girl question

[dfi]

School just started and I met a girl a few days ago. We were both trying to get into a class, and we started talking. We exchanged numbers so that we could tell each other about other potentially good classes.

Well, I didnt see her in the next class, but I still have her number. I wouldnt mind getting to know her more, but feel it's kind of soon to ask her out on a date. Hrmm, what now?

dfi

 

[datalink7]

Call her fool!

 

[AreaCode707]

Don't specify it as a date (dates=pressure) but just call her and ask if she wants to grab coffee and compare classes. Key is to keep the language easygoing and to give the meet a purpose other than trying to tell if you *like* each other.

 

[punkrawket]

well you would take that phone number... dial it on your phone... talk into the microphone end of the phone and ask her out for _______ (insert your own idea.... coffee, lunch, study, fun, whatever)

 

[mithrandir2001]

Just call her up and arrange to meet her again. Quite simple...no need to introduce the term "date".

 

[heartsurgeon]

work on being a friend to her, the rest will come easy

 

[McPhreak]

yeah. you should call her. Girls are nice...

 

[NakaNaka]

yea - this girl i like im not "asking her out on a date" I'm just seeing if she wants to do something. Do that, just hang out as friends, if you two like each other (or you like her and you think she might like you) then ask her out.

 

[LuNoTiCK]

The Pics question hasnt been asked yet? Pics?

 

[dfi]

Heh, no pics. I know, I should've been carrying a camera around with me to class, so that if I met an attractive girl, I could take her picture and post it on anandtech OT!

I think I'm more stuck on what to say specifically. Maybe I'm overthinking this?

dfi

 

[TheVrolok]

There's nothing wrong with calling a girl just to get to know her and hang out as friends.. give it a shot man!

 

[Yuto]

Just remember, both of you agreed to exchange numbers. If her number is legit, she's interested in you! And you're GOLDEN! Have a little confidence in that! GL!

 

[bootymac]

i second the dont call it a date thing. its just like this:

I'm not asking you out to a date, I just wanna do you

 

[Grunt03]

Why would it be to soon.
Who cares, you are only going out......

 

[DannyLove]

such a newbie question. grow some balls

danny~!

 

[bigalt]

i'll give you 5 bucks for number

 

[BigFatCow]

<< i'll give you 5 bucks for number >>



yea me too?

 

[boyRacer]

damn we got some pimps in here... lol... i'll give you 5 for it too.

 

[CSoup]

Had a similar thing happen a few years ago. A girl and I wanted to switch sections, but they were all full, so we found out we were each in the section the other one wanted, she suggested that we trade. The person at the desk agreed, so it was a done deal. For some reason she asked for my number though and gave me her's. She was pretty hot. I never called and she did not either. Which leads to my sorry 24 yr old ass who has never dated or even kissed a girl and also have never been employed (meaning no future luck with women either I guess). I suck big time.

So my advice is go for it; what can you really lose?

 

[Ameesh]

ask her to marry you, if she says no, tell her she better or else!

 

[TranceNation]

do yourself a favor and go rent or buy the movie 'Swingers'.

'I want you to be the guy in the rated r move where you're not sure if you like him or not'

'There's nothing wrong with letting girls know that you're money and that you want to party'