Girl raped twice by same guy in span of 30 days

[dougp]

Okay... well maybe dougp is blaming her...

Bad dougp.

Nope, not blaming her. I'm simply stating that none of us know circumstances, but people who still want to blame the guy 100% could be in the wrong. For all we know, she could have been wearing a short skirt ... I mean, that's asking for it, AMIRITE?

 

[dougp]

Quotes from this thread:

"but seriously - how do you get raped by the same guy twice unless you're in prison?"

"One of the comments pretty much sums my suspicions up for me: 'Quote:
some chick named 'Kelly': Why, if raped once, would the victim even go near this guy again?'"

"Sorry SixOne, but twice, in 30 days? That's fucking stupid. Why are you around a guy who raped you?"

I was obviously not talking about you. Even still, saying these types of things definitely insinuates she would be to blame. Not sure how you would see it any other way.

Quit raping my posts. I will not edit the other ones, but it's now your fault.

 

[Stuxnet]

Quotes from this thread:

"but seriously - how do you get raped by the same guy twice unless you're in prison?"

"One of the comments pretty much sums my suspicions up for me: 'Quote:
some chick named 'Kelly': Why, if raped once, would the victim even go near this guy again?'"

"Sorry SixOne, but twice, in 30 days? That's fucking stupid. Why are you around a guy who raped you?"

I was obviously not talking about you. Even still, saying these types of things definitely insinuates she would be to blame. Not sure how you would see it any other way.

You said:

I don't understand why you guys are blaming her for the second time.

You are missing the obvious distinction between a discussion geared toward her potentially poor decision making and one of saddling her with blame for being raped. No one has said anything to the effect of "she was around him again, so it's her fault."