fricken In-laws tick me off!

waggy

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Bah!

My wife's car needs new brakes and roters. Since we came back from vacation and then had to put new tires on my car we are broke until the 1st of the month. Well since i don't work we really only need one car. so we put my wifes car (escort) in the garage until the 1st so we can get it fixed.

Well my mother-in-law asked my wife if she can use the car for awhile since we were not using it and my wife might go in for Carpel tunnel surgery and can't drive. We told her fine she can use it but they need to fix the brakes (quoted $240 to do it). she said OK.

Well this weekend my brother-in-law said he could do it for cheaper. I just had to buy the parts and he would show me how to do it. So my wife told her mother about it and asked me how much it would be. Going off the quote i figured around $150 for 2 rotors +pads (it had pads at $75 heh and rotors at $50 each). Well my BIL (brother-in-law) said the parts are pretty cheap. something like $30 for each rotor and pads are $20) so i figured OK i will pocket the rest of the money since she is going to use the car for like a month or so.

Today she said she wants receipts from what we bought and the change. WTF! I told my wife fvuck it i will pay to get the parts (got a $500 check i forgot i was due) and keep the darn car. My wife say's I'm being mean since we did tell her she gets it fixed she can use it.

Now am i out of line? or what?

Her parents fricken piss me off. Her step-father got hurt in Vietnam and can't work (the guy really wants to work. but can bearly walk, not upset with him at all). so he gets SS. Her mother has 3 degrees (veterinarian, and 2 in child psychology) but REFUSES to work. She uses the fact that Grove (step dad) is hurt he needs attention 24/7 wich he does not! and they have a 3 year old foster child.
they are always needed loans (they do pay them back) or needing to use our checking account to pay for ads in the paper (they breed dogs and cats).

I'm just getting fed up with it. bah!
 

maziwanka

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see. you were the one who wanted to pocket the extra money she uses to fix the car. its not really her fault. as long as she completely pays for any and all costs associated with using the car, it seems fine. dont expect to make money off your in laws.
 

pyonir

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It's family, man. Sounds to me like you are over reacting, and/or trying to take advantage of them.
 

waggy

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heh nope not trying to take advantage of them. they want use of the car for like 2 months. we still have to pay full coverage on it.


Guess i just feel we are being taken advantage of yet again. But yeah i may be going off worse then is needed. Just felt that $150 for the use of a car for 2 months was fine. especially since they agreed to $244 first.
 

maziwanka

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Originally posted by: waggy
heh nope not trying to take advantage of them. they want use of the car for like 2 months. we still have to pay full coverage on it.


Guess i just feel we are being taken advantage of yet again. But yeah i may be going off worse then is needed. Just felt that $150 for the use of a car for 2 months was fine. especially since they agreed to $244 first.

well maybe its not that out of line to ask them to pay for some of the insurance. esp if they've been leeching off you in the past for random things
 

pyonir

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Originally posted by: maziwanka
Originally posted by: waggy
heh nope not trying to take advantage of them. they want use of the car for like 2 months. we still have to pay full coverage on it.


Guess i just feel we are being taken advantage of yet again. But yeah i may be going off worse then is needed. Just felt that $150 for the use of a car for 2 months was fine. especially since they agreed to $244 first.

well maybe its not that out of line to ask them to pay for some of the insurance. esp if they've been leeching off you in the past for random things

that was my next suggestion.
 

eLiu

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Hrm, I'd say fixed is fixed. It sounds more like you agreed to let her borrow the car if she fixes it. So, whether fixing it costs 5 cents or 500 bucks doesn't really matter. (at least that's how i see it)

-eric
 

UnoSigmaPi

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Originally posted by: maziwanka
Originally posted by: waggy
heh nope not trying to take advantage of them. they want use of the car for like 2 months. we still have to pay full coverage on it.


Guess i just feel we are being taken advantage of yet again. But yeah i may be going off worse then is needed. Just felt that $150 for the use of a car for 2 months was fine. especially since they agreed to $244 first.

well maybe its not that out of line to ask them to pay for some of the insurance. esp if they've been leeching off you in the past for random things
this is a tough one, but i think i'm going to have to agree. Maybe you sould let them know where the extra money is going. i.e. car insureance
 

waggy

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Originally posted by: z0mb13
I wish to rent the space under your topic for $240

:D
just paypal me the funds! and i will set it to anything (that wont get me banned)!


yeah i'm going to see if they want to chip in on insurance ($39 a mont). heh one of my sister-in-laws asked if we were going to pay for gas also. Once i started laughing she figured out that i was not.

We do a LOT for them. Not just financial but helping with other stuff. There are a lot of times i just feel I am being taken advantage of.


oh Sosa is playing again! go cubs!
 

z0mb13

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whats the worst curse that god give to a man who has two wifes??

two sets of in laws..

:D:D


oh and by the way, if ur inlaw ever fuxor ur car.. u will feel waayyyy more pissed
 

farmercal

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Unless you are planning to divorce your wife (which I doubt), it might behove you to stay on good terms with the in-laws.
 

waggy

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Originally posted by: farmercal
Unless you are planning to divorce your wife (which I doubt), it might behove you to stay on good terms with the in-laws.

heh my wife is getting fed up with her also. She is getting tired of hearing about how they can't afford stuff or medical payments etc.

ohwell. after sitting down and calming down for a while i guess maybe i am blowing it out of proportion.
 

KarenMarie

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How would you feel if someone did this to you?

Anyway, on a realistic note... if you did this, and they ever found out... they would NEVER let you live it down. Not ever!
 

waggy

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
How would you feel if someone did this to you?

Anyway, on a realistic note... if you did this, and they ever found out... they would NEVER let you live it down. Not ever!

heh yeah they would at least untile next month when they need $300 to pay for mortgage or something.
 

v3rrv3

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Originally posted by: eLiu
Hrm, I'd say fixed is fixed. It sounds more like you agreed to let her borrow the car if she fixes it. So, whether fixing it costs 5 cents or 500 bucks doesn't really matter. (at least that's how i see it)

But technically didn't Waggy fix it?

- Kevin
 

TitanDiddly

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Your inlaws suck. 1. You are right about the car. She's stupid. Really stupid. 2. Urge them to be independent, maybe get your wife to have a 'heart to heart' or 'hand to face' with the three degees lady to get some sense into her.
 

Yossarian

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if you want them to pay for using the car, fine. don't hide it as the inflated price of a brake job.
 

freakflag

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Pheh. Small potatoes.
My G/F's mom touched me up for $2500 and, like a drooling idiot, I gave it to her. 5 months later she pays me back $2k (with her husbands tax refund) and promises to pay me back a little every week 'till we're even. Right. That was 4 months ago and I haven't seen dime one. Then, last week, she has the cajones to call me...at work... and try to touch me up again for another $1700!!!! She starts out the conversation with "I know I still owe you $500, but I'm gonna get you that real soon....."

My advice, give her the reciepts, the money and the car because you're getting off light. If nothing else, it'll shut her up and she'll leave you alone.