Here's some of the backstory first.
My friend has had issues ever since i've known him. back in hs a girl dumped him and he was pretty much stalking her for a few months. he got a crush on another girl who didn't want anything to do with him. he quit stalking her when he was threatened by some big mofos with major bodily harm. few years later he moved out of the country and met an older girl (he was 20, she 30 or so) and they went out for a while and he moved back here. she came to visit and he essentially didn't let her leave his house. another guy would just glance at his girlfriend and boom.. he became kcufing insane. she told us that none of his male friends know of that side of him.
she goes back and comes back a year later. he won't let her leave the house and he works like 60 hours a week. we (my friends and i) decide to take her out to a nightclub because she's essentially been locked in his place for the week. we all get back at 2am and he gets ragin jealous thinking that she's cheating. i mean, wtf? she flies half way around the world and you don't want her to leave the apartment for kcufing food or anything. and he would force her to stay up with him to 8am after his work each day. oh yeah, did i mention she had some bruises? on her arm and ribs.
i haven't talked to him in about a year but i heard that he was going to see a psychiatrist. what does the psychiatrist do? prescribes him some heavy narcotics (oh, and he has a substance abuse problem). last i heard (and verified) he's graduated to meth, coke, and who knows what else. he's dating some 34 yo girl who is pretty much his dealer now... yeah, i said girl because she quit her job to "win" money off internet games w/ tokens or some stupid sht like that. they live together and he won't leave her alone at the place. every moment he's awake he pretty much has to know where she is. all the money they have goes toward meth, coke, 'n weed.
well, my question is what can i do? I want to help him in some way. What would you do in this situation? i mean he's still a good person and all but this girl is kcufing killing him. not to mention his disturbed issues toward women. they're both nice people... but he's pretty much throwing his life away. my friends and i think he has issues toward his mom and is looking for a mother figure (because of the age thing) and is using drugs as a crutch... anyways...
My friend has had issues ever since i've known him. back in hs a girl dumped him and he was pretty much stalking her for a few months. he got a crush on another girl who didn't want anything to do with him. he quit stalking her when he was threatened by some big mofos with major bodily harm. few years later he moved out of the country and met an older girl (he was 20, she 30 or so) and they went out for a while and he moved back here. she came to visit and he essentially didn't let her leave his house. another guy would just glance at his girlfriend and boom.. he became kcufing insane. she told us that none of his male friends know of that side of him.
she goes back and comes back a year later. he won't let her leave the house and he works like 60 hours a week. we (my friends and i) decide to take her out to a nightclub because she's essentially been locked in his place for the week. we all get back at 2am and he gets ragin jealous thinking that she's cheating. i mean, wtf? she flies half way around the world and you don't want her to leave the apartment for kcufing food or anything. and he would force her to stay up with him to 8am after his work each day. oh yeah, did i mention she had some bruises? on her arm and ribs.
i haven't talked to him in about a year but i heard that he was going to see a psychiatrist. what does the psychiatrist do? prescribes him some heavy narcotics (oh, and he has a substance abuse problem). last i heard (and verified) he's graduated to meth, coke, and who knows what else. he's dating some 34 yo girl who is pretty much his dealer now... yeah, i said girl because she quit her job to "win" money off internet games w/ tokens or some stupid sht like that. they live together and he won't leave her alone at the place. every moment he's awake he pretty much has to know where she is. all the money they have goes toward meth, coke, 'n weed.
well, my question is what can i do? I want to help him in some way. What would you do in this situation? i mean he's still a good person and all but this girl is kcufing killing him. not to mention his disturbed issues toward women. they're both nice people... but he's pretty much throwing his life away. my friends and i think he has issues toward his mom and is looking for a mother figure (because of the age thing) and is using drugs as a crutch... anyways...
