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Friend in serious pain over a breakup... what should/can I do?

MustangSVT

MustangSVT

Lifer
although I saw it coming... he really did everything for her and fell in love with her.

At least he was very serious.. serious enough to think about marriage.

now.. what should/Can I do?...

I know.. this might be wrong question to ask here, but just want some Ideas...

So far, I've made it clear that I'll be there for him if he needs me and Ill support him.

should I leave him alone? visit him frequently?

.. he is so upset that it makes me sad.. 🙁
 
time heals all wounds, most of the time. Hanging out with him and just being a good friend is about all there is. Stripclub probably needs to wait a few weeks.
 
Well just assure him that time does heal all wounds, take him to get some drinks if you're able to drag him out, keep him busy to keep his mind off of it.
 
Take him out. Last time I was feeling that way, a friend of mine took me snowboarding. I called in sick for work and we drove up to Tahoe. I felt a lot better up on the mountain.
 
you need to convince him that her sex wasn't the best.

find him a call girl STAT!
 
Originally posted by: MichaelD
He's b/t the ages of 16 and 21, yes?

He'll get over the slut.
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no he is actually 27. that's why he was even considering a marriage.

thank you everyone.. I'll just call him up randomly to check up on him and support him.

I got teary eyed when he was really letting it go.. he couldnt even speak..

poor bastard..
 
Originally posted by: MustangSVT
Originally posted by: MichaelD
He's b/t the ages of 16 and 21, yes?

He'll get over the slut.
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no he is actually 27. that's why he was even considering a marriage.

thank you everyone.. I'll just call him up randomly to check up on him and support him.

I got teary eyed when he was really letting it go.. he couldnt even speak..

poor bastard..
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Well hell, if he's THAT bad, don't let him drink or do drugs. Yes, smoking pot is considered "doing drugs." If he DOES drink or get stoned, don't leave him alone. Really.
 
Originally posted by: notfred
Take him out. Last time I was feeling that way, a friend of mine took me snowboarding. I called in sick for work and we drove up to Tahoe. I felt a lot better up on the mountain.
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:thumbsup:

...but then again... we took our friend out like that and all he said was 'i wish she could be here with us' 😕
 
Originally posted by: bR
Originally posted by: notfred
Take him out. Last time I was feeling that way, a friend of mine took me snowboarding. I called in sick for work and we drove up to Tahoe. I felt a lot better up on the mountain.
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:thumbsup:

...but then again... we took our friend out like that and all he said was 'i wish she could be here with us' 😕
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doh, sounds like a backfire.

I'd say for the OP, just keep checking in and visiting him, a lot of times a good friend can be the difference between being able to handle it and not.

Good luck with that.
 
Just be there incase he thinks about suicide and listen... then hit up the strip clubs and nudy bars (J/K) ... only time can heal.
 
Originally posted by: bR
Originally posted by: jeremy74
A good swift kick to the nads,he will forget all about his breakup. 🙂
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Originally posted by: bR
Originally posted by: jeremy74
A good swift kick to the nads,he will forget all about his breakup. 🙂
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Oww jebus!
You ever notice how instinct takes over and you kinda put your legs togather just seeing something like that.
 
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