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Fighting w/ your spouse / lover

blunt instruments (providing you both have them) is ok, when it graduates to knives/swords/firearms you know you've gone too far 😉
 
i'd hate to spend more than 2 hours total over 4days arguing (low level arguments, not 'fighting' per se) with my gf, and i live with her.
 
Well I don't know about a SO, but my best (female) friend and I have known each other for over 4 years now and I don't think we've spent more than 1-2 hours fighting in the entire time we've known each other.
 
there is no "set amount" which is deemed too much; for one thing, it varies from couple to couple. you should think not about how much you're arguing, but whether or not its worth it at the end of the day.
 
If its more than an hour, man, its time to start thinking about what is actually at the heart of the matter. Not to mention, you prolly need to be HOOKIN HER UP more. If its the other way around, then maybe she just isnt happy, and wants out. Who knows, it all depends on what the fight is about.

Whatever you do, dont go to bed mad. It only drives seperation in the bedroom, which in turn makes the fun leave out the front door.

 
when this results

if that is too far, I say none at all. the meaning of "lover" is not "kid sister" or "stupid drunken friends"
you should work it out and not fight at all. so my vote on your poll enters at the <1hour radio button
 
Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
Over one year and no fights.

And yes the sex IS good.
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so you've never argued about anything? i find that hard to believe...esp if you live with her. We argue about stuff reasonably regularly, but it rarely goes beyond a fairly calm and sensible debate...which to my mind is the way it should be, differences of opinon are an important part of what makes us unique, and interesting, i'd hate it if she agreed with everything i said...
 
What really bothers me is we have the same fight over and over.



Inlaws... the 6 letter dirty word! If it wasnt for inlaw issues, we would be great.
 
Originally posted by: cshel
What really bothers me is we have the same fight over and over.



Inlaws... the 6 letter dirty word! If it wasnt for inlaw issues, we would be great.
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I married a woman who was an orphan. . .
 
If you're fighting every day, there's another issue. My wife and I used to be like that, and it turned out she was diagnosed with depression. She got some pills and we fight like once a month now 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Fritzo
If you're fighting every day, there's another issue. My wife and I used to be like that, and it turned out she was diagnosed with depression. She got some pills and we fight like once a month now 🙂
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ROFL....

That's funny...
Drug your wife/GF
 
Depends on the circumstances. My wife and I fight occasionally, they get pretty heated but we normally talk about it after and resolve some of the issues..However, I have learned to IGNORE her when she has PMS or other hormonal problems, those situations are no win situations and it is better to keep your mouth shut and take the irrational behavior 🙂
 
Do you mean actively fighting such as yelling, throwing, hitting, etc? Or do you mean jsut being in the mindset of fighting such as not talking, etc.
 
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Depends on the circumstances. My wife and I fight occasionally, they get pretty heated but we normally talk about it after and resolve some of the issues..However, I have learned to IGNORE her when she has PMS or other hormonal problems, those situations are no win situations and it is better to keep your mouth shut and take the irrational behavior 🙂
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Oh dear lord, don't even want to THINK about discussing something when that PMS autorun feature is turned on! :Q
 
Originally posted by: Papagayo
Originally posted by: Fritzo
If you're fighting every day, there's another issue. My wife and I used to be like that, and it turned out she was diagnosed with depression. She got some pills and we fight like once a month now 🙂
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ROFL....

That's funny...
Drug your wife/GF
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Many times that's the issue. My aunt had something like that going on. She married a GREAT guy, and ended up fighting everyday with him. This guy will give you the shirt off his back, he's so nice. He does everything around the house. Makes good money. She would flip out on him... it was crazy. She had depression. Now they rarely fight.

Edit: Me and my girl dont fight that much.
 
Originally posted by: Papagayo
Originally posted by: Fritzo
If you're fighting every day, there's another issue. My wife and I used to be like that, and it turned out she was diagnosed with depression. She got some pills and we fight like once a month now 🙂
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ROFL....

That's funny...
Drug your wife/GF
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my GF is 1000X better when she's on her meds :beer:
 
We just a have a policy that we don't go to bed angry. All arguments are resolved before going to sleep. It's just not fun to go to bed angry, and wake up still angry.

 
Originally posted by: dug777
Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
Over one year and no fights.

And yes the sex IS good.
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so you've never argued about anything? i find that hard to believe...esp if you live with her. We argue about stuff reasonably regularly, but it rarely goes beyond a fairly calm and sensible debate...which to my mind is the way it should be, differences of opinon are an important part of what makes us unique, and interesting, i'd hate it if she agreed with everything i said...
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We won't necessarily agree on everything, but it's never an argument.
 
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