Fat Chicks: Do you find fat guys more attractive?

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PingSpike

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Fat guys are going to have a much easier time finding a woman, than fat chicks are going to have finding a man. Women are more forgiving on the fat issue.

By the same token, really skinny chicks have a much easier time finding a man than really skinny dudes have finding a woman.

Most women say they don't mind a husky fellow, but they don't want a skinny guy.
 

hzl eyed grl

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There are like a dozen gals who post here... They have it tough enough, no way are any of them going to admit to being chubby.
Hmmm I've been on here since '99 and nowhere have I said I was skinny. I'll be the first to admit that I'm chubby. I don't care. I am who I am. I've dated big guys and little guys alike. I'm now with the love of my life who happens to be very thin. But....His size isn't what drew me to him. It was his heart and his mind. He's the best guy I've ever been with and I love him completely.
 

Pepsei

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Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: Pepsei
I dated one chubby chick before... it was unpleasant in the bedroom...but she does have nice personalities....

I dated one skinny chick before... it was unpleasant in the bedroom...but she does have nice personalities....

Never heard of more cushion for the pushin???

lol... I have no problem with the cushion, except she's a dead fish... and only do one position, and always have a "Wrap it up" box.

Now, it might have something to do with my skill at the time...
 

Linux23

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Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
There are like a dozen gals who post here... They have it tough enough, no way are any of them going to admit to being chubby.
Hmmm I've been on here since '99 and nowhere have I said I was skinny. I'll be the first to admit that I'm chubby. I don't care. I am who I am. I've dated big guys and little guys alike. I'm now with the love of my life who happens to be very thin. But....His size isn't what drew me to him. It was his heart and his mind. He's the best guy I've ever been with and I love him completely.

:):beer:
 

hzl eyed grl

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Originally posted by: Linux23
Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
There are like a dozen gals who post here... They have it tough enough, no way are any of them going to admit to being chubby.
Hmmm I've been on here since '99 and nowhere have I said I was skinny. I'll be the first to admit that I'm chubby. I don't care. I am who I am. I've dated big guys and little guys alike. I'm now with the love of my life who happens to be very thin. But....His size isn't what drew me to him. It was his heart and his mind. He's the best guy I've ever been with and I love him completely.

:):beer:

:beer:
 

nick1985

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"its whats on the inside that counts"

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thats just something ugly people say ;):beer:
 

SackOfAllTrades

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Originally posted by: nick1985
"its whats on the inside that counts"

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thats just something ugly people say ;):beer:

From an episode of Insomniac:

"It's what's inside that counts"
"yup"
"And hopefully that'll be you later tonite"

Oh ya, he was at a fat ppl bar in that segment.
 

Thegonagle

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Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Originally posted by: Linux23
Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
There are like a dozen gals who post here... They have it tough enough, no way are any of them going to admit to being chubby.
Hmmm I've been on here since '99 and nowhere have I said I was skinny. I'll be the first to admit that I'm chubby. I don't care. I am who I am. I've dated big guys and little guys alike. I'm now with the love of my life who happens to be very thin. But....His size isn't what drew me to him. It was his heart and his mind. He's the best guy I've ever been with and I love him completely.

:):beer:

:beer:

Hzl, you say some of the sweetest things. HeyZeus is a lucky man.
 

Linux23

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Originally posted by: Thegonagle
Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Originally posted by: Linux23
Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
There are like a dozen gals who post here... They have it tough enough, no way are any of them going to admit to being chubby.
Hmmm I've been on here since '99 and nowhere have I said I was skinny. I'll be the first to admit that I'm chubby. I don't care. I am who I am. I've dated big guys and little guys alike. I'm now with the love of my life who happens to be very thin. But....His size isn't what drew me to him. It was his heart and his mind. He's the best guy I've ever been with and I love him completely.

