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Jun 26, 2007
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Wasn't segregation involuntary?
In some cases I suppose, but what I am saying is that grouping people together like that will only lead to more separation and that's not necessarily a good thing.

I guess you have to weigh that against the psychological problems, and other problems caused by dropping out versus separation.
And it's not like they'll never be around straight people :p

i think this will lead to having them be more ostracized in the community

I'm inclined to think anyone that would ostracize them for this is probably already doing so, myself.
I still think this will add to the problem.

What is this "problem" you're speaking of?

A school where your sexual orientation does not matter what so ever is what they are proposing, and you say it's a problem?

You just lost a shitload of respect from me, not that that will matter for you, but you did.
Wow...I'm going to have to cry myself to sleep over the loss of your respect. :(

You misinterpreted what I said. Why I see this as a potential problem is if the school is only full of gay people. I think that will make them more distanced from the community.

That is what I have been saying. Don't misconstrue it. I am about as far from a homophobe as you could get.

So, IOW, you have a comprehension problem?

Everyone is welcome, but they specifically do not discriminate.

And as i said, hon, i really don't give a shit about you, it's just that i used to find your opinions respectrusl and balanced, now i just find you a bigoted bitch.
 

ric1287

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Nov 29, 2005
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Originally posted by: K1052
Originally posted by: ric1287
Originally posted by: K1052
Originally posted by: moshquerade

I still think this will add to the problem.

I disagree.

Kid's who's parents have the financial means over those who don't have the luxury of sending them to private schools. They might not be totally embraced but most private schools don't put up with any amount of shit from the student body at least allowing them to be educated in relative peace.

This school will probably be utilized by families who do not have that option.

What prevents the idiots who ruined public schools from going to this "nicer school"? Is this school going to get more/better funding while only allowing "socially unacceptable" students?

They could try but they'd they'd almost certainly be outnumbered by the very people they enjoy to torment. Doesn't seem like an attractive situation especially since it will be a relatively small school and closely watched for that kind of activity.

Probably not more funding, just built and staffed with this purpose in mind.

As a Chicagoan who pays an assload of property taxs I support this effort.

I just highly highly doubt that they can offer this school to only "special" students while still not spending more than the ghetto ass schools.
 

moshquerade

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Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Wasn't segregation involuntary?
In some cases I suppose, but what I am saying is that grouping people together like that will only lead to more separation and that's not necessarily a good thing.

I guess you have to weigh that against the psychological problems, and other problems caused by dropping out versus separation.
And it's not like they'll never be around straight people :p

i think this will lead to having them be more ostracized in the community

I'm inclined to think anyone that would ostracize them for this is probably already doing so, myself.
I still think this will add to the problem.

What is this "problem" you're speaking of?

A school where your sexual orientation does not matter what so ever is what they are proposing, and you say it's a problem?

You just lost a shitload of respect from me, not that that will matter for you, but you did.
Wow...I'm going to have to cry myself to sleep over the loss of your respect. :(

You misinterpreted what I said. Why I see this as a potential problem is if the school is only full of gay people. I think that will make them more distanced from the community.

That is what I have been saying. Don't misconstrue it. I am about as far from a homophobe as you could get.

So, IOW, you have a comprehension problem?

Everyone is welcome, but they specifically do not discriminate.

And as i said, hon, i really don't give a shit about you, it's just that i used to find your opinions respectrusl and balanced, now i just find you a bigoted bitch.

dude, of course everyone is welcome, but who do you think is going to attend? now really.

refrain from the name calling. i am not a bigot, never was, and never will be.
 

Oceandevi

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Jan 20, 2006
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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: Ocguy31
So now minorities want seperate + equal?

Make up your damn minds.

Read the damn article.

Public school officials in Chicago, Illinois, are recommending approval of a "gay-friendly" high school because harassment and violence are causing gay students to skip class and drop out at alarming rates.

If they were being treated as equal, this wouldn't be necessary.

huh? segregation solves this issue how?
 
Jun 26, 2007
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Wasn't segregation involuntary?
In some cases I suppose, but what I am saying is that grouping people together like that will only lead to more separation and that's not necessarily a good thing.

I guess you have to weigh that against the psychological problems, and other problems caused by dropping out versus separation.
And it's not like they'll never be around straight people :p

i think this will lead to having them be more ostracized in the community

I'm inclined to think anyone that would ostracize them for this is probably already doing so, myself.
I still think this will add to the problem.

What is this "problem" you're speaking of?

A school where your sexual orientation does not matter what so ever is what they are proposing, and you say it's a problem?

You just lost a shitload of respect from me, not that that will matter for you, but you did.
Wow...I'm going to have to cry myself to sleep over the loss of your respect. :(

You misinterpreted what I said. Why I see this as a potential problem is if the school is only full of gay people. I think that will make them more distanced from the community.

