Friends and girlfriends do not mix......

[TheOverlord]

Yea here's my sob story:

<begin woeful tale>

Theres a girl i really like at my school (becky)...shes very smart, funny, and attractive. Then theres my best friend...they both went out a year or so ago, she broke up with him and he was heartbroken...time goes by and i like her now...have for a long time but never said anything to her because im very uncomfortable around people...

BUT

now they're getting back together, albeit unofficially for now...crap

<end woeful tale>

so because of having never said anything i'm now stuck and cant say anything...sure its only high school and 10 to 1 it wont mean anything in 4 years but at the moment my mind is toiling over things...worse becky and i are going to see a friend at college tomorrow so i'll be with her but just have to smile and not let on about any of my feelings...

so what do you recommend? large dose of morphine to knock me out for a few days? anything to get my mind on something else would be good...tribes 2, s&amp;i, CS, TFC, ground control, bejeweled...all have failed, i cant even peruse the forums anymore, oh and winamp is off limits now because hanging by a moment makes me think of her at a banquet i was at...i had intended to ask her to it but guess what...yea my friend had already asked her long beforehand...

ok i'm done...flame, pity, or scoff at me. you make the call....

 

[GL]

I haven't even read your entire post but when I saw the part about your best friend going out with a girl you plan on asking out...a big warning sign popped up in my head. If I learned anything as a teen, it's don't take your friends' leftovers. Becky is off-limits. If you follow this, you'll ultimately come out of this a better man. Fail to heed my advice and you'll just walk the path that many gullible teenaged boys have already walked

 

[cmdavid]

go and cry me a fvcking river!!














j/k... same thing sorta happened to me in high school... guess what.. its been a few years now and i havent thought about that girl since... well.. a few years ago... until now.. thanks a lot jackass for bringing back all the pain and hate and heartbrokeness.... hehe.. just kiddin again...

heres what you should do... get drunk w/ her and then whatever happens happens... then she'll have to tell your best friend (does he post on these forums by the way?) or you will... either way he'll hate both of you... and everything will be all good...

just kiddin again... listen to GL... bros before hoes...

 

[Muadib]

Get over it son. You had over a year to make your feelings known. The question is, why didn't you? I'm guessing that if she wasn't getting back with your pal, that you STILL would not have made a move. Until you can fix this, I fear you will have many more sob stories to tell.

 

[Cable God]

plant your head in a hole on the ground. It's the best thing you could do in this situation man. Let it go.

 

[GoldenBear]

This thread doesn't deserve my reply.

 

[bonkers325]

<< This thread doesn't deserve my reply. >>



u are cold :Q

 

[pdo]

GL has some good advice there for you. There's alot of fish in the sea. Now go fish somewhere else.

 

[TheOverlord]

ah yes i thank you all for your caring and loving support...

GL: i see your logic, thanks ill take the road less traveled...

san: you're very welcome, i'm glad i at least ruined a few minutes of your evening thinking about past woes; my friend doesnt post here...no one at my school even frequents here so i'm safe

muadib: sadly, i probably wouldnt have...damn

cable: i'm tryin

goldenbear: thank you for not wasting the bandwidth to reply

.paldo: unfortunately my high school seems like the dead sea a lot of times...perhaps college will have more life