If you're just starting out, you might check for local consulting firms that need slave labor, uh, I mean entry level workers 😉 . A friend picked up some database development experience that way, starting with zero work experience. A small shop might also be more likely to overlook lack of a degree.
PS I'd recommend this over trying to do work for friends or friends of friends if you can. Much better to learn and make mistakes with strangers 🙂