K1052
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Yes those are advantages of marriage. That is not what she said though, she said that people had been telling gays that they couldn't spend the rest of their lives together before this. Which is not true at all. Any race, color, or gender was free to live with whoever before this. It is not about spending the rest of their life with someone, but benefits. Not that I am saying it's wrong to want them, but she's not being honest about it all.
Marriage confers a host of legal protections that simple co-habitation doesn't. Even if you have the appropriate durable power of attorney documents it often isn't as cut and dried as you can run into administrative obstacles. For example I'd rather not be on the phone with my lawyer if my partner is laying in a hospital dying and they elected to ignore my power of attorney docs (this has happened to people). I am also fortunate to have the financial and educational wherewithal to obtain these documents in the first place, many people are not so lucky or even know they could need them.
