Originally posted by: ultra laser
In response to Craig:
1. Not being able to conceive due to medical problems is not the same as not being able to conceive due to strange male+male or female+female couplings. I think heterosexuals with medical problems should be able to adopt.
You have renounced your own position that 'if nature wanted them to raise children, they'd be able to bear children'. If it doesn't apply to straights, it doesn't apply to gays.
2. Having religious, vegetarian, or flat-earth parents does not inhibit the child from seeing normal male+female interaction, and how a mother+father relationship works.
Further, kids need to see their mother and father interact, mainly so they will have some kind of basis for their behavior when they (the children) become parents themselves in the future.
You have arbitraily selected on way people are unusual, and said it is a problem for children while not saying that about countless other ways people are different. So your 'because they're different' is out the window as well. Now you get to prove why gay deserves to get special discrimination - prove how children are hurt.
We both know why you really say gay matters - no rational reason, but rather bigotry.
That bigotry leads you to search for some defensible excuse - and as they're torn down you search for new ones - currently you have settled on the 'role models' argument.
The problem you have is that study after study has been done and they show that the children are *just as well off* in every measured way with gay parents.
Your ASSUMPTION based on yout BIGOTED desire to hate gays is shown wrong, and you could care less, because you don't care about the children you care about hating gays.
Also, statistically, gays are grossly abnormal, making up 1-3% of any given population.
So? If blacks were 0.1%, 1%, 10% or 100% of the population, would that make them unfit as parents? I don't care if there's one gay couple, a million or 10 million.
Please post some of these studies that show that kids growing up in a gay household see healthy mother+father interactions on a daily basis.
Try unloading your question to somethign about what's demonstrably good for the kids.
Here are some pointers to studies.
3. No, you hold certain opinions and anyone else who doesn't share them is the boogyman. Instead of discussing the issue like an adult, you call names like a child.
Wrong. You make any valid point and it's fine. You display bigotry and I'll call it bigotry. You can say what you like, it doesn't change what you are and do.
That's not like 'a child', which is merely an attack for you to try to hide from the fact of your own behavior.
You're the one spouting things without any logic or facts to back them up, and you are called on it for what you do.
4. Nature excludes a lot of people from a lot of things. In my youth I strongly desired to be a concert pianist, but my hands are too small. While I can easily play Bach, I'm physically unable to play Liszt. Life isn't fair - that's just how it is. We shouldn't punish children by putting them in strange living environments just to appease a very small portion of the population.
The only reason you have to restrict the rights of gay people are lies you make up because you are bigoted against them.
You can't be a pianist - but if you had the hands, and played the piano beautifully, and 100 classical music experts were asked for an opinion and said you were a good pianist, but you were denied the right to play the piano because some ass was making up lies about why you should not be allowed to, then that would be like what you are doing to good gay parents.
You make all kinds of claims about 'punishing' children that you can't back up.
5. I don't hate gays. I just don't think they make suitable parents. There's a difference.
Like most bigots, you are not aware of your own bigotry, and you believe that.
But it's not true. You don't believe gays can be good parents because you are bigoted, which is a hatred of them that blinds you.