That is what I have been saying. Don't misconstrue it. I am about as far from a homophobe as you could get.

So, IOW, you have a comprehension problem?

Everyone is welcome, but they specifically do not discriminate.

And as i said, hon, i really don't give a shit about you, it's just that i used to find your opinions respectrusl and balanced, now i just find you a bigoted bitch.

dude, of course everyone is welcome, but who do you think is going to attend? now really.

refrain from the name calling. i am not a bigot, never was, and never will be.

I might have mixed you up with someone else and if so, i am truly sorry about that, but i distinctly remember you arguing against homosexual marriage.

Am i wrong on this one?
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Wasn't segregation involuntary?
In some cases I suppose, but what I am saying is that grouping people together like that will only lead to more separation and that's not necessarily a good thing.

I guess you have to weigh that against the psychological problems, and other problems caused by dropping out versus separation.
And it's not like they'll never be around straight people :p

i think this will lead to having them be more ostracized in the community

I'm inclined to think anyone that would ostracize them for this is probably already doing so, myself.
I still think this will add to the problem.

What is this "problem" you're speaking of?

A school where your sexual orientation does not matter what so ever is what they are proposing, and you say it's a problem?

You just lost a shitload of respect from me, not that that will matter for you, but you did.
Wow...I'm going to have to cry myself to sleep over the loss of your respect. :(

You misinterpreted what I said. Why I see this as a potential problem is if the school is only full of gay people. I think that will make them more distanced from the community.

That is what I have been saying. Don't misconstrue it. I am about as far from a homophobe as you could get.

So, IOW, you have a comprehension problem?

Everyone is welcome, but they specifically do not discriminate.

And as i said, hon, i really don't give a shit about you, it's just that i used to find your opinions respectrusl and balanced, now i just find you a bigoted bitch.

dude, of course everyone is welcome, but who do you think is going to attend? now really.

refrain from the name calling. i am not a bigot, never was, and never will be.

I might have mixed you up with someone else and if so, i am truly sorry about that, but i distinctly remember you arguing against homosexual marriage.

Am i wrong on this one?
yes.

so very wrong.


Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: RichardE
I'm all for it

Such a more civilized thread than the P&N one (yes, even 4 posts in :laugh: )

that's why i posted it here.

and my opinion of the gay marriage situation is favorable. i have no issues with homosexual couples wanting to proclaim their love, their commitment, legally just like a heterosexual couple.


http://forums.anandtech.com/me...AR_FORUMVIEWTMP=Linear
 
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SlitheryDee

This could be good for the individual students, but I wonder if it's not bad for gays as a whole. If this were to catch on nationwide then more gays would undoubtedly graduate, but that might come at the cost of keeping the cultural rift between gays and straights just as wide as it is for far longer than it might be otherwise.

Imagine generations of straight students who come into little contact with gays and can only speculate about what goes on in "that other school". Gays would never be seen as real people and would be far less likely to be accepted by students who had never seen one, but were steeped in the kind of wild rumor about them that only occurs when the object of that rumor is not in evidence to disprove it.
 

nageov3t

Lifer
Feb 18, 2004
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would have been nice to go to a school where my bf and I could have actually acknowledged that the other one even existed on school groups without fear of getting our asses kicked every day.
 
Jun 26, 2007
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Wasn't segregation involuntary?
In some cases I suppose, but what I am saying is that grouping people together like that will only lead to more separation and that's not necessarily a good thing.

I guess you have to weigh that against the psychological problems, and other problems caused by dropping out versus separation.
And it's not like they'll never be around straight people :p

i think this will lead to having them be more ostracized in the community

I'm inclined to think anyone that would ostracize them for this is probably already doing so, myself.
I still think this will add to the problem.

What is this "problem" you're speaking of?

A school where your sexual orientation does not matter what so ever is what they are proposing, and you say it's a problem?

You just lost a shitload of respect from me, not that that will matter for you, but you did.
Wow...I'm going to have to cry myself to sleep over the loss of your respect. :(

You misinterpreted what I said. Why I see this as a potential problem is if the school is only full of gay people. I think that will make them more distanced from the community.

That is what I have been saying. Don't misconstrue it. I am about as far from a homophobe as you could get.

So, IOW, you have a comprehension problem?

Everyone is welcome, but they specifically do not discriminate.

And as i said, hon, i really don't give a shit about you, it's just that i used to find your opinions respectrusl and balanced, now i just find you a bigoted bitch.

dude, of course everyone is welcome, but who do you think is going to attend? now really.

refrain from the name calling. i am not a bigot, never was, and never will be.

