Girl Dilemma; I'm not a player.

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Xenon14

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Ok, let me lay it out for you. A girl who I care about (and there was a previous thread on this a while back) also cared for me. But when she wanted to go out w/ me, i didn't want to go out w/ her and vice versa. So a couple of days ago, I got a different girl's number. I know the girl, but not personally, only on a "hey, what's up?" basis. Yesterday, however, the original girl talked to me and wants to hang out. I'd rather go out with the girl I already have feelings for, but I already got the phone number and talked to with the other girl. What do I do? I can't just not ask the other girl out, since I already got her number and asked her out. And i don't want to take actions that would leave me without either one (which with my luck will happen). What do I dO????????
 
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zippy

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Why should you be attached to either so soon? It's not like you made date plans (right?)...you're just going out, there's no harm in that.
 
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Yo Ma Ma

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Well can't you see both for awhile, see how it goes (in other words don't get extremely 'serious' right away)? I wouldn't discard the 2nd girl right off the bat though, that's being too influenced by girl #1, not good (imo).
 
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chrissyo4

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well.. i think that you should date both girls just to see what happens, its not like anything serious is going on right now. Then decide which one you like better. Remember it will get harder to dump either of the girls - so decide with your heart quickly. leading a girl on is no good! hope i shed some light on this subject.. :D
 
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CattyKathy

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Go out with both on a date, maybe u'll like the other than the one u already like, give it a try :p
 
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Xenon14

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Ok, let's assume I go out with both. The one I like currently, I have already been to the prom with and I've known her for a while. The "other" one, I asked out b/c I just wanted to go out, but how could I break it off after the first date? Even worse, waht if we hook up? I can't just be like, "yeah, I just test drove you; not bad. But the other ride is smoother."
 
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ThisIsMatt

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<< Even worse, waht if we hook up? I can't just be like, &quot;yeah, I just test drove you; not bad. But the other ride is smoother.&quot; >>

Keep it in your pants, turbo.
 
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PhiI2e

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Just listen to the words of JaRule (Fast and The Furious) Mona-tue (I know I can't spell it right)
 
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chrissyo4

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i think you know what to do... u pretty much talked urself through it. don't even bother with the girl u just wanted to &quot;test drive&quot; if u feel like this... im sure shes not gonna die if one guy doesnt call her... there is no sense in leading her on..
 
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TripleJ

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I like girls that 'hang out'. ;)


OK, I've taken my pills now. Explain to the girl that you asked out about the situation. Tell her 'Maybe another time, huh?' She should be cool about it and you can ask her out later if things don't work out between you and the other one. That'd be the best outcome, wouldn't it?
 
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monk3y

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Just go with the girl you already know well... it's a better bet and she's the one you already know you enjoy to be with :D
 
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bigredguy

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<< ...I just crush a lot. >>


Ha ha :D



that is so cruel. you should be ashamed of yourself.
 
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Muadib

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I would date both for now. Something about prom girl turned you off the first time around, and who's to say it won't happen again. Until things get serious, enjoy life!
 
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