For all u wanna-be Casanovas, Don Juans, playah

sixone

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The problem during most of their dates, he explains, was that the women never really knew what the men wanted from them. Is your interest romantic? Do you really find me attractive? The SOI should make it clear, and it is as simple as telling them, for instance: "Wow, not only are you funny and intelligent, you're really sexy, too."

Thats nice, and all - but in no way a statement of intent. :confused:
 

neovan

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"Not only are you smart, but you're SEXY"

I'm gonna try that out on my wife.
 

deadlyapp

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Interesting, although I would imagine one could do this on their own instead of paying 1600 for it and get the same results.

Most of those tips i've picked up, and i'm only 18. I had never heard it called statement of intent though. Although I do slip that into casual conversation with someone I'm attracted to.
 

Xstatic1

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lemme save you guys $1600 & 3 days of "bootcamp"--engage in good conversation (this means really listen to what she's saying or not saying if that's the case); be sincere (good eye contact is also a plus); be yourself 'cause if you're trying to be someone you're not, she'll figure it all out sooner or later; don't think you're gonna have sex on the 1st date (like some of you here think) just 'cause you bought or made her dinner (self-respecting women don't give it up the same day/night they meet you). that's a good start. please paypal me at...<just kidding>.