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Geek relationship question.

Hi everyone. Just looking for an opinion from everyone. I've got this one girl at work that I meet a few months back and work with her periodically (she's part time and on varying shifts, so I don't always get to see her) and she's really cool.

She's slightly taller than me, very petite, sweet, and Uber Geekette! 🙂 I like that. Plus she plays a mean game of Unreal and CounterStrike. 😀

Debating if I want to just remain friends with her or explore the possibility of taking it another level up. I respect our friendship a lot, but at the same time I wouldn't mind asking her out on at least one date. So I'm kinda confused. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but at the same time...well you get the picture.

So, what do you think? Should I at least try to ask her out on a date? Being a fellow geek makes this very hard.
 
Originally posted by: Spac3d
Yikes. I would hate to date a woman that liked computers.

Where is the option for : Hell no.
That would be under the "Remain friends" listing. 🙂

and what's so bad about women who like computers? I think that's great. That is unless you go for the "Dumber is beater" type woman. I prefer the intelligent woman. Especially the Uber Geekette type.

 
Ask her out stupid, it isn't rocket science...

Just say, "hey, you doing anything Saturday night?" "No? Want to have dinner?"

Or whatever, no big deal...

Hopper
 
Originally posted by: LordRaiden
Right, try being a geek and ask a woman out. To a geek, women for some reason just don't compute. 🙂
I'm a geek and somehow I ended up with Thumper, so don't think it can't happen...

Hell, I wasn't even planning to ask her out, she seem far to "normal" for me (I'm weird).

Turns out she is even weirder than I am, which works just fine for me. 😀

Hopper
 
Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
Ask her out stupid, it isn't rocket science...

Just say, "hey, you doing anything Saturday night?" "No? Want to have dinner?"

Or whatever, no big deal...

Hopper

The worst that could happen is she turns you down right?? OOoooooo......big deal...🙂

Speed
 
I'd ask her out. If she turns you down things maybe strange for a while, but that'll change with some time, and if you make the effort to keep it the same..
 
I respect our friendship a lot . . .

Respect enough to post her picture on a forum, and probably without her permission?

Anyhow just kidding dude, you only got one life and you need to make the most of it. Just kick it up another notch.
 
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