For the ATOTers here in a long term relationship - How do you keep the relationship fresh and interesting..

[moshquerade]

different positions.

 

[Qianglong]

Originally posted by: EmperorIQ
yes, i've been with my gf for 5.5 years. I don't get bored with her, but at times we do just sit around and say "what should we do?" I don't think I am ever bored with her though. I'm happy enough to just be around her. As long as she's not one of those "you hae to be around me every minute that you are free" type of girls, ya know what i mean?

This is the most accurate feeling I am having now haha.

 

[slag]

Originally posted by: j00fek
sex toys

QFT. as crude as it may sound, from what ive heard, they work.

 

[lokiju]

Effort?

Takes effort from both to keep things fresh.

Try doing things totally out of the norm for you two and make an effort to break up the routine.

 

[piasabird]

There is life after Sex. Get a hobby. Expand your horizons and you will expand your mind. Sex all the time is too one dimensional.

 

[SamurAchzar]

I enter it from behind.

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Edit: sorry, got confused with the thread about dogs. I'm just happy to be around her.

 

[Lola]

Originally posted by: slag

Originally posted by: j00fek
sex toys

QFT. as crude as it may sound, from what ive heard, they work.

for many couples, it does help, but just the simple thought of finding new ways to arouse the other person. and more importantly not just because you feel it is your job because you are married/together but because you want to.
Also, i think that a lot of time, sex needs to not be in the equation AS much as it was in the begining. Sex is always important and special, but if you find other ways to arouse each other outside of the bedroom and in other ways, it will help the whole of the relationship.

 

[DanTMWTMP]

heeh wow, a first YAGT with actual constructive posts, solid discussions, and mixed with humor here and there .

I like this thread, it has a lot of good information and advice.

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: DanTMWTMP
heeh wow, a first YAGT with actual constructive posts, solid discussions, and mixed with humor here and there .

I like this thread, it has a lot of good information and advice.

Guess mods banning spree for insenitive comments helps :Q