends
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So? Does everything you do have to be to the approval of your girlfriend?
 
Originally posted by: Howard
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
My Girlfriend has a handful of female friends.

On the other hand, she has a football pitch worth of male friends.

It pisses me off because she doesnt like me having even 1 or 2 female friends
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So? Does everything you do have to be to the approval of your girlfriend?

For an easy life?

Yes.
 
my G/F has more guy friends than girl friends. Her best friend is a girl, but she isnt the most girly girl i've ever seen.
 
I have more guy friends than girl friends. It depends on what the guys are like. If they're out to get some then yes, she's a slut. If they seem pretty cool then maybe she just likes stable moods. I prefer guy friends over moody backstabbing bitches any day!
 
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