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KarmaPolice

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Has anyone ever asked a girl out on a date when they are working..i mean the girl.

Like if you go somehwere frequently, or once and twice, and meet a girl who seems to be quite nice, do you ever ask? I have thought about it but it seems quite arkward...


yes I knwo I am a pussy.
 
Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Has anyone ever asked a girl out on a date when they are working..i mean the girl.

Like if you go somehwere frequently, or once and twice, and meet a girl who seems to be quite nice, do you ever ask? I have thought about it but it seems quite arkward...


yes I knwo I am a pussy.
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Word of advice: Don't date co-workers. You've been warned!
 
I can tell you from the girl's perspective: it is very awkward. She doesn't know you from Adam, and she has her job to worry about.
 
Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Has anyone ever asked a girl out on a date when they are working..i mean the girl.

Like if you go somehwere frequently, or once and twice, and meet a girl who seems to be quite nice, do you ever ask? I have thought about it but it seems quite arkward...


yes I knwo I am a pussy.
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Word of advice: Don't date co-workers. You've been warned!
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True dat.

I fell into that trap twice, and it NEVER works out.
 
She probably doesn't know who you are, so you're essentially a stranger asking someone out while they're busy doing something else.

Chances are it won't work out well.
 
i've been asked out by two girls while they were working... both worked at subway. it wasn't at the same time, though. i dated one... tossed her aside. then, a few months later, another girl at the same subway asked me out... i didn't do anything with her, though, cuz she has 3 kids. all i was looking for was to bang her, but i didn't think it was morally right for me to do that to a mom with 3 kids. she needed to get her life straight.

i asked out a girl while she was working... she said no :/
 
Sure have. But only if it is very slow and we already have a conversation going. This is NOT something you ask out of thin air: let her look at and talk to you for a few minutes so at least she has an opinion to the question.

edit: Read the OP's post, not just the title. Derhhh....
 
hmmm...I think the guy is talking about asking a girl out while she is working, not a co-worker (because that's always a bad idea). I met a girl the other day at her work and I'm going out w/ her tonight--but I could care less if it works or not...the worst she can say is no, so I say go for it.
 
If this thread title is indicative of your general communication skills, I say go for it - should be entertaining if nothing else.
 
I have done it twice and was rejected both times. There are times when i think about doing it again, but i have always thougth better of it. I have determined this isnt the best way of asking a girl out.
 
Originally posted by: sixone
I can tell you from the girl's perspective: it is very awkward. She doesn't know you from Adam, and she has her job to worry about.
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That's why you don't ask her at the job, you stalk her and ask her when she comes outta the shower.
 
I met my wife through work when I was managing a rental car office, she was a client of mine. I drove to the body shop and picked her up because the idiot I sent out to pick her up went the wrong way and got lost. We talked a bit about life and things we wanted out of life, our goals were completely opposite of course, yet we dated anyway and the rest, as they say, is history. 😀
 
Depends on how much of a conversation you can have with her while she's working. I've done it the other way around... while I was working, I asked a customer out. Both times, they said yes.
 
Originally posted by: Baked
Originally posted by: sixone
I can tell you from the girl's perspective: it is very awkward. She doesn't know you from Adam, and she has her job to worry about.
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That's why you don't ask her at the job, you stalk her and ask her when she comes outta the shower.
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:thumbsup:

Just be sure to check the location of her telephone before she shuts off the water.
 
Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Has anyone ever asked a girl out on a date when they are working..i mean the girl.

Like if you go somehwere frequently, or once and twice, and meet a girl who seems to be quite nice, do you ever ask? I have thought about it but it seems quite arkward...


yes I knwo I am a pussy.
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Word of advice: Don't date co-workers. You've been warned!
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QFT! I dated this girl from work and we became the gossip of the month. And then it didn't work out and there was much more gossip plus lots of awkardness.
 
Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Has anyone ever asked a girl out on a date when they are working..i mean the girl.

Like if you go somehwere frequently, or once and twice, and meet a girl who seems to be quite nice, do you ever ask? I have thought about it but it seems quite arkward...


yes I knwo I am a pussy.
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depends on your maturity.

I have dated a lot where I work. It always brings gossip though and that can be bad, especially when I was younger it became an issue at times. Co-workers seeing your car parked in the morning in front of another co-workers home is pure gossip material.

Fortunately my production sorted it out, along with her being cool with it.

She had great lines especially being 10 years older than me and the office all really right on the situation 😉 "He just called me trying to drive home way to drunk, he asked if I knew anyone downtown...I told him he could crash on my couch no problem". My bosses tried to live vicariously through me at our weekly meetings (fortunately due to HR guidelines we were an all male team).

As long as both parties are cool with it, then it works. I can breakup with someone or they with me and not be thinking until I die I must end them.

Unfortunately, me and the chick I mentioned above got into a heated war at a holiday party. She started wanting to play games, I didn't...we had a trip planned and she tried to make it the event of the night and why should she go with me when some model looking guy wanted her to spend the night. He was a great looking guy. When I told her I could call ahead to cancel her part of it and that I would still be going it got nasty. The office knew we were "doing it" at that point.

I went to orlando solo and that was pretty good.
 
Just another addition...no need to be ackward. Be polite, that's it.

What you did is not abnormal (farm animals not withstanding), you met...liked each other...licked each other....[70's pr0n music]****[/70's pr0n music]....the end.

I am married and my wife doesn't like when we run into my ex's, but more often than not actually enjoys talking with them. It's a win-win for me.
 
Just think of it this way- What if things don't work out? Then you'll have to see this girl everyday for the rest of the time you both work there! I know firsthand that this is horrible. I learned my lesson, don't make the same mistake.
 
If the OP means what I think he means, that he's a customer or something where the girl works and he's going to ask her out while she's working, I'd have to say don't be that guy. There is nothing wrong with the concept, but as usual the idiots ruined it for the rest of us.
 
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