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AgentJean

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Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Why is it that almost every girl I am intersted in is not single! The good ones are already taken!


Now, how to get them to break up with them and go out with me.....suggestions?

At least your not crying about every single girl your intersted in has a kid.
Kids are a total deal breaker here. Nothing ticks me off more than a single girl in her early 20s with a kid. :|

I'm 23. I dont want kids.
 

DaShen

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Originally posted by: pcnerd37
I have the exact same problem, every girl i find attractive already has a bf. That is why I have decided that for now im not even going to try to look for a relationship, if a girl wants to go out with me, she can ask, otherwise im going to focus on school.

Never burn bridges man. Don't go looking for one, but don't go blocking anything that could happen either. If you do, you will regret it.

 

NanoStuff

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They just say they have a boyfriend because they don't want you to touch their goodies, it's the easiest way out.
 
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Like someone earlier said, it's feast or famine. And women somehow pick up on whether or not a guy is single. It's weird like that.

I once hit on the girl that worked at the quick lube place (insert bad joke here) because she was very flirtatious. Anyway, I gave her my card with my email address and told her she should send me a pic of her paintings (I sure as hell wasn't interested in the paintings, but it was my in).

she looked at me and said "Well, I have a boyfriend."....to which I replied, "It's just email.". then, my nine year old son, sitting not three feet away said "Jeez Dad, smooth.".....busted on by my son, how cold.

So I never expected to hear from her, but she actually emailed me a week later saying she dumped the guy. I asked her out, and we had a blast from there. She travels a good bit and comes back to town every few months, which is fine by me ;). she actually comes in Friday and I'm recently out of a serious relationship so timing couldn't be better.
 

Xyo II

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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Like someone earlier said, it's feast or famine. And women somehow pick up on whether or not a guy is single. It's weird like that.

I once hit on the girl that worked at the quick lube place (insert bad joke here) because she was very flirtatious. Anyway, I gave her my card with my email address and told her she should send me a pic of her paintings (I sure as hell wasn't interested in the paintings, but it was my in).

she looked at me and said "Well, I have a boyfriend."....to which I replied, "It's just email.". then, my nine year old son, sitting not three feet away said "Jeez Dad, smooth.".....busted on by my son, how cold.

So I never expected to hear from her, but she actually emailed me a week later saying she dumped the guy. I asked her out, and we had a blast from there. She travels a good bit and comes back to town every few months, which is fine by me ;). she actually comes in Friday and I'm recently out of a serious relationship so timing couldn't be better.

PWNT :D
 

zephyrprime

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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Like someone earlier said, it's feast or famine. And women somehow pick up on whether or not a guy is single. It's weird like that.

I once hit on the girl that worked at the quick lube place (insert bad joke here) because she was very flirtatious. Anyway, I gave her my card with my email address and told her she should send me a pic of her paintings (I sure as hell wasn't interested in the paintings, but it was my in).

she looked at me and said "Well, I have a boyfriend."....to which I replied, "It's just email.". then, my nine year old son, sitting not three feet away said "Jeez Dad, smooth.".....busted on by my son, how cold.

So I never expected to hear from her, but she actually emailed me a week later saying she dumped the guy. I asked her out, and we had a blast from there. She travels a good bit and comes back to town every few months, which is fine by me ;). she actually comes in Friday and I'm recently out of a serious relationship so timing couldn't be better.
I wonder if she ever really had a boyfriend?

 

dr150

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Sep 18, 2003
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Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Why is it that almost every girl I am intersted in is not single! The good ones are already taken!


Now, how to get them to break up with them and go out with me.....suggestions?


You really are new to the game aren't you?

Women are as loyal as their OPTIONS. Unless they're madly in love with their BF (extreme minority), then their loyalty should always be second guessed.

90% girls I've slept with had BFs...even live-in BFs...

If a girl doesn't pay attention to you, it's b/c she doesn't like you in that way to begin with.

Also, the younger a lady is, the more disloyal they are. It's a maturity thing....

 
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Originally posted by: zephyrprime
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Like someone earlier said, it's feast or famine. And women somehow pick up on whether or not a guy is single. It's weird like that.

I once hit on the girl that worked at the quick lube place (insert bad joke here) because she was very flirtatious. Anyway, I gave her my card with my email address and told her she should send me a pic of her paintings (I sure as hell wasn't interested in the paintings, but it was my in).

she looked at me and said "Well, I have a boyfriend."....to which I replied, "It's just email.". then, my nine year old son, sitting not three feet away said "Jeez Dad, smooth.".....busted on by my son, how cold.

So I never expected to hear from her, but she actually emailed me a week later saying she dumped the guy. I asked her out, and we had a blast from there. She travels a good bit and comes back to town every few months, which is fine by me ;). she actually comes in Friday and I'm recently out of a serious relationship so timing couldn't be better.
I wonder if she ever really had a boyfriend?



she claimed to, but when I asked about him after a few dates out just to see what she'd say I got "Oh, I don't want to talk about that a$$hole" :D.
 

DaShen

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Originally posted by: dr150
Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Why is it that almost every girl I am intersted in is not single! The good ones are already taken!


Now, how to get them to break up with them and go out with me.....suggestions?


You really are new to the game aren't you?

Women are as loyal as their OPTIONS. Unless they're madly in love with their BF (extreme minority), then their loyalty should always be second guessed.

90% girls I've slept with had BFs...even live-in BFs...

If a girl doesn't pay attention to you, it's b/c she doesn't like you in that way to begin with.

Also, the younger a lady is, the more disloyal they are. It's a maturity thing....

QFT, it is a maturity thing. Lesson to be learned. Only date or attempt to date people who are mature. Otherwise you are in for a load of hurt.

As for the "game" playing. :( Good luck at a lasting relationship.
 

Rayden

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Do you really want to be with a girl who will leave whoever she is with to be with someone else? If she can leave her current boyfriend for you then she can leave you for someone else.