Goosemaster
Lifer
I these friends of the family (REALLY REALLY NICE FOLKS) are having a little get together for their adopted daughter.
They have treated their adopted daughter as truely one of their own, and I use the word adopted as in "welcomed into their family as one of their own" as they already have 3 kids of their own. It has been a struggle keeping her due to issues with her biological family and due to foster home arrangements, and they are going to be ecstatic when I go over their today because today is the day the Social worker brings over "the keys," if you get my drift. Finally after years of committment, today is the day they become her legal parents.
I know her quite well, so its not I'll buy something overly extravagant or overly cheap. I want something that will simply add to the joy of the day. She is around 7 yrs old, and I although I am not bewildered when it comes to what I want to get her, I wanted to hear some feedback.
I was thinking of perhaps a nice soft yet firm doll or bear like stuffed anmal. You know; not that plastic shell nonsense but more of a doll that she can sleep with. I think something that comes to mind is "ragedy ann." I remember seeing something like that as a kid. The kind of doll that is midway between think cotton and polyester. The reason I am thinking "doll" or "Teddy bear" is because my uncle gave me one "Oscar😀" as a gift when I was born, and I still have it .....close dryer burns and all ( i was a curious little mosnter😀)
Anyways, please feel free to give me ideas. I would rather steer clear of candy or toys as, from my experience, a child's emotional capacities are usually habitually limited with such things. On the contrary, something decorative or statuesque will just sit there and gather dust.
Bascially, agree with me 😉
They have treated their adopted daughter as truely one of their own, and I use the word adopted as in "welcomed into their family as one of their own" as they already have 3 kids of their own. It has been a struggle keeping her due to issues with her biological family and due to foster home arrangements, and they are going to be ecstatic when I go over their today because today is the day the Social worker brings over "the keys," if you get my drift. Finally after years of committment, today is the day they become her legal parents.
I know her quite well, so its not I'll buy something overly extravagant or overly cheap. I want something that will simply add to the joy of the day. She is around 7 yrs old, and I although I am not bewildered when it comes to what I want to get her, I wanted to hear some feedback.
I was thinking of perhaps a nice soft yet firm doll or bear like stuffed anmal. You know; not that plastic shell nonsense but more of a doll that she can sleep with. I think something that comes to mind is "ragedy ann." I remember seeing something like that as a kid. The kind of doll that is midway between think cotton and polyester. The reason I am thinking "doll" or "Teddy bear" is because my uncle gave me one "Oscar😀" as a gift when I was born, and I still have it .....close dryer burns and all ( i was a curious little mosnter😀)
Anyways, please feel free to give me ideas. I would rather steer clear of candy or toys as, from my experience, a child's emotional capacities are usually habitually limited with such things. On the contrary, something decorative or statuesque will just sit there and gather dust.
Bascially, agree with me 😉