I am no expert but here my thoughts..
Bethesdas policy of letting the players do what they want to do is a double edged sword for things such as NPC characters and quest progression and story lines.(Problem with all sandbox games mostly)
For a minute compare it to Dragon age:Origins which is by far one of the best games for pacing and quest progression and back stories...But it is not a free roam world like Oblivion/Skyrim and after doing the main quest there is nothing else to do and you are done!
To enjoy bethesda games You have to actually role play by putting constraints that are not there in the game.
People try to develop all skills irrespective of class which is not a natural progression for their class/charachter end up getting owerpowered and complain they are bored.
IN My opinion this is where the problem is mostly.
If you play a mage wielding an weapon/armor that is custom forged or be a thief that oneshots dragons with a super enchanted bow or poison damage and a melee character that conjures also it takes away from the role playing(especially since now you have a companion with you)
.People do smithing,enchanting and alchemy all for getting uber weapons and potions and then complain they are bored of the game as they begin to one shot everything!
This is where the problem is mostly!
I am a Level 25 pure mage..no weaapons..no armor..only enchanting and using only potions that are sold at stores.(Don,t use potions in combat)
Have uldred the broken heart as my tank in hard battles.
I finished the college of winterhold quests I will be not doing companions or thieves guild quests this playthrough..will do the mainquest and maybe 50% of other quests.
I will be joining other guilds on my next play through as a thief...
