Long story behind this one, but to summarize it, my best female friend wants to have sex with me. We're both vigins. She won't be my girlfriend anytime soon, and there is a looong, twisted, sick story behind that, but its not my fault. Chances are, I'll probbaly do it, but I was just wondering what some of your guys thoughts on F-Buddies were.
F-Buddies. Your opinion, right? Wrong? Why?
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Go buy some lifestyles pronto! Should the situation arise, you need to be prepared. If it doesnt' happen consider it buying insurance for $5.
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F-Buddies.. Yeah right. Not if you are both Virgins. F-Buddies are experienced and have no emotional hangups about it. If you are going to get your first "tang" and you don't want any emotional ties then pick us some Ho you never seen before an probably wont see again.. Be sure to bring a rain coat and check yourself the next morning for critters... Hmm on second thought maybe your friend might not be a bad idea!!
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<< Kiss your friendship goodbye >>
yep.. and i can almost promise you that it will turn into something emotional.. even if it isnt now. Especially becuase it will be your first time. It really cant be a healthy situation. If you want to be with her, be with her. If you want a F-buddy.. use your right hand..
Ha ha, you're a virgin? I give you five seconds before you blow your wad and that's before you even touch her.
if you film it I'll buy the rights to broadcast it on the internet and give you 50% of all proceeds >=P
horrible idea in my opinion. the emotional ramifications will be unworth the 25 seconds of pleasure. i cant see a way that you could do it and still walk away with any sort of real friendship.
<<just wondering what some of your guys thoughts on F-Buddies were. >>
It rocks!
If both of you are virgin, you should experience your first time as whole (i.e. without condom.) But make sure that she's safe from getting pregnant (wait 2, 3 days after her period)
I have nothing against the idea of having f*buddy but, IMO, both parties must know EXACTLY what they're doing and make sure there's no hassle and string attached. To be honest, majority of women are willing to have sex with you, especially become your f*buddy, if and only if she's already had feelings for you. Normally, women don't sleep with stranger or someone they don't love (drunk, getting even/revenged and/or being a slut are exceptional)
In your case, since both of you are virgin, it'll be harder for you two to be just f*buddies. As Red Dawn said: "F-Buddies are experienced and have no emotional hangups about it. But if you really like her then you might just give it a try. Good luck!
It rocks!
If both of you are virgin, you should experience your first time as whole (i.e. without condom.) But make sure that she's safe from getting pregnant (wait 2, 3 days after her period)
I have nothing against the idea of having f*buddy but, IMO, both parties must know EXACTLY what they're doing and make sure there's no hassle and string attached. To be honest, majority of women are willing to have sex with you, especially become your f*buddy, if and only if she's already had feelings for you. Normally, women don't sleep with stranger or someone they don't love (drunk, getting even/revenged and/or being a slut are exceptional)
In your case, since both of you are virgin, it'll be harder for you two to be just f*buddies. As Red Dawn said: "F-Buddies are experienced and have no emotional hangups about it. But if you really like her then you might just give it a try. Good luck!
IMHO it's an emotional train wreck waiting to happen.
One of you will get attached, & it's screeching wheels & twisted metal from there on out.
Viper GTS
One of you will get attached, & it's screeching wheels & twisted metal from there on out.
Viper GTS
I'm not going to make any moral judgement about it. But if you're both virgins, I can guarantee it's a bad idea. Even if you were both experienced people in your mid twenties, there's probably a 1 in 5 chance you can actually pull it off without messing things up.
If you do it, you'll regret it.
Sex is fun, and I know how you feel about it as a virgin (I was there once, too), but It's not worth losing a friendship over. Sex does come with emotional attachments for most people, especailly the first time.
If you do it, you'll regret it.
Sex is fun, and I know how you feel about it as a virgin (I was there once, too), but It's not worth losing a friendship over. Sex does come with emotional attachments for most people, especailly the first time.
<< horrible idea in my opinion. the emotional ramifications will be unworth the 25 seconds of pleasure. i cant see a way that you could do it and still walk away with any sort of real friendship. >>
If it is only lasting 25 seconds , you need some more practice
not your gf anytime soon?
now not, i doubt any girl (especially first-timers) would be able keep emotionally unattatched to making love
if she wants to couple up with you (cuz you dont) and is offering sex to pull you in then thats exactly what youre gonna get - pulled in
if she dosent want be your gf - fo' sho - go for it, then YOU gotta stay emotionally distanced
now not, i doubt any girl (especially first-timers) would be able keep emotionally unattatched to making love
if she wants to couple up with you (cuz you dont) and is offering sex to pull you in then thats exactly what youre gonna get - pulled in
if she dosent want be your gf - fo' sho - go for it, then YOU gotta stay emotionally distanced
Well, on one hand i think i know why she is willing to do this. She looks at him as a good friend and best canidate to "try it". Honestly, I like her attitude. But, as virgins, I do believe they both really don't know what they are getting into, but you really can't know what you are getting into unless you really have had sex and had to deal with the aftermath. A real catch-22 there. I would imagine this has a 60-70% chance of ending uneasy or badly at the end. Still, who here had a good experience their first time?
My first time was with a f-buddy, myself. We are still friends. Part of me still feels a bit weird about the situation. I would have loved to have taken things further and still would have liked to exploited the situation a bit more. Still, if you can keep it straight in you head that things are only for the gratification of you both and just have fun with it. Go for it! Just be safe and you will be fine.
My first time was with a f-buddy, myself. We are still friends. Part of me still feels a bit weird about the situation. I would have loved to have taken things further and still would have liked to exploited the situation a bit more
. Still, if you can keep it straight in you head that things are only for the gratification of you both and just have fun with it. Go for it! Just be safe and you will be fine.
I'm guessing that if she's willing to have sex with you (and particularly if she was the one who suggested it) that she's already viewing the relationship as more than just "friends." And if you're a halfway normal guy and she's a halfway normal girl, EVEN if you do consider this girl a "friend", odds are you're probably attracted to her already anyway. I met my girlfriend (now wife) through somewhat similar circumstances. We became very good "friends" in high school. But I didn't want to screw up our friendship so I did what any normal guy would do, I went out with her best friend Eventually that fell through because I really wanted to be with my "friend." I finally screwed up the courage to ask her out and we started dating (note: this is BEFORE we had sex together.) I think that was definitely the wisest course of action. Like most of the people on here, I think it's a disaster waiting to happen if you come at it from this angle. I know you say there's a long story behind it, but if both of you are even considering the possibility why don't you just go ahead and get everything out in the open and stop kidding each other??
Eventually that fell through because I really wanted to be with my "friend." I finally screwed up the courage to ask her out and we started dating (note: this is BEFORE we had sex together.) I think that was definitely the wisest course of action. Like most of the people on here, I think it's a disaster waiting to happen if you come at it from this angle. I know you say there's a long story behind it, but if both of you are even considering the possibility why don't you just go ahead and get everything out in the open and stop kidding each other??TRENDING THREADS
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