Fiance's girlfriend getting married

LuckyTaxi

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Two years ago my fiance cheated on me cuz I didnt have much time for her. Between evening classes and my day time job, I rarely had time to see her. Well, I forgave her and now we've been together since then and we're currently living together. Fast forward to 2005.

She received a phone call from her best friend yesterday, and she said she was going to get marry next year. Well, here's the kicker. Her fiance's brother was the guy my fiance was messing with. Two years has passed but I'm sure stuff will happen at the wedding. It seems every asian wedding where the couples are rather young, a fight usually break outs. So, who knows what this moron will try to do if he sees me with my fiance. I wont start anything since I'm too "old" and mature for this type of stuff. however, I cannot say I won't attend because its her best friend, but we'll see.
 

shilala

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Oct 5, 2004
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If you're as "old" and mature as you think, then this isn't a question in the first place.
If you forgave the girlfriend, then you forgave her. If the wedding is important to her then you need to go. There's no reason why you can't explain to her that you'd be uncomfortable with her being around the "boyfriend". There shouldn't be any reason why she'd have to do any more than say hello to him. You should certainly be able to handle that.
 

PingSpike

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Feb 25, 2004
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Weddings suck man, sounds like you've got a golden excuse to dodge this one.
 

moshquerade

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Nov 1, 2001
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drama-drama-drama

sounds like a typical wedding. has there ever been a wedding without drama?
more importantly, do you trust your gf now? if so, just go, and laugh in the guy's face.
 

Pepsei

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Dec 14, 2001
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meh, most asian girls usually have the follow traits, fugly, or too thin (unless korean, then it would be fat).

hard to find one with a good figure and good looking at the same time. I guess when you grow up and look at the same asian popluations day in and day out, they become blend.