FINAL UPDATE:
So I ended up giving the guy $600 cash and had him sign a waiver of liability. He definitely saw an opportunity to pocket a lot of money out of this and tried every trick possible to milk more out of me. He was trying to get $800 + 3 day car rental for an estimate he never got and a rental he didn't intend on doing. When I was speaking to him on the phone I could hear his friends egging him on for more money and telling him what to say. I politely used responses that let him realize that I wasn't stupid and could tell that he didn't really intend to get it fixed and didn't beleive that he had this special shop that cost more but it was the only one he trusted etc etc, he tried every trick including going to insurance after all, and I called his bluffs and reminded him that I was doing the right thing when most people would not have and that money was going from my pocket to his. When I drove out give him the money he smelled heavily like pot. Whatever, he signed the waiver, he was happy and I'm happy it's over.
I know the lesson in this is to just be a more attentive driver at all times (I also need to be in less of a rush) and that it could have been worse. But damn by the end I am just feeling really aggravated and not so sure that I'm happy I did the right thing cause, I could easily have gotten away with it, there is not a scratch on my car, no one was around and he would never have been able to know who it was, but I did the right thing anyways and this guy didn't hesitate to try and milk this opportunity to pocket a lot of extra money out of it.
Thanks AT for the advice.
UPDATE 2: also added photos on page 2 of thread
UPDATE 1: Met the guy and his girlfriend at a local coffee shop, it went pretty well considering, I said sorry, he said he appreciated me leaving him a note with my information. It's a 98 EL and not a 03 TL like I thought. We discussed costs and body shops. He was going to get priced from a shop he's been to before and says he has a friend who could do the paint job for him. He said he would just want cash and he would get the work done in the summer when there is no more snow/salt on the roads. I said if it wasn't too expensive or too complicated then I wouldn't need to go to insurance and he agreed.
I don't know if I can still get raped with costs, though he seemed like a reasonable guy. Funny thing is, my roommate just got his mirror taken off the day before and that guy just took off.
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backed into a white acura (looks an older model, maybe 1995-2000), dented the drivers side door and exchanged a bit of paint, didn't look like an easy fix, left a note with my phone number on their windshield, any idea how much it will cost to fix? I just want to pay cash and not deal with insurance, any adivce on places to look for replacement door? any one know a cheap body shop in the Toronto area?
Any help/advice very appreciated, thank you
So I ended up giving the guy $600 cash and had him sign a waiver of liability. He definitely saw an opportunity to pocket a lot of money out of this and tried every trick possible to milk more out of me. He was trying to get $800 + 3 day car rental for an estimate he never got and a rental he didn't intend on doing. When I was speaking to him on the phone I could hear his friends egging him on for more money and telling him what to say. I politely used responses that let him realize that I wasn't stupid and could tell that he didn't really intend to get it fixed and didn't beleive that he had this special shop that cost more but it was the only one he trusted etc etc, he tried every trick including going to insurance after all, and I called his bluffs and reminded him that I was doing the right thing when most people would not have and that money was going from my pocket to his. When I drove out give him the money he smelled heavily like pot. Whatever, he signed the waiver, he was happy and I'm happy it's over.
I know the lesson in this is to just be a more attentive driver at all times (I also need to be in less of a rush) and that it could have been worse. But damn by the end I am just feeling really aggravated and not so sure that I'm happy I did the right thing cause, I could easily have gotten away with it, there is not a scratch on my car, no one was around and he would never have been able to know who it was, but I did the right thing anyways and this guy didn't hesitate to try and milk this opportunity to pocket a lot of extra money out of it.
Thanks AT for the advice.
UPDATE 2: also added photos on page 2 of thread
UPDATE 1: Met the guy and his girlfriend at a local coffee shop, it went pretty well considering, I said sorry, he said he appreciated me leaving him a note with my information. It's a 98 EL and not a 03 TL like I thought. We discussed costs and body shops. He was going to get priced from a shop he's been to before and says he has a friend who could do the paint job for him. He said he would just want cash and he would get the work done in the summer when there is no more snow/salt on the roads. I said if it wasn't too expensive or too complicated then I wouldn't need to go to insurance and he agreed.
I don't know if I can still get raped with costs, though he seemed like a reasonable guy. Funny thing is, my roommate just got his mirror taken off the day before and that guy just took off.
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backed into a white acura (looks an older model, maybe 1995-2000), dented the drivers side door and exchanged a bit of paint, didn't look like an easy fix, left a note with my phone number on their windshield, any idea how much it will cost to fix? I just want to pay cash and not deal with insurance, any adivce on places to look for replacement door? any one know a cheap body shop in the Toronto area?
Any help/advice very appreciated, thank you
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