fsck... almost cheated on my gf last nite... feel pretty bad :(

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Alex

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sup guys

thought i'd share a quick story...

so last night me and my buddies went to a bar with a girl and her roomates, we all know the girl and it was her bday and we just met her roomates...
so from the second we got introduced i thought one of her roomates was hot... theres nothing wrong with thinking other girls are hot tho...right?
so as the night went on and i got drunker and drunker i started talking to her more and more and we decided to go outside for a smoke... at this point we're both flirting quite a bit... then she's like i wanna go home and asked me to take the cab with her...
at her place she asked me to come in and hang out for a bit...so i did... but much to our surprise everyone else had left the bar and some ppl were already home (someone was DDing so thats why they beat us over... it took like 10 mins to get a cab...) so i just hung out for a bit and took a cab back home. we just hugged and kissed on the cheek when i left and she whispered for me to call her...

now you guys may think this is nothing right? but honestly i was in the state of mind where all i wanted to do was hook up with her... she was really cute but i kept thinking about my girl all the time and i couldnt bring myself to make a move... but there was a lot of good sexual tension in the cab and if nobody was at her place something definitely would have happened...

ive never cheated before and ive been with my girl for over a year so its pretty serious... i feel like scum. i called the girl up today and told her i had a gf and appologised for giving her the wrong impression, but told her i thought she was cute and still wanted to be friends. she sounded kinda upset but we chatted for a bit after so i dont think she was mad or anything.

does this make me scum?
 
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Alex

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Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Put your morals aside and be a man. :beer::D
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lol
i dont think i could live with it... not when you have a girl for this long and its serious like it is...
 
silverpig

silverpig

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You didn't do anything wrong. You're allowed to make new friends. If you didn't DO anything, then you're fine.
 
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Danman

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Yea, but in the long run you made the right decision. One good lay really doesn't mean anything, it's really the love and relationship you have with the other person. She probably was really hot but, again, it's only sex.
 
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Alex

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Originally posted by: Carbo
Blame it on the booze. The guy with your girlfriend did.
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you guys are hilarious...

never saw this one coming
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but i guess theres a certain ammount of flamming for starting a thread like this anyway...

and my gf would never cheat on me, thats what makes me feel even worse.
 
Kadarin

Kadarin

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It doesn't make you scum; it makes you human, like the rest of us. Take solace in the fact that when it comes down to it, you did the right thing. Now you should perhaps consider all aspects of your current relationship and then decide where to go with it.

What if she were the one at the bar, flirting with some hot guy, and there was sexual tension going on?
 
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Alex

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Originally posted by: chocobaR
and my gf would never cheat on me
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That's what you think...
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lol true true... but shes not like that... :)

What if she were the one at the bar, flirting with some hot guy, and there was sexual tension going on?
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yeah i would hate it. hate it big time. id be so mad. and id fight the guy for sure.

i guess what counts is in the long run i did he right thing, but i shudder at the thought of how close i got and how out of control (kinda) i was to let it get that far. i could have walked 5 mins home from the bar but went back to her place....
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Soybomb

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More than anything I'd re-evaluate the relationship with your g/f, I'm guessing you're really not into it that much
 
chocobaR

chocobaR

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I think guys shouldn't commit 'till they're like 25. They should instead just try to be with the most girls possible. Then find some girl and settle or something.
 
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LOLyourFace

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Originally posted by: franguinho
sup guys

thought i'd share a quick story...

so last night me and my buddies went to a bar with a girl and her roomates, we all know the girl and it was her bday and we just met her roomates...
so from the second we got introduced i thought one of her roomates was hot... theres nothing wrong with thinking other girls are hot tho...right?
so as the night went on and i got drunker and drunker i started talking to her more and more and we decided to go outside for a smoke... at this point we're both flirting quite a bit... then she's like i wanna go home and asked me to take the cab with her...
at her place she asked me to come in and hang out for a bit...so i did... but much to our surprise everyone else had left the bar and some ppl were already home (someone was DDing so thats why they beat us over... it took like 10 mins to get a cab...) so i just hung out for a bit and took a cab back home. we just hugged and kissed on the cheek when i left and she whispered for me to call her...

now you guys may think this is nothing right? but honestly i was in the state of mind where all i wanted to do was hook up with her... she was really cute but i kept thinking about my girl all the time and i couldnt bring myself to make a move... but there was a lot of good sexual tension in the cab and if nobody was at her place something definitely would have happened...

ive never cheated before and ive been with my girl for over a year so its pretty serious... i feel like scum. i called the girl up today and told her i had a gf and appologised for giving her the wrong impression, but told her i thought she was cute and still wanted to be friends. she sounded kinda upset but we chatted for a bit after so i dont think she was mad or anything.

does this make me scum?
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what you did is wrong. I'd absolutely feel like crap if MY gf did that to me. I mean put yourself in her shoes. That being said, I applaud you for not really doing anything (based on what you nonchalantly told me here). I mean, you could've fvcked her but you didn't, good job.


 
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Alex

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Originally posted by: boyRacer
This is for you... :p
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lol thanks, i dont get it, but thx :p


o and if anyone is in my public yahoo bball league and wants doug christie ill trade him for cheap... what a wasted draft pick :D
 
AgaBoogaBoo

AgaBoogaBoo

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If you want to, you can tell your gf, that might help you feel better, BUT, before you start tell her the outcome so she doesn't cry and leave half way through, seriously
 
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