I might have mixed you up with someone else and if so, i am truly sorry about that, but i distinctly remember you arguing against homosexual marriage.

Am i wrong on this one?
yes.

so very wrong.


Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: RichardE
I'm all for it

Such a more civilized thread than the P&N one (yes, even 4 posts in :laugh: )

that's why i posted it here.

and my opinion of the gay marriage situation is favorable. i have no issues with homosexual couples wanting to proclaim their love, their commitment, legally just like a heterosexual couple.


http://forums.anandtech.com/me...AR_FORUMVIEWTMP=Linear

Well, ok then... *snort* apology.

I'm just kidding, i was wrong, you were right.

Funny thing is that it actually brings you and me closer to the decision which is kinda cool all in itself.

So actually... we agree.
 

JS80

Lifer
Oct 24, 2005
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Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Wasn't segregation involuntary?
In some cases I suppose, but what I am saying is that grouping people together like that will only lead to more separation and that's not necessarily a good thing.

I guess you have to weigh that against the psychological problems, and other problems caused by dropping out versus separation.
And it's not like they'll never be around straight people :p

i think this will lead to having them be more ostracized in the community

I'm inclined to think anyone that would ostracize them for this is probably already doing so, myself.
I still think this will add to the problem.

What is this "problem" you're speaking of?

A school where your sexual orientation does not matter what so ever is what they are proposing, and you say it's a problem?

You just lost a shitload of respect from me, not that that will matter for you, but you did.
Wow...I'm going to have to cry myself to sleep over the loss of your respect. :(

You misinterpreted what I said. Why I see this as a potential problem is if the school is only full of gay people. I think that will make them more distanced from the community.

That is what I have been saying. Don't misconstrue it. I am about as far from a homophobe as you could get.

So, IOW, you have a comprehension problem?

Everyone is welcome, but they specifically do not discriminate.

And as i said, hon, i really don't give a shit about you, it's just that i used to find your opinions respectrusl and balanced, now i just find you a bigoted bitch.

Found your way to OT now, oh enlightened one?
 
Jun 26, 2007
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Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Wasn't segregation involuntary?
In some cases I suppose, but what I am saying is that grouping people together like that will only lead to more separation and that's not necessarily a good thing.

I guess you have to weigh that against the psychological problems, and other problems caused by dropping out versus separation.
And it's not like they'll never be around straight people :p

i think this will lead to having them be more ostracized in the community

I'm inclined to think anyone that would ostracize them for this is probably already doing so, myself.
I still think this will add to the problem.

What is this "problem" you're speaking of?

A school where your sexual orientation does not matter what so ever is what they are proposing, and you say it's a problem?

You just lost a shitload of respect from me, not that that will matter for you, but you did.
Wow...I'm going to have to cry myself to sleep over the loss of your respect. :(

You misinterpreted what I said. Why I see this as a potential problem is if the school is only full of gay people. I think that will make them more distanced from the community.

That is what I have been saying. Don't misconstrue it. I am about as far from a homophobe as you could get.

So, IOW, you have a comprehension problem?

Everyone is welcome, but they specifically do not discriminate.

And as i said, hon, i really don't give a shit about you, it's just that i used to find your opinions respectrusl and balanced, now i just find you a bigoted bitch.

Found your way to OT now, oh enlightened one?

Yes, twat, i did, i tried to respond to her PM, which was kinda nice to her, but she blocked me. *sniff*

And just because you don't get shit about shit doesn't mean *I'm* the enlightened one.

Get it? Twat.
 

OCGuy

Lifer
Jul 12, 2000
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The best way to help gays be accepted in society is to completely segregate them from everyone else!

Some people are retarded. One of those people thought this idea up.
 

OCGuy

Lifer
Jul 12, 2000
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Originally posted by: between
it would be nice if a school like this didn't have to exist. but if it prevents gay kids from dropping out of school due to harassment, then I fully support such a school.

I also suspect the gay teenagers will have more fun at a school where most other kids are gay, as there will be more opportunity for socialising and dating. Whereas the dating opportunities for a gay kid in a majority heterosexual school would be pretty non-existant.


So segregating minorites is OK, as long as they want to be?
 

lupi

Lifer
Apr 8, 2001
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Originally posted by: MotF Bane
Originally posted by: DisgruntledVirus
Originally posted by: Beev
The article also says the school is open to any students, not just gays. It's just supportive of them.

So if I am a horny dude in HS I can go there in hopes of seeing girl on girl action?

We're talking real life lesbians here, not the ones you see in those videos.

If they're anything like the pair I got to watch in the lobby of laser tag at orlando, it's close enough.
 

Dumac

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Dec 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: ConstipatedVigilante
And doesn't every school have a goddamn GSA or LGBT club or something that sounds like a sandwich gone wrong?

