Since I've been listening to rap and hip-hop the n-word has been simultaneously used as a term of endearment and derision. For black women, the word of choice was 'bitches' (although Wu Tang did try to use ******ette here but it never caught on). Now, the word n-word is used for both sexes and by different races as terms of endearment and derision. However, culturally, if you're above a certain age and not black, you cannot use it at all or you'll be suspect.
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