:):beer:

:beer:

Hzl, you say some of the sweetest things. HeyZeus is a lucky man.

yeah. i remember seeing a picture of her a couple of years ago. she seems like a really sweet person. i posted a pic, and she said i looked like LL Cool J. Lol. She probably doesn't remember.
 

hzl eyed grl

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Originally posted by: Thegonagle
Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
Originally posted by: Linux23
Originally posted by: hzl_eyed_grl
There are like a dozen gals who post here... They have it tough enough, no way are any of them going to admit to being chubby.
Hmmm I've been on here since '99 and nowhere have I said I was skinny. I'll be the first to admit that I'm chubby. I don't care. I am who I am. I've dated big guys and little guys alike. I'm now with the love of my life who happens to be very thin. But....His size isn't what drew me to him. It was his heart and his mind. He's the best guy I've ever been with and I love him completely.

:):beer:

:beer:

Hzl, you say some of the sweetest things. HeyZeus is a lucky man.
Awwwww, thank you. I haven't seen you in a while. How've you been?

Linux - Thank you. I'm certainly not sweet all the time. (Eh, who is....lol) I'm not sure if I remember saying that about you or not. Show me the pic again and I probably will. heehee
 

Geekbabe

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All I can say is that some of you are going to wind up pretty lonely if you base your relationship criteria totally on looks.Appearances do matter but looks can/do change and I've met more than my fair share of really nice looking men who had zero going for them on the inside,when the looks went,they had nothing else to offer.

Also if you're demanding perfection be prepared to offer the same and be amazed at the amount of sheer work and time that's involved in looking really good.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Also if you're demanding perfection be prepared to offer the same and be amazed at the amount of sheer work and time that's involved in looking really good.

Looking good is easy for me ;)

heheheh

&Aring;
 

olds

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Also if you're demanding perfection be prepared to offer the same and be amazed at the amount of sheer work and time that's involved in looking really good.

Looking good is easy for me ;)

heheheh

&Aring;
Must resist...... Don't take the bait..... AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!
<---- Head explodes

 

Eli

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Much of this thread is quite appalling and makes me wonder why I even bother to post here much of the time.

Kudos to those of you who aren't immature, material, self-serving whiney little b!tches that will never know the real meaning of the word "love".

:)
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Eli
Much of this thread is quite appalling and makes me wonder why I even bother to post here much of the time.

Kudos to those of you who aren't immature, material, self-serving whiney little b!tches that will never know the real meaning of the word "love".

:)

Most of the folks posting in this thread aren't experienced enough yet to understand that most times the kind of love you give is the kind of love you end up getting back.

Obviously there has to be some chemistry,physical attraction in an intimate relationship but if you're going to play things strictly on physical appearances you'd best remember the saying "he who lives by the sword dies by the sword"
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Eli
Much of this thread is quite appalling and makes me wonder why I even bother to post here much of the time.

Kudos to those of you who aren't immature, material, self-serving whiney little b!tches that will never know the real meaning of the word "love".

:)

Most of the folks posting in this thread aren't experienced enough yet to understand that most times the kind of love you give is the kind of love you end up getting back.

Obviously there has to be some chemistry,physical attraction in an intimate relationship but if you're going to play things strictly on physical appearances you'd best remember the saying "he who lives by the sword dies by the sword"

Heh, last time I looked at that poll...about 1/4 of the people responding never had a gf.

Personally, I couldn't be with a girl who is morbidly obese but somewhat overweight isn't a problem for me. Yes, I require some physical attractiveness before I'd date someone but my real "deal breaking" demand is intelligence and personality. I'm not perfect and I don't expect the person I'm with to be perfect either.
 

JimRaynor

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I'm fat, but for some reason girls seem to like it.

P.S. The fat goes straight to my penis.
 

hzl eyed grl

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Originally posted by: JimRaynor
I'm fat, but for some reason girls seem to like it.

P.S. The fat goes straight to my penis.
LOL! That made me laugh.
 

Gulzakar

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It is personality...but don't let your lack of esteem get in the way, that will mess it up. :)
 

Anubis

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my GF is skinny as skinny gets and she likes dudes with a few extra pounds on them, which is good for me because im no abacrombie model, she actually doesnt like guys that are ripped and such