My school had no such things. However, the was a plethora of christian clubs..

I don't really see the point of this school. Is it really going to solve any problems? Aren't the kids who bully gays still going to be there in the real world when kids graduate from this "gay friendly" high school?

Everyone gets bullied in highschool some time.

What's next, athiest friendly schools? Siamese twin friendly schools? People-with-small-penises friendly schools?
 

Mo0o

Lifer
Jul 31, 2001
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I dont understand what the big deal is. they have special schools for kids with all kinds of special needs. If GBLT kids want a safer learning environment and they're willing to attend a seperate school, then they should do it.
 

Mo0o

Lifer
Jul 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: Dumac
Originally posted by: ConstipatedVigilante
And doesn't every school have a goddamn GSA or LGBT club or something that sounds like a sandwich gone wrong?

My school had no such things. However, the was a plethora of christian clubs..

I don't really see the point of this school. Is it really going to solve any problems? Aren't the kids who bully gays still going to be there in the real world when kids graduate from this "gay friendly" high school?

Everyone gets bullied in highschool some time.

What's next, athiest friendly schools? Siamese twin friendly schools? People-with-small-penises friendly schools?

K-12 schooling isnt representative of the real world. Afterawhile, most people mature into adults that at least civil to one another. And after HS you have mroe options as to what environment you want ot immerse yourself in with regard to jobs, schooling, residence.
 

zinfamous

No Lifer
Jul 12, 2006
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Originally posted by: between
it would be nice if a school like this didn't have to exist. but if it prevents gay kids from dropping out of school due to harassment, then I fully support such a school.

I also suspect the gay teenagers will have more fun at a school where most other kids are gay, as there will be more opportunity for socialising and dating. Whereas the dating opportunities for a gay kid in a majority heterosexual school would be pretty non-existant.

Don't you get it? That's the age when they are most confused. Encouraging that wicked and false behavior is the wrong approach, and will only make things more difficult when we have to pray the gay out of them.
 

zinfamous

No Lifer
Jul 12, 2006
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Originally posted by: Dumac
Originally posted by: ConstipatedVigilante
And doesn't every school have a goddamn GSA or LGBT club or something that sounds like a sandwich gone wrong?

My school had no such things. However, the was a plethora of christian clubs..

I don't really see the point of this school. Is it really going to solve any problems? Aren't the kids who bully gays still going to be there in the real world when kids graduate from this "gay friendly" high school?

Everyone gets bullied in highschool some time.

What's next, athiest friendly schools? Siamese twin friendly schools? People-with-small-penises friendly schools?

All public schools are atheist friendly. well, they sure as hell should be. Unless you live in Kansas, but then you wouldn't matter anyway.
 

OCGuy

Lifer
Jul 12, 2000
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Unless you are flamboyant, I cant see being gay as the worst thing in high school. Im sure fat kids would LOVE if they could be "closet fat", or pretend to be normal size during school hours. I'm sure the kid with the bowed legs would just KILL if he could appear to walk normal to his peers.

The people for this are just for it because its the politically correct thing to say. They arent thinking about the rammifications if everyone who has a reason to be picked on gets thier own school. These will be stopped, so its not even worth debate.
 

Dumac

Diamond Member
Dec 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: zinfamous
Originally posted by: Dumac
Originally posted by: ConstipatedVigilante
And doesn't every school have a goddamn GSA or LGBT club or something that sounds like a sandwich gone wrong?

My school had no such things. However, the was a plethora of christian clubs..

I don't really see the point of this school. Is it really going to solve any problems? Aren't the kids who bully gays still going to be there in the real world when kids graduate from this "gay friendly" high school?

Everyone gets bullied in highschool some time.

What's next, athiest friendly schools? Siamese twin friendly schools? People-with-small-penises friendly schools?

All public schools are atheist friendly. well, they sure as hell should be. Unless you live in Kansas, but then you wouldn't matter anyway.

Mine wasn't. Mandatory prayer to Jesus isn't very atheist friendly, or friendly to any other religion.

(Louisiana)
 

Locut0s

Lifer
Nov 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: Ocguy31
Unless you are flamboyant, I cant see being gay as the worst thing in high school. Im sure fat kids would LOVE if they could be "closet fat", or pretend to be normal size during school hours. I'm sure the kid with the bowed legs would just KILL if he could appear to walk normal to his peers.

The people for this are just for it because its the politically correct thing to say. They arent thinking about the rammifications if everyone who has a reason to be picked on gets thier own school. These will be stopped, so its not even worth debate.

Whether you think there needs to be such a school or not the very fact that you list being gay as a defect or handicap like being fat or bow legged shows us that there is indeed a problem!