My understanding is that larger apertures = bigger glass = more weight = not as effective VR.
Think about it, if you have a 200 F/2.8, you've got a few inches of high grade glass that you have to be moving very accurately hundreds of times a second...the VR systems currently in use just can't keep up unless you want to spend $$$$ more.
Of course, I could be completely wrong (and probably am, it happens a lot), but the bits and pieces I've read indicate that's the biggest problem and why VR on the faster lenses is not practical.